Going to be gone a bit

Vixandra

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No I'm not leaving forever.
Here's whats going on (also wrote this up for another forum I frequent so I'm not typing it over and over).

Today's been interesting to say the least. Woke up to a rather alarming email from my mother and found out my grandfather, mother's stepfather, who has not been in the best of health the past four years has gone downhill rapidly in the last two weeks. A history of a quad-bypass on his heart and a few other surgical issues, plus round the clock pain that's only helped by narcotics.
I'll spare you the details other then to say Monday he ended up falling out of his bed, my grandmother, frail and in ill health herself, couldn't get him back in so called the paramedics, etc. A hospital trip, an IDIOT ER doctor and some drama later and my Mom flew out to Phoenix. She was doing hourly medications and such, then Nana found out her prednisone had been doubled instead of halved by her fuckin pharmasist and so she's got pneumonia. So my aunt Carol flew out to help.
Well, Grandpa Bud's not doing too well and probably going to die within the week as he's in a coma-like state at the moment. Nana's doing a bit better- she's known this was coming for quite some time now and has been adjusting. My mom got her prednisone dose fixed (She's an RN) and is handling things there. She just needs some help and I need to go home- need a break from here and have to be with my family now. I've known this was coming but didn't think it'd be so soon.

I've talked with my unit command and they're going to help me get leave so I can fly home. Won't be on Lit much from Friday, the 24th until I get back into Japan, March 11th at the latest. If there's something you need me for, shoot me a PM here and I'll try to answer as soon as I can.

Thanks for listening and for any well wishes/prayers/good thoughts, etc.
*bows*
 
((((Vixie)))))

Take all the time you need, and know you'll be missed. Hope your "grands" get better so you and your family can relax...

Holler if you need anything, a shoulder, a vent, whatever. :rose: :rose:
 
(((((hugs)))))

good luck to you. i know how difficult this time is for you and your family.

my prayers go out to you and your family.
 
Our thoughts are with you during what can at the least be described as a difficult time. You are a strong woman so have no doubt you will get through it, but please remember to take care of you while you are being there for everyone else. I for one know these type circumstances are not the way one wishes for a trip back home. We will look forward to your return here. Take care.

Francisco & Catalina :rose:
 
Vixandra, you'll be missed, and I hope that the trip itself goes smoothly for you. Our thoughts are with you, and your family.
 
Ciara- thanks for the offer to vent, may end up taking you up on that.

Christy- every little bit helps. Thank you.

Francisco & Catalina- no this isn't why I wanted to go home but I'll be okay with it. Thank you for thinking about me.

Sunfox- other then taking so long, I'm sure the flights should be fine.

Thanks everyone for your thoughts.

Just found out my grandfather passed peacefully Monday morning, stateside time. Still going home to help with my grandmother and make sure the rest of my family is okay.
 
Vixandra said:
Just found out my grandfather passed peacefully Monday morning, stateside time. Still going home to help with my grandmother and make sure the rest of my family is okay.
Vix, our thoughts and good wishes go out to you and your family. If you need to talk, vent, or cry on a cyber-shoulder, I know there are many here, in all time zones, who will be happy to lend you an ear or shoulder. Huggles and warmth from all your friends.
 
Mistress Kitty

I will miss you. I will also include you and your family in my private health rites until you return...

(((HUGS)))
 
Sir Winston- thanks. It warms my heart to be so thought of by so many here.

Luna- *huggles* Not gone yet and will try to check in occasionally. Won't be leaving till Friday though- first hop out of here.
 
I am sorry you are having to deal with this... You and your family are in my prayers.
 
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