Going out dressed like a slut

[samba9]

My husband and i have been married for 5 yeras and have a fun and relaxed sex life. he has recently asked if we can have a role play night where we go out on the town with me going out dressed like a slut. he adores me and respects me but for one night he wants to be "that guy" with the girl everyone looks at. he has asked if i would wear a see through top with no bra and a miniskirt with no panties out to a bar.
i have never done anything like this before and although it scares me i want to fulfill my husbands fantasies, and who knows, maybe it'll be fun.

have/would any of you done anything like this? should i? or is it a bit much?

 

[hotnogs]

I can certainly see where your husband is coming from, it's a very appealling idea for a lot of guys I'm sure. If it's any comfort, I don't have to ask my gf to dress that way out - she openly admits that sometimes she wants to look like a slut with legs, ass and tits on open display, that it makes her feel sexy and confident. So who knows, maybe you will enjoy the experience, it will be daring and exciting, and having a little male attention, still knowing your bf is there for you, could be very empowering?

On the other hand, my gf doesn't really go as far as no panties and see thru tops with no bra... I guess there's a fine line between dressing provocatively and dressing in a way that might encourage the worst kind of male reactions, so maybe discuss that with your bf and compromise, explain you don't want to be in a situation where you encourage unwanted propositions or gropes etc

 

[bambikiller]

I've brought a girl out to a bar wearing only shoe's stockings and trench coat.
I was with her the whole time and only I knew what she wasn't wearing.
That went well.
I've brought another girl to a bar wearing nothing but a short back dress and I played her her the whole time we were watching the show there.
It was bondage night though.

I would not have but any one in danger.
You should have an idea where you are going and what you are getting into.

 

[Noira]

I think your present clothing choices are going to push it beyond "that guy with the girl everyone looks at" towards "that girl who gets sexually harrassed all night because she's almost naked." As said, there's a fine line between provoactive and dangerous. You might want to start a bit milder instead of jumping into something that might cause a regretful situation later. Maybe a tight teeshirt instead of a see-through shirt, for example, and a miniskirt with a snarky message bikini-cut pair of underwear or patterned thong, or no underwear in tight, lowrise jeans. Going out practically naked with pretty well the guarentee that you're going to be seen might not be how you want to start this scene roleplay. Turning heads isn't necessarily on the same track as exibitionism, though they can lead to the same place... and if you've never done it before, I'd suggest starting safer. So a bit much, maybe, you don't want to get hurt, you want to both have a fun experience with your roleplay night.

You're right, maybe it would be fun! But know what you're doing and what you're getting into, have a backup plan in case something goes bad (maybe your husband could bring a coat for you).

A lot of people do things like this... a lot of people enjoy a bit of exibitionism/voyuerism, so I can see where your husband's coming from.

 

[satindesire]

Exhibitionism is fine, but you'll need to remember that other people that might not necessarily WANT to see your nipples and coochie everywhere are going to be there. If you're going to be in a public place, you also could get into trouble by being inappropriately dressed. The manager could even end up asking you to leave if you're going to a bar or restaurant, wherever.

Not to mention the fact that Noira brought up an excellent point...there is a chance you might get seriously sexually harassed/assaulted if you dress inappropriately in public.

Keep in mind...this is all fun and games to you, but you're willfully involving people that aren't asking to be involved when you expose yourself in public. You might want to think about where it would be the most appropriate to do this, like a BDSM play party or other area where partial or full nudity is well accepted.

 

[ladyj46]

Hello,
I own a black blouse that is totally sheer except for an embellishment of lace on the sleeves, collar, and hem. I have worn it out to dinner. I wore a skin tone lace bra under it one time, and a black lace another. Both showed my nipples if an observer took the time to look. I entered the restaurant with a jacket on, and once I sat down my date had an eyeful.

The last time I wore it out was to a private party. I went braless. I needed to work up to doing so.

 

[khmerboy]

My wife wore a mini skirt with no panties to a topless bar on our date night. My wife said it turn her on thinking about guy wondering if she have panties on.

 

[tvsuzislut]

Love it. Slutty clothing is the way to go. It's all about teasing and fucking and sucking and cumming. I love being a slutty blonde cumsucking whore. Slut. Fuck. Worthless cunt.

 

[juicypeachxx]

I agree with the others that it's too much. I say go braless OR pantyless not both @ same time. but there are a million ways you can dress "slutty" without offending others or getting TOO much attention. it's all about the fantasy you & hubby are creating... my version of slutty would be a tight t shirt, skirt, thigh highs, lingerie & hot pink or red lip gloss... Mmm!!

 

[ayrton]

Nice tight short shorts showing a cameltoe would be nice. Combined with a tight t-shirt and high heels=very slutty but tasteful.

 

[A_Kefka]

Nice tight short shorts showing a cameltoe would be nice. Combined with a tight t-shirt and high heels=very slutty but tasteful.

Not to argue, but I don't see how something traditionally seen mostly on streetwalkers is tasteful.

 

[infinity706]

It's tasteful because it gets guys in the mood to taste her privates.

 

[LEAWOODSOUTH]

I agree. It creates an erotic atmosphere of exibitionism; a great tease too

 

[DuckLover]

Location, location, location!

You've gotten some good thoughts about what you wear, and I want add to the points about WHERE you wear it. Remember that depending on what bar or club you go to, your friends, neighbors, or coworkers could see you - not just your husband and strangers. Decide ahead of time how you feel about that and choose a bar/club appropriate to your acceptable risk level. Some people are more comfortable if they go a couple towns over...

 

[Adrraiya]

From my experience

if you want to be looked as the couple, with the guy who has the woman every man wants.... then look like that woman & not like a low-dollar hooker


if you wanna look like a low-dollar hooker, then that is fine....

but put a little more thought into the mind-play and you might come up with a different look

perhaps stay with the sheer blouse, but put a frothy, lacy, cleavage enhancing bra under it & leave only 1 extra button undone....

pantiless or not... depends.... but lacy-top thigh-highs that peek-a-boo out from under the edge of a short skirt can do wonders for a man's mind & simply screams HOT...

sure a beaver-peak is all good... but consider that sometimes a little something left to the imagination can be a bit hotter

Imagine the view for just a moment... you in a skirt pantiless
vs you in a skirt with some abso-damn-lutely we are gonna F*** panties.... something lacy and in a sharp contrast, easy to catch a glimpse with the eye color.... bright hot tangerine or searing hot pink............ leaves a man thinking you are a peach ripe for the biting into......

so... here are the visual images to consider:


black sheer shirt, tiny skirt.. no bra & no panties (potentially thrown out for nipples in view)

--- or ------

black sheer shirt with frothy lace bra and button-busting cleavage (perhaps a necklace to emphasis the cleavage view... pearls that are long enough to drape into the cleavage would be nice)

nude seem-up-the-back-lace-top thigh highs (or black, even more dramatic)..nude is fun cause it they don't realize it until they see the seam of the lace-top

under micro-skirt with hot-pink lace thong panties



------ I don't doubt that either look will scream "he is getting laid tonight"

one screams EASY & the other screams HOT

 

[infinity706]

I think trying both is a perfectly good idea. Sure, teasing is hot, but so is looking like a slut, too. Seriously, if it weren't hot, would guys be willing to spend that much money to fuck a prostitute? For anyone that wants to be a truly spectacular lover, nothing should be totally off limits. Sure, you might want to save some of your best tricks for special occasions, but if you want to be the best someone's ever had, you should have some kind of compromise for anything.

I actually think it would be quite hot to dress a woman in nothing but a wet, white tshirt and a short, jean skirt that just barely covers her ass crack. Sure, it would probably get you arrested if you wore it out in public, but for say, a sex club or a private party, everyone should probably try dressing like a total whore at least once. Of course, for guys, I'd probably recommend a wet, white g-string. Yeah, teasing is fun, but there's nothing like everyone in the room staring at your privates while you leave almost nothing to the imagination.

 

[Adrraiya]

absoutely --- trying both is well worth it!!

and you are right, not something to be off-limits

my point is that she is talking bar... and most likely public bar

private parties... hell be naked, who cares.. dress in wet gauze if it works for both of ya.... push the limits..

but... when out in public.. somethings simply MUST be taken into consideration

People that are your co-workers (or worse your bosses boss) might see you out... if you work for a company like BellSouth you would walk into the office the next day & be fired for Ethics Violations because even off-the-clock you are still "potentially known to be a BST employee" and with that you are expected to behave in a way "that is consistent with our corporate values"

if it is a private party & you are dressed in wet lace then that means you are at a party where you can do this & be reasonably safe... if your bosses boss is at the same party, then it is different because it isn't a "public representation"


Believe me.... I Promise, I know... FROM EXPERIENCE... because I came damn close to loosing my job by wearing a shear blouse to a bar with my husband back in the late-80s!!!! it actually had non-sheer pockets, so my bare nipples were not able to be seen but it was obvious there was no bra under that shirt..... I learned, I could get away with "poor judgment" and "poor taste in choice of clothing" and even press the question of what is perceived as fire-able offense..... in the end, I threatened a counter-suit based on sexual discrimination (they would not have fired a man for wearing a sheer shirt to a bar)... so I didn't loose my job

You MUST take "the audience" into consideration

 

[tyciol]

So... he basically wants you to dress in a revealing fashion outside of wearing a bikini going swimming. Sluts can dress like nuns, virgins can be nudists

It's up to you whether or not you want to fulfill that... the idea of getting off on how other males perceive him doesn't seem centered on you but at times we all get our own unique socialization desires I guess.

 

[BongoGal]

I did something like that with an ex-bf some years ago. I only had the guts to do it because we were halfway across the country, so there was very little chance of bumping into a friend or co-worker or something. To make the story short, I dressed in a flimsy, too-tight t-shirt with no bra underneath and a short skirt with no panties underneath. The shirt wasn't see-through, but the darkness of my aureoles could be perceived. And, to put it mildly, my nipples were quite evidently poking the thin material. I usually wear bras that hide my natural pokiness, but now they were impossible to miss. Once I got the gumption, we went to a mall and shopped for a while. One thing I learned is that people aren't nearly as good at stealing glances without getting caught as they think they are. I also learned that walking around like that could be extremely arousing.

 

[infinity706]

What do you mean without getting caught. Some of us want to get caught. I mean, why would anyone wear revealing clothing if they didn't at least want people at least glancing approvingly at their privates?

 

[satindesire]

What do you mean without getting caught. Some of us want to get caught. I mean, why would anyone wear revealing clothing if they didn't at least want people at least glancing approvingly at their privates?

Because that's assuming most people will be glancing approvingly without being insulted and wanting that person to leave the public establishment for indecent exposure.

I think sometimes you forget, not everyone is as sex-positive as you.

 

[lovecurves]

One thing I learned is that people aren't nearly as good at stealing glances without getting caught as they think they are.

Yesterday walking into the supermarket I turned to watch a woman just after she passed because I had a "feeling" her ass was hot. It was, and I was hoping the entire time she'd turn and catch me looking.

 

[tulipsonanorgan]

I say....
dip your toes in the water first.
miniskirt with sexy panties vs. miniskirt with no panties is just a trip to the ladies room away, if you get in the moment and feel bold.

Also....
Going out of town for the game lets you be more anonymous.
But you don't know the turf as well, so being extra-careful is key.

 

[MrSkin]

he adores me and respects me but for one night he wants to be "that guy" with the girl everyone looks at.

I am not saying this is the case but it is possible he is looking to open other doors and this fantasy is only the first of many to come.

An ex loved dressing up provocatively and going out with me for a tease. On more than one occasion we ended up in a threesome with our waitress. I have to admit it was an awesome way to find out my gf is bi.

 

[love_269_girl]

You can turn the head of every guy in the room without exposing yourself. Start slowly with some of the suggestion posted in this thread. Also, would definitely suggest going out of town for this kind of play.