going crazy!!

wonder_kitty

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so it's been quite a while (years now) since i've had a truly enjoyable sexual experience and i kind of keep hoping something will happen, though it never does. lately i've been toying with the idea of breaking into the world of internet porn. i'd like to find a place where i could submitt photos (mainly bdsm stuff) some place that was willing to let me do most of my work from home. maybe i'm just being too idealistic about it, but i'm hoping. i think working in front of the camera would give me at least some sense of release. it's been way too long and i'm going crazy! so if anyone out there knows of a bd/sm magazine or website that accepts amateur submissions please let me know....
 
oh, sweetheart, don't do that... I'm not even much of an expert on it and it sounds like a really bad idea. The internet porn industry is not something to be toyed with. Maybe if you just let it die down a little bit... there are actually a couple of threads on addiction going up right now, and it sounds like you need a fix.

Just please... I mean, I'm not the greatest source, but please listen to what the people on this site have to say before you start to break personal boundaries.

Concerned,
Red.
 
wonder_kitty said:
i think working in front of the camera would give me at least some sense of release.
I do not know about going into business but there are several ways to get that release right here at Lit. Try starting a thread and posting your pics here. Before you do that spend some time seeing what is here and how you feel about them - and if you see yourself in the photos you are looking at. Also consider asking those that do post their own pics here what it feels like and what sort of feed back to expect. Please make sure you start the thread in the correct forum, it can be emotional chaos to start in the wrong forum and have the whole place dump on you.

There are several ways to post pics here, ask about them. I'll share what I can about what I have learned if you do want to try here.

Shank
 
s_red830 said:
oh, sweetheart, don't do that... I'm not even much of an expert on it and it sounds like a really bad idea. The internet porn industry is not something to be toyed with. Maybe if you just let it die down a little bit... there are actually a couple of threads on addiction going up right now, and it sounds like you need a fix.

Just please... I mean, I'm not the greatest source, but please listen to what the people on this site have to say before you start to break personal boundaries.

Concerned,
Red.

My concerns are otherwise - maybe your personal boundaries are FINE with exhibitionism, but smut is business like any other. Don't go in naive and don't go in with romantic illusions. This is also one of the most hostile time periods to being able to do with YOUR naked self as you please and exploit it for some extra cash ever.
 
Netzach said:
My concerns are otherwise - maybe your personal boundaries are FINE with exhibitionism, but smut is business like any other. Don't go in naive and don't go in with romantic illusions. This is also one of the most hostile time periods to being able to do with YOUR naked self as you please and exploit it for some extra cash ever.
I didn't mean as much exhibitionism boundaries... those, of course, are up for grabs, as I don't know her. Just... doing something that could very well make you feel used in a bad way... well, basically what you were saying.
 
wonder_kitty said:
so it's been quite a while (years now) since i've had a truly enjoyable sexual experience and i kind of keep hoping something will happen, though it never does. lately i've been toying with the idea of breaking into the world of internet porn. i'd like to find a place where i could submitt photos (mainly bdsm stuff) some place that was willing to let me do most of my work from home. maybe i'm just being too idealistic about it, but i'm hoping. i think working in front of the camera would give me at least some sense of release. it's been way too long and i'm going crazy! so if anyone out there knows of a bd/sm magazine or website that accepts amateur submissions please let me know....


If you are doing it from home and just for your personal release then you could just do your own website. If you want a lot of people to see it then it gets more difficult. You'd have to network, etc....
 
Could always try Slavefarm if you are just wanting to indulge some exhibitionist fantasies w/o financial gain.


Catalina :catroar:
 
If you are looking for income in exchange for images, you might look into Suicidegirls.com. No guarantees that they'd pick you from the flood of submissions the get, but I beieive they pay a few hundred per phot-set. I think they lean towards the younger/tattoed/pierced/fetishy/attitude, pin up quality, and artistic style gets you bonus points type thing.

Secondary consideration is safety. There are images of me online every week (nothing risque), and I occasionally have to field inquiries about who that girl is in the picture, is she single, etc. How will you deeal with a cyber stalker? (mild to nut job) Think about things like how anonomous are you giong to be/do you need to set up a PO Box for any snail mail correspondence from whatever site you work with (or your own website)/will you blog as part of networking/is this business or personal, and how could it impact future jobs?

And Net's right- these are not very safe times for people to "out" themselves as being kinky... please do think things through, and find the safest way possible, to move forward.
 
I can't see anyone paying for amateur stuff, and that's what you have in mind right? You could start up your own site, so you'd be in complete control of it. But if you're really serious read the "I wanna be a porn star" help guide on the seymore butts website.

There's gotta be an easier way for a woman to get a good root though. Just sayin.
 
human_male said:
I can't see anyone paying for amateur stuff, and that's what you have in mind right?


You would be surprised, there is a huge industry based on amateur porn. We were approached early on in our relationship to be paid to do D/s/BDSM type videos and pics, but didn't feel it was the right time for us to accept the offer at that time....now it just might work for us.

Catalina :catroar:
 
I used to work for iFriends in its early days, it's a "webcam friend" amateur site. You might check that out.
 
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