Giving good head

[astnbutterfly]

I wish to say hello to all of you. i have just joined thsi site. I have been given instructions to research the very best ways to give head. i have been told i do an excellent job, but that we all have room for improvement. therefore i am turning to all of you to get ideas on how to give head. if you all can help me i would most appreciate it . Thank you !! ~ butterfly

 

[kskittles]

Enjoy yourself as you do it. Make noises. Look up into his eyes. Use your hands, touch him everywhere you can reach. Suck, slurp, lick, beg......beg for his cum. Insist he explodes into your mouth so you can drink every drop of his warm, rich semen. Then after he's done orgasming severely.....say "Thank you".

 

[A_Kefka]

I'm gonna throw in a vote for make sure you don't gag yourself and puke. That woudl be a total turn off. Seriously though, have fun, pay attention to what works or doesn't, get him to talk, say what he likes and doesn't. Guys are different. I'm sure most would say no teeth, but kknew one girl who said her b/f liked her dragging her teeth along him. So either he was into it or was afraid to correct her. but find out what he likes and try things. And if he'll let you, pllay with his butt a little.

 

[sterculius]

It's been said many times, but it's so important it can't be overstated. Enthusiasm!!! Enjoy what you're doing. Get slurpy and sloppy. Don't concentrate too much on pleasing him but focus more on what feels good to you. If you're having fun he's going to love it too.

 

[iswallowloads]

I try to have the same attitude as when I go down on a woman - when it comes to giving head, I take the word 'Giving' quite literally. Whatever gets him or her off is what I do.

 

[iswallowloads]

Oh, and you should search the GLBT threads. Much good advice there (including from the same experts you've already heard from).

 

[iswallowloads]

Enjoy yourself as you do it. Make noises. Look up into his eyes. Use your hands, touch him everywhere you can reach. Suck, slurp, lick, beg......beg for his cum. Insist he explodes into your mouth so you can drink every drop of his warm, rich semen. Then after he's done orgasming severely.....say "Thank you".

Has anyone ever had a heart attack from one of your BJs?

 

[infinity706]

Lets see, things that have proven pretty universal in my sample: Licking his piss hole and the area directly beneath it, using plenty of saliva, literally sucking his cock like a milkshake through a straw, pressing on that special spot behind the balls (it's right under the prostate), wrapping your lips around the head and tugging on it, using your hand on him with a semi twisting motion, letting guys with cocks under 3 inches face fuck you freely, and stroking his balls while you blow him. Things that work for some guys: light squeezing/slapping his balls, ass licking, direct prostate stimulation, pinching/slapping his ass, nipple play, water sports, and loudly slurping/sucking on his cock. Yeah, I've sucked more than my fair share of the cock supply in my day.

 

[texasace]

I wish to say hello to all of you. i have just joined thsi site. I have been given instructions to research the very best ways to give head. i have been told i do an excellent job, but that we all have room for improvement. therefore i am turning to all of you to get ideas on how to give head. if you all can help me i would most appreciate it . Thank you !! ~ butterfly

Play with his balls and ass while you suck. Finger his ass while looking in his eyes... it will let you know if you should go farther. If he smiles and makes little grunts... insert a finger in his ass and milk his prostate while you suck him... he will go crazy with that... I sure do.

 

[sterculius]

Has anyone ever had a heart attack from one of your BJs?

What a way to go!!!...or "I don't know if I'm coming or going"

 

[CuteBrat]

I wish to say hello to all of you. i have just joined thsi site. I have been given instructions to research the very best ways to give head. i have been told i do an excellent job, but that we all have room for improvement. therefore i am turning to all of you to get ideas on how to give head. if you all can help me i would most appreciate it . Thank you !! ~ butterfly

um....ive always been told i give really good hed. i think a main reason is i love to do it and totally get into it. but more specific tips....always keep eye contact...guyz like that. ive been trained to not use my hands unless i am told to, so guyz know they can face fuck me or whatever.

and pay attention! thats why im not big into 69. when im giving hed, i want to totally focus on the guy, and figure out what is making him respond most, so i can do more of it...

just my 2 cents

 

[akazie]

The most important rule when sucking cock is not to suck too hard and don't use your teeth. I have found that guys seem to like it when you do a twisting motion when you go down on the shaft. Licking the glans and Frenulum is also very good (it has many nerve endings).

 

[sterculius]

I wish to say hello to all of you. i have just joined thsi site. I have been given instructions to research the very best ways to give head. i have been told i do an excellent job, but that we all have room for improvement. therefore i am turning to all of you to get ideas on how to give head. if you all can help me i would most appreciate it . Thank you !! ~ butterfly

I commend you on your desire to improve your skills as a cocksucker, but you, "have been given instructions" ??? Maybe this thread belongs in the BDSM forum.

 

[infinity706]

Play with his balls and ass while you suck. Finger his ass while looking in his eyes... it will let you know if you should go farther. If he smiles and makes little grunts... insert a finger in his ass and milk his prostate while you suck him... he will go crazy with that... I sure do.

Well, that works well for guys that are comfortable with it, but a decent percentage will freak out if you go anywhere near their ass as well. I've had a significant number of hookups quite literally walk out on me just because I touched their ass.

 

[astnbutterfly]

Thanks to all of you for your responces. i do love to worship and rever a cock. i employ all the afore mentioned techniques except for the slurping noises. i shall incorporate those. i guess i need to ask men to tell me what the like when having thier cock sucked. i was instructed to search for more techniques to make my giving head even better then i now do. As i know all men preferr different things, maybe you will share with me and i can try new more inovative things. Afain thank all of you for your thoughts and your time.

 

[shiny5437]

It's been said many times, but it's so important it can't be overstated. Enthusiasm!!! Enjoy what you're doing. Get slurpy and sloppy. Don't concentrate too much on pleasing him but focus more on what feels good to you. If you're having fun he's going to love it too.

Darn it! You beat me to it. Enthusiasm is the key! The reason why Heather Brookes ( aka ideepthroat) got so popular isn't her ability to consume a lengthy penis but the way her eyes light up when she's presented with it.

and don't forget the balls...

 

[subwannabe]

Enthusiasm is important. Quality is important too but don't underestimate quantity. It's also important to swallow. Girls are cheating if they claim they are giving a BJ but then don't swallow. It turns guys on to know you are going to swallow.

 

[A_Kefka]

Enthusiasm is important. Quality is important too but don't underestimate quantity. It's also important to swallow. Girls are cheating if they claim they are giving a BJ but then don't swallow. It turns guys on to know you are going to swallow.

On the swallowing thing I don't really care. I would prefer to cum in her mouth, just because if it feels that good I dont' want her to stop just before I cum, not because I feel she should like it. If she does cool, but if she wants to spit it out thats fine too.

 

[IcePrincessLPU]

I always curl my lips over my teeth while doing it. Make sure you lick your lips, or spit on his cock, to keep them wet. It may look funny, but trust me, it's worth it!

 

[sterculius]

I always curl my lips over my teeth while doing it. Make sure you lick your lips, or spit on his cock, to keep them wet. It may look funny, but trust me, it's worth it!

Speaking as a cocksucker AND a cock owner, That's not really necessary unless your teeth are sharpened or if you're a vampire. Just don't bite down hard (unless he likes that). That would pose an unnecessary distraction to your own enjoyment which would in turn, diminish his enjoyment. Speaking for myself, I feed off the enthusiastic involvement of my partner, whether receiving or giving a blowjob.

 

[Burstplayer]

These are the areas of interest for great head IMHO.

Enthusiasm - A must

Wetness - The sloppier the better

Pace - Vary the speed of the mouth strokes, until the end when strong and steady will make him pop.

Depth - Obviously the deeper the better, more cock in the mouth equals more sensation.

Balls- Visit the boys frequently while your hand continues to work slowly. It's a nice change-up and gives you chance to talk dirty without your mouth full.

Ass - Play with it. Gentle massage for the timid. A lubed finger or plug for the more daring.

Swallow or Facial - If you don't let him cum in your mouth, it better be on your face.

 

[Luna_Bella]

These are the areas of interest for great head IMHO.

Enthusiasm - A must

Wetness - The sloppier the better

Pace - Vary the speed of the mouth strokes, until the end when strong and steady will make him pop.

Depth - Obviously the deeper the better, more cock in the mouth equals more sensation.

Balls- Visit the boys frequently while your hand continues to work slowly. It's a nice change-up and gives you chance to talk dirty without your mouth full.

Ass - Play with it. Gentle massage for the timid. A lubed finger or plug for the more daring.

Swallow or Facial - If you don't let him cum in your mouth, it better be on your face.

I agree with that!!!!!! I don't claim to be an expert at giving head but I sure enjoy it and from what I've picked up from my partner, the above is right on!

 

[lifter1996]

Personally

I like it when it's as wet as possible.
I like the finger or tongue to the asshole.
I can't stand teeth, they hurt.
Licking is more of a visual turn on for me then sensationally.
Enthusiam is VERY important.
Look into my eyes and quit moving your hair, lol. I'll move it if I want to see.
When I'm about to cum, either take it all the way back into the throat, 2nd choice - or fast, well-lubed hand motion throughout the entire orgasm, which lasts for sometime after the actual ejaculation.
As for whether or not you swallow, I don't care. What turns me on is that she wants me to cum, and if she wants it in the face, or in the mouth to spit or swallow, on her tits, or anywhere else, I'm willing to provide her that specificity.

 

[bebe42081]

i have been wondering - do you guys like it when a girl gags and chokes on your dick? as long as she doesn't puke of course lol.

 

[lifter1996]

gagging

sorry, I forgot that part.

I HATE gagging. Can't stand it in movies, or in person. When Randy Spears forces girls to gag on his rod in the movies, I lose my erection, and it is to the point that I can't watch him even when he isn't doing that.