Giving better head

[nusubgurl]

Okay... done my home work..and variations on this questions exist elsewhere, but i am most comfortable asking in here.

Unless i am misreading things..slaves and subs tend to be more enthusiastic about cock sucking than the general female population based on reading in the other forums.

I am very experienced and really enjoy sucking cock. I swallow and love it. But I'm now with a man who is testing my skills to the limit and i need advice.

To put it bluntly, he's huge. Very thick, very long (6"+ around, 10"+ long)

I love it and have tried every trick I know to deep throat this man as best I could. The most successful has been for me to lay on my back with my head hanging over the edge of the bed, giving him a straight path down my throat. So far so good.

But (advice from guys and ladies, both) what can i do to lessen my gag reflex, relax my throat, and take him deeper? I try to cup the rest of his cock with my hands, but it's a tad confusing to coordinate the motion of my hands and mouth so that it seems to be one smooth motion.

In fact just a general refresher discussion on what guys like would be nice. Yes, I'll ask him directly what he likes, but I'd also like to give him a nice surprise when next we meet.

I'll appreciate any suggestions and I know he'll love them!!

Nu

 

[kida0383]

Xxxxx

 

[Betticus]

Look up a topic called cock sucking 101 in the how to threads. I believe you can just click.... fuck it...

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=189227&highlight=cocksucking

 

[tealsphynx]

I've found the easiest way to swallow a thick cock is to breath in deeply a couple of times and then on your last exhale, don't exhale all the way and go down as you exhale (though once you can feel it in your throat stop exhaling or the air will go into your stomach and make you retch) this may also make you wanna burp, don't if you can. Also once you've got him in your throat swallow a couple of times will help you stay down longer, and maybe even allow you to move up and down a little (note a LITTLE if you get him out of your throat you'll probably have to do the whole thing over again) you won't be able to breathe when he's in you, that's why you take a few deep breaths. relax as you do them, it will help your body (kinda like preparing to hold your breath while swimming) It's also helpful to be over an easily cleaned surface just in case you yack. If he gets disgusted tell him if he wants you to be able to do it he's going to have to get over you learning to controll your body. it takes focus and a deep desire to do it. Good luck! I'll see if I can't gather any more ideas first hand for ya

Oh draggie........

 

[Netzach]

I think frequent frequent rounds of practise on strap on dildos makes for great head further down the line.

But I'm a bit biased.

 

[tealsphynx]

I think frequent frequent rounds of practise on strap on dildos makes for great head further down the line.

But I'm a bit biased.

I"ve found it helps. A dildo, no mattter how soft never seems to have the same amount of give a dick does and is more difficult to deepthroat, but once I did it a few ti,es I had no problem with the real thing.
I've also found that sucking and licking in ways that are pleasurable to me and feel neat on my lips gets good responses. Make the blowjob about your pleasure, not his.

 

[shy slave]

Make the blowjob about your pleasure, not his.

Thats a great line

 

[tealsphynx]

I actually got that advise from a book....works pretty well, I do what feels good to me, no complaints so far.

 

[Marquis]

I wish I had a 10" cock.

 

[FurryFury]

I"ve found it helps. A dildo, no mattter how soft never seems to have the same amount of give a dick does and is more difficult to deepthroat, but once I did it a few ti,es I had no problem with the real thing.
I've also found that sucking and licking in ways that are pleasurable to me and feel neat on my lips gets good responses. Make the blowjob about your pleasure, not his.

*Taking notes*

Thank you for this great idea!

Now why didn't I think of that???

*grins*

Fury

 

[Kajira Callista]

I've said this in other threads but i will type it one more time.


You need to swallow (or attempt it) as soon as you feel the gag reflex is coming.

 

[stageleft]

fave

deep throat is immensly pleasurable..another wonderful turn on is that my girlfriend is very petite & dainty..my cock girth is thick and 7".. i love to rub my solid cock on my girlfriends pretty face as my cock dwarfs her very pretty facial features..its a highly charged & very erotic sight.

 

[tealsphynx]

*Taking notes*

Thank you for this great idea!

Now why didn't I think of that???

*grins*

Fury

I've gotta give credit to the dildo thing to Netzach, she posted it first, I was just agreeing that it's good practice.

 

[SweetCandy22]

Girth Blow Job technique

I've never sucked a cock that big, but I have sucked a cock with that girth, I believe. I'm not sure if it would work for you, because short and fat seem to fit this technique well so I can't assure you that it will work for large as well as fat.

In any case, it might be something cool to try- my ex loved it. I basically, took him in at a slight angle, and allowed his head to press against the side of my cheek, giving my mouth more room to take his girth. Once I had him in, the more I practiced the easier it was for my mouth to accomodate his girth and finally taking him in full on.

I have to agree that practice makes perfect, the more you do it- the easier it is.

Not sure if that will help, but good luck!

 

[Allosaur14]

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[Allosaur14]

http://gallery.pethobbyist.com/data/80689juhf-med.jpg

 

[jasonlf]

Jesus christ, I don't know who posted that, but for the love of god, don't post pictures of snakes in threads not marked as such... I have a phobia against snakes, and I seriously might have nightmares now.

 

[tealsphynx]

I was wondering why there should be snakes in this thread at all...just MO, they don't belong here.

 

[Esclava]

Really good information - thanks, all!

It is a common thought that, for most women, getting in touch with their "Bi" side means learning how to please another woman.

Not always the case - as I spent at least years ... (it's 12 yrs greater than half my age) ... pleasing women and now find myself catching up in learning to please men - especially in the cocksucking dept. In some ways, it does work like clit sucking - in other ways ... NOT! I'm looking forward to trying this advice ...

and licking my lips -

Esclava

 

[SweetCandy22]

lol- I think the snake is there, because it can release it's jaw and take in a very large object- unlike most humans. Maybe it's a learning lesson?

It's impossible for a human to stretch their jaws like snakes, though- which can stretch up to four times their mouth....I think...*shrug*

 

[s'lara]

Some people like to hear the gagging and to see it.

There are whole websites dedicated to gagging and choking women with ... all kinds of things. Sometimes, the struggle to fight against the reflex to gag is a turn on to others. i guess it kind of packs a mental punch, i.e., "I'm gagging this slut with my cock. Yeah, gag on it whore."

Something like that. Nice headspace of suffering for the masochist too. Nothing like having your throat stuffed, air cut off for seconds at a time and fighting vomiting for an almost insufferable time.

lara

 

[The Great Satan]

cum-quad

Lucifer.

 

[Solitude]

Some people like to hear the gagging and to see it.

Tsk... some people.


But back to the topic at hand, I thought I once heard of a product, a throat spray or something, which would help to lessen the gag reflex. There may be safety concerns related to this (it seems to me that if you are gagging, then you are gagging for a reason) but it may be worth looking into.

Has anyone else heard of or used such a product?

Anyhow, best of luck. The human body can make amazing adjustments given enough time and effort, and you certainly seem devoted to the cause, so I'm sure you'll get there eventually, with or without the spray. And remember, the journey is half the fun.

 

[Etoile]

But back to the topic at hand, I thought I once heard of a product, a throat spray or something, which would help to lessen the gag reflex. There may be safety concerns related to this (it seems to me that if you are gagging, then you are gagging for a reason) but it may be worth looking into.

Has anyone else heard of or used such a product?

Are you talking about a numbing like Chloraseptic, which is used for sore throats, or a product that is actually meant to help lessen the gag reflex for purposes like these? Whenever I use Chloraseptic I always get most of it on my tongue, so I guess that wouldn't be too useful!

 

[Solitude]

Seems to me it was something meant specifically for mimimizing the gag reflex, although the memory I have of it is somewhat vague. I was hoping perhaps someone could jog it for me. I did a cursory search but to no avail. I'll dig a bit deeper and see if I can find more info.