Given up on girls...

[ChasingShadowsX]

Hey people, if you don't know me let me tell you a little bit about me. I'm a 20 year old (just turned 20) asian guy from Sydney Australia, I'm a nice guy and can be a bit of fun, I am a bit of an exhibitionist and I have a photo thread on these forums.

Anyway, I've had a lot of trouble with girls, I've only had 1 serious girlfriend. I've always been bi curious but I think I'm ready to take the dive and find a boy to spend a bit of time with, not that I know where to look. I don't quite live in the city and it's not easy to go clubbing in the city or anything like that.

Recently I've been rejected by a girl for the last time, I don't know why, I think they just aren't attracted to me or something, quite a few people say I'm attractive and would be great for a relationship, cept I'm just not their type.

I don't know what to do but I think I've finally given up on girls.

 

[John Doe]

20 is awfully young to make such a decision, especially with such finaility.

 

[ChasingShadowsX]

yeh i guess, but boys are good too arent they?

 

[zombieman]

I think what you need is a break from girls, as opposed to giving up on them entirely

 

[College_geek]

I think what you need is a break from girls, as opposed to giving up on them entirely

I agree; instead of making a huge decision like that, take a break from women and see what the world looks like that way. I wouldn't be able to say whether men would be any better, but it's always worth a shot. Both genders have serious issues, so I don't think you'd be able to escape from that.

Also, what type of women (or men, for that matter) are you attracted to? If it's only one certain type of women, that could be part of the problem. Good luck, though, because from what I've seen, you could definitely make someone very happy. It may just take longer for you to find him or her.

 

[ChasingShadowsX]

I don't know I take every1 for who they are.

 

[stingray61]

I once read, as I have been known to do from time to time, that when a woman first sees a man she instantly, and maybe subconsiously, asseses as to whether or not he would be a good father for her children and able to support her if needed. Maybe that has something to do with it. I'm sure it will have something to do with my getting flamed shortly.

 

[ChasingShadowsX]

Well I think maybe at a certain age that'd be something girls think, I've heard they think what would he be like in bed the first time they meet a guy BUT

I don't see how either of those would be a problem, most girls who are my friend say I'm perfect material for bf, husband, father kinda person but it's just not what they're looking for, and as for good in bed, I don't know but I have a good body, what else would a girl look for, cept a nice face and I don't think im THAT ugly or hard to look at.

And my dick is average at least, so I'm as good as 50% of other guys there in that department.

 

[College_geek]

Another possibility of your problems may be because of age. Many women in our age group tend to be attracted to the "bad boys" who aren't father material or even good boyfriend material, but they only want it for the thrill. Not all women are like that, but a good portion admit to it. Also, many girls refuse to ever date friends. I personally think it's better than dating a stranger or someone I just met because I feel more comfortable around them. Anyway, this won't necessarily be comfort or advice for right now, but many women, as they get older and want to start a family, grow out of the "I want a dangerous guy" phase and start looking for men with good qualities, ones who would make great husbands.

 

[kbate]

H
I don't know what to do but I think I've finally given up on girls.

Oh well, that is OK, more for me.

 

[ChasingShadowsX]

yes it's definately the bad boy factor, but i'm not like a goodie goodie or anything, i can be a lot of fun.

 

[ifun26]

Giving up is definetly a bad idea. Just keep yourself open to both sides equally. Wait and see what happens.

 

[ogrilp400]

given up on girls

A very very wise move. If you knew the devastation that marrying or living with a woman can cause you wold be running scared. Stay well away from them.

 

[Raimondin]

Wow, I could never give up on guys even on the worst
"guy day" I could have!

Maybe you just need to break away for a
spell from the ladies.

If you don't ever go back,
well then you'll know...

 

[Etoile]

I don't know I take every1 for who they are.

No, you don't. You paint all lesbians with a negative brush, making them into gruff "masculine" butches with mullets. I certainly hope you don't plan to pull any of that shit over in this forum, because you will get ripped a new one. Or several.

 

[Never]

I knew that Etoile could only keep herself from this thread for so long. Though, it is amusing to see a moderator threaten to rip a newbie a new one.

 

[Etoile]

I knew that Etoile could only keep herself from this thread for so long. Though, it is amusing to see a moderator threaten to rip a newbie a new one.

Oh, I didn't mean that I would do it! I was thinking of you, actually. Or Netzach. Or deezire1900. You're all quite good at ripping people new ones when they're acting stupid. I look forward to it.

Besides, he's not that new.

 

[glamorilla]

it seems like youre making a decision for the wrong reasons. it shouldnt be about not like girls but about liking men.

good luck!

 

[John Doe]

Re: given up on girls

A very very wise move. If you knew the devastation that marrying or living with a woman can cause you wold be running scared. Stay well away from them.

You have issues, man. No offence, just sayin'.

I know, I'm one to talk, but still.

it seems like youre making a decision for the wrong reasons. it shouldnt be about not like girls but about liking men.

good luck!

Or more precisely, it should not be about disliking women, but liking men and a lack of interest for women. Or at least a very strong prefernce for men.

 

[Never]

by Etoile:
"Oh, I didn't mean that I would do it! I was thinking of you, actually. Or Netzach. Or deezire1900. You're all quite good at ripping people new ones when they're acting stupid. I look forward to it.

Besides, he's not that new."

Oh, I see. I have to do all the work..
He's new to this board, I think. Or maybe he was so boring I forgot that he posted here before.

 

[John Doe]

Oh, I see. I have to do all the work..

Hey Sheriff, how 'bout makin' me yer depitty?

 

[glamorilla]

Re: Re: given up on girls

You have issues, man. No offence, just sayin'.

I know, I'm one to talk, but still.



Or more precisely, it should not be about disliking women, but liking men and a lack of interest for women. Or at least a very strong prefernce for men.

no. what i said.

 

[John Doe]

Re: Re: Re: given up on girls

no. what i said.

There's a difference bwteen not liking someone and disliking them. Besides, liking men doesn't necessarily mean one is gay, unless one isn't interested in women either. They just may be bi.