Give or Take

[TonyG]

Which are you?

Do you prefer giving yourself to your SO or do you prefer being taken by your SO? There is a difference.

 

[Budman]

Giving. To me, shows that I love and respect her. Would never "take" (in the forceable sense) from her.

 

[Guest]

I believe I would rather be taken my first time - subsequent events would be decided depending on my mood.

 

[Angel]

Right now? I want it taken. I mean like NOW!

Now? Please?

 

[Neale]

Therein lies the rub

Giver. Lack the confidence to be a taker, generally. Giving is a great pleasure, of its own.

 

[Never]

I think some are misreading the question.
Would you rather give?
Or would you rather be taken?

 

[Xander]

I must admit, it all depends on my mood. Sometimes I'm a giver, others I'M TAKING muhahahahahaha *swuing!!!*

 

[Neale]

Hmm...

You're right. I did misread. Give, or be taken?

While I must confess a certain thrill to the idea of being taken, I really do enjoy giving so much that being taken would be pretty difficult.

 

[April]

Taken most of the time. In fact, somebody take me now! There, was that emphatic enough?

 

[cheekyminx]

Relationships are full of giving and taking. Mostly I like giving, but I do love being taken.

 

[Countess DeWinter]

well, you know me, Tony I would rather be taken most of the time, but I do occasionally give myself. Usually those are times when I'm not feeling really well and hubby's horny (I don't pass up those opportunities!!) and I let him just fuck me hard and fast until he comes. There is some satisfaction in doing that for him.

 

[CRaZy]

I think some people wish I would just GIVE myself up so I can BE TAKEN away - far far away - LOL.

 

[TonyG]

Originally posted by Countess DeWinter
...and I let him just fuck me hard and fast until he comes. There is SOME SATISFACTION in doing that for him.

Hmmmm, well not to knock your hubby but...whenever you need MORE satisfaction, give me a yell.

 

[Lil-Brandi]

a lil' of both...

I too agree, that it depends on the mood, the day, the weather, the situation, or setting. Both giving and taking can be very pleasurable. As I am such a giving person however, I might lean to that side slightly.

 

[Countess DeWinter]

TONY!!!!!

 

[TonyG]

Countess

That was music to my ears.

Now if I could just solve this distance problem.

 

[willfulbrat]

Being taken! The other night I was busy working and cleaning up and as I walked by my honey he reached out for me. I slapped his hand away and kept on with my work. He said, "Come here," and I said a curt "no." He said "Yes!" and jumped up and pulled me into his arms. Talk about an instant mood change!

Sometimes "no" means no, but sometimes "no" means "Show me how much you want me."

 

[Temptress_1960]

Can I have both, please?

Have to agree, depends on my mood. Maybe leaning to the be taken side, though...