Give a strip tease??

I started learning this several months back as a way to spice up my relationship with my husband. It's been really fun and I hope you enjoy it as well.

I started by looking for instructional videos and found two that I would recommend - The Exotic Dance Workout and Exotic Dance: The Irresistible Art. I found them to be easy to follow and the moves are sensual without being sleazy. Amazon has clips from the videos so that you can preview before you purchase.

I also went one step further and found an instructor who offers lessons because I personally learn best in a studio environment. In addition to erotic dance, she also teaches belly dancing, so her style is a fusion of both. It's very, very sexy (at least my honey thinks so).

You should also choose music that really speaks to you as it will be easier to lose yourself in the music. If you are really into it and having a good time, then so will he - :D.

Finally - a word about clothing. It all really depends upon your personal style and what you feel comfortable in. There are many online sites that offer stripper gear, some for very reasonable prices. But you probably already have many things in your wardrobe that can be repurposed if you just use a little imagination. For example, I've danced in 1) a cutoff tank top and denim daisy duke cutoff shorts, 2) a tight black business skirt with a form fitting business blouse, 3) a open work crochet sweater without the cami, and 4) a black velvet trench coat over a bra/garter belt set. It's amazing what you can come up with if you just give it a little thought.

The most important thing is to remember to have fun. Even if your routine isn't perfect, I'm sure he will appreciate the effort. Best of luck to you.
 
thanks, that helps a lot! I was actually watching previews and youtube videos and such for ideas and general styles.
 
Also keep in mind location. If you want more dancing on his lap, a couch would be better. If you want him to see more with only some rubbing an armless chair will work well.
Also it's okay to do it barefoot, since dancing in heels can take some getting used to.
Try a red light bulb in a lamp, it will add to the ambiance.
 
So here what I have done. I am a netflix junkie and I found the Carmen Electra aerobic striptease series....try them. You will like. And you get a good workout. She has a special one for a lap dance, a really gentle one to get started (with a great move to get your bum in shape) and it is really tateful and nice. So give that a try and see :) Best of luck!
 
First of all you should go to a strip club for men. Dont worry they will let you in and give you the VIp treatment. get yourself a fwe lap dances and study how the other women do it.

Get yourself the nicest transparent sheer panties that you can get and a matching bra. If you like to shave shave all the way and if you don't keep it nice and hairy because if your guy likes it.

Then you pick a song and a place, then do a slow very slow strip tease. Durng the strip tease make sure that you grind your ass on his lap. Dont let him touch you to much, make it that much more the tease.


now unlike the lap dance that slid your panties away and allow him to slip himself inside you and pull away a few times. Allow your guy to be inside you and alternate between sucking him.

That will be the most delicous night you can give him.
 
^^ probably revealing a little too much here but here goes

The dancing I do at work is waaaay different then the dancing I do at home for my bf.

Just sayin'
 
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