Girls, what makes a guy a good lay?

[Que]

The companion thread below, "What makes a girl a good lay" I answered without reading any of the other replies. I came up with "enthusiasm." That answer seems to come up time and again.

For women, I don't know that is the answer. I think a lot of guys are pretty enthusiastic. So I got to thinking what would a woman say to the question.

 

[Learin]

The companion thread below, "What makes a girl a good lay" I answered without reading any of the other replies. I came up with "enthusiasm." That answer seems to come up time and again.

For women, I don't know that is the answer. I think a lot of guys are pretty enthusiastic. So I got to thinking what would a woman say to the question.

Skilled Tongue.

Not a one and done kind of guy.

No trash talk if he doesn't know how to do it.



Mmm...these are the ones that I can think of right now.

 

[SoulWeavinGirl]

Consideration, caring as much about my orgasm as his own. The very best are the ones who make sure I cum first, and more than once.

Sensuality, understanding there is a difference between sexual and sensual. Touch me everywhere, not just my breasts and crotch. Run your fingers through my hair, cup my face when we kiss, stroke my arm, put your hands on my hips and pull them to you, scratch my back with your fingertips, kiss my collar bone and behind my knees. It's all those little points of contact that make good sex great, whether it be making love or fucking.

Guys, you know how you love to hear the moaning and sounds of an orgasm so you know you're doing it right? Well so do we.

Confidence (not arrogance). If you have me naked, or even semi, then it's a good assumption I'm down with whatever we're doing. Do stop if I tell you to, but aside from listening for that, don't apologize or ask permission, just DO IT.

I know you're probably asking for techniques or moves, just like your answer, attitude is such a huge part of it.