~ Gimme Yer Secret! ~

[twysted73]

"Why this thread Kev? Why don't you stop asking questions, damnit!?"

Shh...I say.

Now that I'm done talking to myself, I would like to sincerely ask each of you who wander in and read this to leave behind one thing either You do or your Pyl does to "keep you in line". Not just any old rule tho. nah nah. I want your SECRET FAVORITE!

The one rule/punishment you don't want to admit you like to do/have done but feel the need to share even as you read this. Yeah....THAT one.

- Mine: Understanding that these answers will all be based on personal preferences (must everything come with disclaimers these days?) my favorite is a game I play with a lovely who has recently asked me to take up her Top possition and give her a feel for things based on her levels of comfortability and preferences. She has a roomate. He likes to watch TV in the room that looks in on the room she has the pc in. Directly within view if he turns his head to the right.
If she's been pushing buttons and challanging beyond my limits or patience (as happened recently) I placed her onto instructional mode with the code I've established for her. She looked at me for a moment with mouth slightly opened from shock and disbelief. But recovered a second later and shot right up, strait as an arrow in her chair. (eyes darting to her left to see if he was looking too)
Before she knew me she had a chat forum she enjoyed going into and talking to others for the attention aspects.
I made her go into it, open her camera to the room and wait. In seconds the board lit up with invitations, greetings and hellos to her with accompanied questions of "Why are you sitting there?" or "What are you waiting for?"
I could see her blushing right through that pale skin of hers.
(she knows the words to use but they never came)
I had her run through an exercise or two while the room settled in to watch. Having her on display like this following my instructions that everyone watching could read and follow easily built an antissipatory mood. The usual, no-imagination-laden requests popped up asking me to tell her to expose this or show them that were semi-constant. But we weren't there for them. I ignored them as did she, continuing on. It went on for the better part of an hour. And once it was done she was to close the room down and meet back with me so we could talk about it.
All flushed and grinning from ear to ear, I had to reclassify this "punishment" as a potential reward. It backfired apparantly.

Next?

 

[LittleJade]

It's not a rule. It's a look that he can get. In the six years we've been together, I've seen the look three times... and I live so that I don't see that look ever again.

It's a look of disappointment.

 

[h_i_s]

None of what He does to keep me in line is a favorite.
It's never for fun nor enjoyment.

And, if i told you about them, my post would seem a bit null because
...... a secret once revealed is no longer a secret.

~ Gimme Yer Secret! ~

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"Why this thread Kev? Why don't you stop asking questions, damnit!?"

Shh...I say.

Now that I'm done talking to myself, I would like to sincerely ask each of you who wander in and read this to leave behind one thing either You do or your Pyl does to "keep you in line". Not just any old rule tho. nah nah. I want your SECRET FAVORITE!

The one rule/punishment you don't want to admit you like to do/have done but feel the need to share even as you read this. Yeah....THAT one.

- Mine: Understanding that these answers will all be based on personal preferences (must everything come with disclaimers these days?) my favorite is a game I play with a lovely who has recently asked me to take up her Top possition and give her a feel for things based on her levels of comfortability and preferences. She has a roomate. He likes to watch TV in the room that looks in on the room she has the pc in. Directly within view if he turns his head to the right.
If she's been pushing buttons and challanging beyond my limits or patience (as happened recently) I placed her onto instructional mode with the code I've established for her. She looked at me for a moment with mouth slightly opened from shock and disbelief. But recovered a second later and shot right up, strait as an arrow in her chair. (eyes darting to her left to see if he was looking too)
Before she knew me she had a chat forum she enjoyed going into and talking to others for the attention aspects.
I made her go into it, open her camera to the room and wait. In seconds the board lit up with invitations, greetings and hellos to her with accompanied questions of "Why are you sitting there?" or "What are you waiting for?"
I could see her blushing right through that pale skin of hers.
(she knows the words to use but they never came)
I had her run through an exercise or two while the room settled in to watch. Having her on display like this following my instructions that everyone watching could read and follow easily built an antissipatory mood. The usual, no-imagination-laden requests popped up asking me to tell her to expose this or show them that were semi-constant. But we weren't there for them. I ignored them as did she, continuing on. It went on for the better part of an hour. And once it was done she was to close the room down and meet back with me so we could talk about it.
All flushed and grinning from ear to ear, I had to reclassify this "punishment" as a potential reward. It backfired apparantly.

Next?
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[FurryFury]

Well my husband doesn't keep me in line. So noffin there.

My online Doms typically haven't needed to keep me in line but the first one did do a distance thing that seemed to be for that purpose. I hated that. It wasn't a good thing IMO. I thought I understood why but maybe I was just making excuses for him cause clearly I understood very little about him in the end.

I'd have to say my secret fav thing is the frisson of fear. What will he demand and can I do it, has a nice fine edge to it at times.

Does that make sense?

 

[myinnerslut]

im n ot sure this is what you are looking for, but i have a story as well. it has two parts. the part that was used to keep me in line, and the part that made me want to always make him happy.

this was almost two years ago, our D/s relationship was new. brand new. only a few months old, if that. i was still pushing limits more then i should have to find out what was allowed and what wasnt. we were driving back from somewhere, a several hour drive, ending whith A dropping me off at my house. i had been bothering him about something. i think i took his baseball hat off his head, put it on mine, and wouldnt give it back when asked for it.

he asked for it and i refused. four times, i believe. like i said, new reationship and i was trying o see what i could get away with. its not something im proud of, but ill admit to it as im not perfect.

we got to my house and he parked the car instead of ropping me off like i knew he planned on doing. i got very nervouse as he told me to get out and take him up to my room. i did, and he instructed me to pull down my pants and panties, then bent me over the bed.

from my closet he took a thin stingy plastic hanger. i had no idea that thing would hurt so much or mark so well. four times he struck me, once for each time i said no to him in the car. when he finished i had tears in my eyes. i sank to his knees and apologized. then i begged to be allowed to please him.

he bent me over the bed again and i heard him rummaging in the draw i kept my condoms and lube. i was positive he was oing to take my ass, something i hadnt learned to enjoy yet, particularly not when my ass was welted. instead i felt him slide into me. i was shocked and relieved and curious all at once. when i asked why he didnt take my ass, A replied that as much as he hated punishing me, he was proud becuase i asked to please him, with no thought to my own pleasure.

 

[twysted73]

im n ot sure this is what you are looking for, but i have a story as well. it has two parts. the part that was used to keep me in line, and the part that made me want to always make him happy.

this was almost two years ago, our D/s relationship was new. brand new. only a few months old, if that. i was still pushing limits more then i should have to find out what was allowed and what wasnt. we were driving back from somewhere, a several hour drive, ending whith A dropping me off at my house. i had been bothering him about something. i think i took his baseball hat off his head, put it on mine, and wouldnt give it back when asked for it.

he asked for it and i refused. four times, i believe. like i said, new reationship and i was trying o see what i could get away with. its not something im proud of, but ill admit to it as im not perfect.

we got to my house and he parked the car instead of ropping me off like i knew he planned on doing. i got very nervouse as he told me to get out and take him up to my room. i did, and he instructed me to pull down my pants and panties, then bent me over the bed.

from my closet he took a thin stingy plastic hanger. i had no idea that thing would hurt so much or mark so well. four times he struck me, once for each time i said no to him in the car. when he finished i had tears in my eyes. i sank to his knees and apologized. then i begged to be allowed to please him.

he bent me over the bed again and i heard him rummaging in the draw i kept my condoms and lube. i was positive he was oing to take my ass, something i hadnt learned to enjoy yet, particularly not when my ass was welted. instead i felt him slide into me. i was shocked and relieved and curious all at once. when i asked why he didnt take my ass, A replied that as much as he hated punishing me, he was proud becuase i asked to please him, with no thought to my own pleasure.

Thank you for sharing this. It was beautiful.

 

[Xelebes]

Spinning things until they turn.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

... I want your SECRET FAVORITE!

The one rule/punishment you don't want to admit you like to do/have done but feel the need to share even as you read this. Yeah....THAT one.

Heh... That would be telling.

And it would no longer be a secret then, would it?

 

[twysted73]

Heh... That would be telling.

And it would no longer be a secret then, would it?

Well obviously a secret would no longer be a secret if you told everyone. But we're here in Lit. So it's safe to say that 99.9 % of the world's population will not be aware that you told. Besides....anything you have "secret" isn't a secret "technically" so long as anyone other then you know it. So unless you personally invented every sexual, kinky, in-depth mind fuck, Pyl technique and style out there, then someone had to have told you.
So instead of pouting in the corner and keeping your secrets, be a sport and take this chance to leave something of yourself with everyone here other then the occasional broken hearted sub on lit.

 

[twysted73]

Wow...

attack a local favorite (even a little jab), lose an audience. You guys are close in here.

Ah well. You'll have this.

"Non, je ne regret." - Edith Piaf

 

[Netzach]

was there a question in there, or am I just on slow mo today?

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[DeservingBitch]

Conversly, if he wants me standing on a pedestal in 5" stilettos, balancing a book on my head while reciting Milton - all he has to do is say so.

OK - am i the only one now who'd like to enjoy that show? although Milton would probably not be my first pick.

 

[DeservingBitch]

"Non, je ne regret." - Edith Piaf

That would be "Non, je ne regrette rien". Just sayin'

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[Thane1234]

... I suspect the actual goal is serving as artwork just for the sake of artwork. lol)

*shamelessly borrows this idea and walks away with an evil grin*

 

[midwestyankee]

There would be a certain perverse enjoyment in watching CM recite portions of Dante, though (and the stool wouldn't be necessary).

 

[BiBunny]

Wow - find your thread topic didn't draw as much attention as you expected, pull out the conspiracy theories...

I've not answered the thread, because the "secret favorite" question kinda reads like "Ohhh tell me all about the hot 'punishments' <wink wink, nudge nudge> you use to exert control/abdicate control..." and well... ew. It perpetuates the concept of playing punishment games (personal pet peeve), and I'm way too grown up to do that.

If I want a flogging, a spanking, and ass f*cking or bondage, I'm a big enough girl to ask for it. Conversly, if he wants me standing on a pedestal in 5" stilettos, balancing a book on my head while reciting Milton - all he has to do is say so.

That would certainly be punishment for me. I *really* don't like Milton.

Though if I were told to recite any of the Transcendentalists, I'd safeword. *Shudder*

 

[FurryFury]

Mmm... yeah... I keep pointing out I'm 6'1" in stilettos which would require awfully tall celings, and what if I fall; he keeps saying he'll build a new house with higher ceilings if necessary, and he won't let me.

(Milton was the first thing that came to mind... I suspect the actual goal is serving as artwork just for the sake of artwork. lol)

Sooooo, I'm curious. Who is he? A new Dom? A possible Dom? A serious interest?

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[Netzach]

Am I the only person since 1798 who likes Paradise lost?

CM careful, you just might get yourself a job out my way. I can rent high ceilings.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Am I the only person since 1798 who likes Paradise lost?

CM careful, you just might get yourself a job out my way. I can rent high ceilings.

Oh no, Netz! There are lots of Literature teachers who like it as well. Either that or they are as sadistic as _their_ teachers were... *LOL*

I'll see your Milton and raise you a Hawthorne!

 

[midwestyankee]

Oh no, Netz! There are lots of Literature teachers who like it as well. Either that or they are as sadistic as _their_ teachers were... *LOL*

I'll see your Milton and raise you a Hawthorne!

Hawthorne had some good points...they were just 400 pages apart.

I'll see your Hawthorne and raise you a Trollope or an Edward Bulwer-Lytton.

 

[BiBunny]

Hawthorne=not nearly as bad as Emerson.

 

[FurryFury]

No comment. lol

Darn it!

*pouts*