Ghosting Sucks

[jason28053]

Imagine, if you will, a conversation like this.

Him: Hi how are you?
Me: Hi
Him: Let's chat!
Me: Ok
Him: I want to chain you in my dungeon and assfuck you until you beg me to stop
Me: [silence]
Him: WHY ARE YOU GHOSTING ME?

As soon as the convo goes weird or dark or creepy, or in any way makes me uneasy, I'm out. And I don't owe anybody an explanation.

That’s a creepy conversation. I wouldn’t respond either

 

[sexymilf44]

Getting ghosted sucks. I always thought maybe it was because they were trying to be good so they quit only to see them back on here chatting with someone else. It makes me wonder what I did wrong. I still feel insecure.

 

[DirtyBamaDaddy69]

Getting ghosted sucks. I always thought maybe it was because they were trying to be good so they quit only to see them back on here chatting with someone else. It makes me wonder what I did wrong. I still feel insecure.

A lot of guys seem to want to "conquer" as many as they can just like in real life. They get what they want (or don't get what they want) and move on to the next victim. I highly doubt that you did anything wrong. Just my two cents.

 

[sexymilf44]

A lot of guys seem to want to "conquer" as many as they can just like in real life. They get what they want (or don't get what they want) and move on to the next victim. I highly doubt that you did anything wrong. Just my two cents.

That’s just like my current chat partner. I thought I was giving him every picture he would want, but he’s still on here looking. Men will be men and women will be women whether it be in real life or on here.

 

[IARainman]

I'm sad when someone I have a long exchange with just disappears and it also sucks when a promising discussion ends abruptly. But I'm getting used to it. I do wish more people would circle back after an absence. It's ok, I get how real life and competing demands are pressed on one's time and attention.

Kinda comes down to treating people like people. Talk, ask, tell

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Getting ghosted sucks. I always thought maybe it was because they were trying to be good so they quit only to see them back on here chatting with someone else. It makes me wonder what I did wrong. I still feel insecure.

It happens to a lot of us, things going great then bam nothing.

It sucks for sure but don't dwell too deeply on what you may have done wrong because if it isn't super obvious that you did something wrong it is most likely the other person didn't appreciate you enough to explain why they moved on.

Which is a reflection on them not you

 

[impresso]

Well, responses to detailed messages such as “ok,” “cool,” and “hot” also cause ghosting because they discourage people from writing more than one word )

 

[evolova]

Hang in there, keep talking to people, you’ll find someone who actually respects you