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[sxygirl37]

so, tell me, why is it whenever u leave a relationship, and the guy says he needs his space and all that b.s., and the girl leaves, then when all is said and done, he wants her back again????

guys or gals - anyone help me figure this one out?

 

[Bowlerpa]

Becuase he thought he was gonna to something better but in the end it turned out that the original girl was the real one.

 

[Guest]

Sometimes we need distance to gain perspective.

Sometimes we don't fully appreciate what we have until we've lost it or throw it away.

And sometimes we just miss getting laid on demand.

 

[sxygirl37]

thanx, forlorn! cute last line. but true, huh?

it's funny how that second line is said by everybody. one guy i had a long-term with, he decided after almost 8 yrs, that he wanted to finally marry me!

u men are so hard to predict! lol

 

[lostnfoundagain]

it's mainly the last line

 

[Guest]

We're not as complex as women like to make us. Though, most of us, regardless of age, are still children who haven't really figured out what we want and, therefore, find it impossible to commit to any decision when there are so many choices before us.

 

[cainm13]

wasn't ready

Well, I broke up with my last gf because I wasn't ready for a relationship, and I wanted her back when I was ready.

After awhile, I just notice that other girls just don't seem as great as she was.

 

[DaydreamBeliever]

so, tell me, why is it whenever u leave a relationship, and the guy says he needs his space and all that b.s., and the girl leaves, then when all is said and done, he wants her back again????

guys or gals - anyone help me figure this one out?

men can't let go, especially after they realize what they have lost. and they don't want to work hard to build a new relationship so they want to fall back into what was good before

 

[sxygirl37]

or they know that what they had was the best they'll ever have.

 

[SexyCleric]

so, tell me, why is it whenever u leave a relationship, and the guy says he needs his space and all that b.s., and the girl leaves, then when all is said and done, he wants her back again????

guys or gals - anyone help me figure this one out?

My two cents; comfort zones.

Most guys, and girls too, will generally try to avoid change when possible, and then when change has to happen, we try our best to make it painful.

Guys will want to get back with you because they know who you are, and that seems a better prospect than doing the whole process over again.

The sex on demand bit too...

 

[mrtnmoon]

u men are so hard to predict! lol

right. and you women are perfectly logical and understandable.

 

[thickfat6]

lifes 2 short

lifes 2 short 2 wait around.........ditch him

 

[feathermoon]

Reliable and understanding......

We girls make perfect sense all the time.

How dare you suggest something different, lol.

I'm so eclectic, I scare myself, let alone a man having to try to understand me. Both sexes have a lot to learn about communication.

Hugs to all.
Jodette

 

[funinsun160]

because for us guys the grass is ALWAYS greener on th other side,that is until we get there

 

[pittbr7]

Im kind of going through this now. Its regarding my ex gf. We broke up like 4 years ago. We were going to different schools and I guess my priorties were more on partying. We do keep in contact and talk every so often and I find myself thinking about her more and more lately. Ive let her know how I feel but also feel I am alot more mature and am not pressing the issue with her. I have dated other girls but the connection isn't there as it was with her. We are both 25 now and still really good friends, I honestly am still in love with her but am not getting my hope up. She was also amazing in bed which is a big plus...not the only thing I like in her but she was nice and freaky...lol.

 

[Zack_28]

i have no idea. i've never said that to anyone... but im guessing he needs time.....

 

[ltnsfr007]

so, tell me, why is it whenever u leave a relationship, and the guy says he needs his space and all that b.s., and the girl leaves, then when all is said and done, he wants her back again????

guys or gals - anyone help me figure this one out?

How's that saying go "The pussy is allways better on a different bed''

 

[sxygirl37]

thank u everyone for ur opinions. makes me wonder about everything, ya know?

we are still very good friends. we talk regularly. we would like to see each other just one more time, but 2,000 miles is a long way away! we'll see.

i guess age doesn't have anything to do with it, huh? mid-life crisis stuff or anything like that? it'd happen regardless????

oh well. i guess i was just in a mood the night i started this. but i have enjoyed hearing everyone's opinions and i thank u for them!!!!

feel free to add more opinions. i will always cherish them!!!!

sweet dreams to those i never get to say g'nite to!!!!!

~~hugs 'n kisses to all~~

 

[Sprydle]

....perhaps he didn't realize how good he actually had it until she was gone and he was all alone in an empty bed.

....better off breaking up over a big fight because make up sex is THE hottest!

 

[i8k4u]

Eye candy

With just two exceptions I've never looked back, never regretted leaving or being left and never wondered what might have been. I do know, for what it might be worth, that many men never mature beyond high school. I know men my own age - mid 50's - who still think it is all about whose woman is the prettiest, the sexiest or makes the best piece of eye candy. It doesn't help explain it to call such behavior shallow, but I still think there is an element of "I'm dating a cheerleader and you aren't" to it.

Just in case you are interested in the two I regret? First, Heidi W., from College Station, Tx. We never had sex (other than "petting" and oral) but she is the only woman/girl -she was 19, I was 24- from my past whose name and hometown I remember. I'd still like to know how she manged to make her pussy taste like strawberries. And a woman, a gorgeous chicana, I dated years ago in LA. She had narcolepsy, which is actually a form of siezure. Unfortunately one of the most common triggers for narcoleptics is physiological stimulation. You got it... every time she'd get sexually excited she'd fall asleep. Generally the women I take to bed have enough manners to wait and fall asleep AFTER I've bored them.

 

[keiffers]

at the risk of sounding harsh, it comes down to this....because women make a big deal and ask 20 questions about everything when it is the guy leaving, but when the girl does the same thing, then that's it, finished, no questions allowed to be asked....just chalk it up and move on. that's my opinion anyway...

 

[sxygirl37]

well, i am the one that left him. so, i've moved on, so to speak. but we are still friends.

o well - i guess i was just in a mood that nite.

happy thanxgiving everyone!