getting to the point plain and simple

[lonely_hubby60]

My last ad must have been an accident; hard to imagine anybody had the stamina for reading it. Here is the same with all verbiage cut out.

I look for a unique kind of woman, but who does not? My kind of uniqueness is AC&R, both in terms of what I love to give a woman, and in terms of what I like to get back from her. AC stands for an “all-inclusive” companionship, and R describes the responsiveness part of it.

Everyone looking for someone here, wants some kind of companionship; myself included. What makes my kind unique (remember: BOTH for giving and taking) is all the aspects I long to include in it. Why? I feel a terrible void inside of me, and I am looking for a woman who feels likewise. And with both of us feeling so empty companionship-wise, we both expect a lot from the partner we seek.

My wife, who I still cherish and feel much solidarity toward, was instrumental in having our erotic intimacy come to an end, and that created all sorts of emptiness aspects in our marriage. From inhibited gestures of tenderness during the day, to lack of cuddling at night. And eventual evaporation of TRULY loving feelings. Not even mentioning our lack of sex, because here compensation is relatively easy. As YOU – longing woman – will have found out also, I presume.

So what I seek in an ideal all-inclusive companionship with another woman, is all these items that you and I have been missing for so long. From truly caring empathy to tingling each other’s minds with challenging intellectual talks. About all sorts of subjects; I am a highly curious man, and I hope you are curious as well. And more satisfying orgasms than now, of course, by getting your and my fantasy to work again.

Only a few words on responsiveness: I figure it will come about thru diligent listening mainly. Because both of us are curiously interested in the whole persona of one another. That you and I both are people enthusiastic about expressing ourselves, I see as a given. If you were not, you would not have stuck with me so far, reading my still lengthy ad thru the very end.

So in case I have described YOUR needs as well in MY ad, I figure you cannot hold on to yourself now and you’ll PM me right back.

 

[lonely_hubby60]

It looks to me that "you PMing me right back" was a mighty illusion of mine. Maybe I did not even get my point across all that well. Certainly not plain and simple. Most likely because I am much more complex a human being than I had assumed to be.

Now all I can hope for is running into an equally complex woman as me. Maybe one who is having her difficulties finding easy acceptance, similar to me. Possibly it takes two people who are plain different, to make a happy couple?