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chin_butterfly

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Hey,

Anyone interested to know what pleasures a Chinese woman more than anything else?
I think I know enough to share what I gathered over the years by experience
 
wow..so many guys interested in knowing what makes chinese girls tick??

i never would've imagined. Or am I just imagining?
 
instmsngrlady said:
wow..so many guys interested in knowing what makes chinese girls tick??

i never would've imagined. Or am I just imagining?
Many of us find the beauty of an asian woman quite irresistable. I mean nothing disrespectful to any ethnic group, but I have always found myself attracted to asian women more than any other ethnicity.

I definitely would like to her more.
 
generalization??

There are a half billion (give or take a few hundred million) Chinese women in the world. I may be wrong here, but I suspect that there is no one thing that makes them all tick. Seems to me that you want to tell us what makes YOU tick....which I have absolutely no opposition to....lol
With regards to Chinese women in general....I have always found them sexy as hell! Yes, thats a generalization too, but it's pretty much true.
 
let's fine tune then

Chinese woman are like chameleon, they change according to environment to suit circumstances. How did you suppose Chinese survive all these years in every corner of the world.

Now guys and gals, please ask me to discuss on a topic in particular like food, behaviour, warmth, love, moods etc etc...
I know we are desirable........but how and why?
 
i personally think that most men (especially non-Asian men) have this misconception of what an Asian woman is like. (using the term Asian instead of Chinese, to make it more general)

Most men think that Asian women are quiet and submissive in nature and therefore will be submissive in bed as well. Yet there are still others who think that because we're taught to be submissive and to serve men that we turn into wild crazy sex-starved nymphos in bed.

I, for one, am pretty much the latter of that "misconception"...but I am in no way submissive and quiet outside of the bedroom. I know how to stand up for myself and I have learned through past experiences how to be a strong individual. But also because of those experiences I am less likely to be so trusting of others and I am definitely more cynical (and sometimes bitter?) about life.

One time an ex-boyfriend, who was white, told me that he only dated me because he was curious about what it'd be like to sleep with an Asian girl..and that for many months he only thought of me as an object to be used. He told all his friends about what we'd do and they all wanted a "piece of me too" because they thought I was some slut based on how wild I was in bed. That experience totally changed my perception of myself. From thinking that I was desirable as a woman, as a human being...I started wondering if any guy dated me just because I was Asian, just to fuck me. It took me a long time to recover from that...

Although I am all those things I've described, there are moments when all I really want is to be happy and to be loved. My ultimate goal as a woman is to settle down and have a family. I cannot wait until the day I finally become a mother (hopefully not TOO soon, tho). I want to find a man who will treat me like a woman is supposed to be treated. Someone who's kind, gentle, generous, sensitive to my needs and desires, someone's who's willing to take care of me as much as I want to take care of him. I want to be able to trust again, I want to love unconditonally without any doubt that it'll last. I just want someone who loves me for me...faults and all.

Sigh...this is getting kinda long...maybe I'll continue with this at a later time. I have a tendency to kinda blab on and on...sorry. heehee.
 
hi instmsngrlady.....
Stereotypical chinese lady for me is a short, petite, dark haired lady in leather pants, sunglasses & kashmir sweater. drives a yellow sportscar, has every telecommunication device that you can imagine, & is just melt in your mouth.....
but correct me if I'm wrong....
 
Maybe it's just the "wonder" of it ...

I see an asian woman that I find attractive...and wonder what it would be like to share her bed. I don't think my mind goes to submissive or dominant, or sports cars or leather pants. I just wonder what it would be like to share a sexual experience with her.

That thought pattern for me is very general. This thread could be named "Getting to know black women", or "getting to know Native American"...as these are all experiences that I have NOT had, it just makes me "wonder".

Like the kid in the candy store, I just would like to taste (at least)one of everything!
 
chin_butterfly said:
Hey,

Anyone interested to know what pleasures a Chinese woman more than anything else?
I think I know enough to share what I gathered over the years by experience
Yes ma'am :D
 
Love to hear more

chin_butterfly said:
Chinese woman are like chameleon, they change according to environment to suit circumstances. How did you suppose Chinese survive all these years in every corner of the world.

Now guys and gals, please ask me to discuss on a topic in particular like food, behaviour, warmth, love, moods etc etc...
I know we are desirable........but how and why?

Love to hear more about your needs and desires and anything else you'd care to share. Thanks, Bill
 
Asian Women

instmsngrlady said:
i personally think that most men (especially non-Asian men) have this misconception of what an Asian woman is like. (using the term Asian instead of Chinese, to make it more general)

Most men think that Asian women are quiet and submissive in nature and therefore will be submissive in bed as well. Yet there are still others who think that because we're taught to be submissive and to serve men that we turn into wild crazy sex-starved nymphos in bed.

I, for one, am pretty much the latter of that "misconception"...but I am in no way submissive and quiet outside of the bedroom. I know how to stand up for myself and I have learned through past experiences how to be a strong individual. But also because of those experiences I am less likely to be so trusting of others and I am definitely more cynical (and sometimes bitter?) about life.

One time an ex-boyfriend, who was white, told me that he only dated me because he was curious about what it'd be like to sleep with an Asian girl..and that for many months he only thought of me as an object to be used. He told all his friends about what we'd do and they all wanted a "piece of me too" because they thought I was some slut based on how wild I was in bed. That experience totally changed my perception of myself. From thinking that I was desirable as a woman, as a human being...I started wondering if any guy dated me just because I was Asian, just to fuck me. It took me a long time to recover from that...

Although I am all those things I've described, there are moments when all I really want is to be happy and to be loved. My ultimate goal as a woman is to settle down and have a family. I cannot wait until the day I finally become a mother (hopefully not TOO soon, tho). I want to find a man who will treat me like a woman is supposed to be treated. Someone who's kind, gentle, generous, sensitive to my needs and desires, someone's who's willing to take care of me as much as I want to take care of him. I want to be able to trust again, I want to love unconditonally without any doubt that it'll last. I just want someone who loves me for me...faults and all.

Sigh...this is getting kinda long...maybe I'll continue with this at a later time. I have a tendency to kinda blab on and on...sorry. heehee.
I have dated a few Asian women over the years, and also one Asian-American. Most of the Asians I know are all well educated and sucessful. This makes it kind of hard for an average guy because I usually feel inferior to them at least financially. I have always wanted to have a relationship with an Asian woman but it hasnt happened for yet. Just wanted to say I have a lot of respect for Asian women and they are also extremely attractive.
 
instmsngrlady said:
i personally think that most men (especially non-Asian men) have this misconception of what an Asian woman is like. (using the term Asian instead of Chinese, to make it more general)

Most men think that Asian women are quiet and submissive in nature and therefore will be submissive in bed as well. Yet there are still others who think that because we're taught to be submissive and to serve men that we turn into wild crazy sex-starved nymphos in bed.

I, for one, am pretty much the latter of that "misconception"...but I am in no way submissive and quiet outside of the bedroom. I know how to stand up for myself and I have learned through past experiences how to be a strong individual. But also because of those experiences I am less likely to be so trusting of others and I am definitely more cynical (and sometimes bitter?) about life.

One time an ex-boyfriend, who was white, told me that he only dated me because he was curious about what it'd be like to sleep with an Asian girl..and that for many months he only thought of me as an object to be used. He told all his friends about what we'd do and they all wanted a "piece of me too" because they thought I was some slut based on how wild I was in bed. That experience totally changed my perception of myself. From thinking that I was desirable as a woman, as a human being...I started wondering if any guy dated me just because I was Asian, just to fuck me. It took me a long time to recover from that...

Although I am all those things I've described, there are moments when all I really want is to be happy and to be loved. My ultimate goal as a woman is to settle down and have a family. I cannot wait until the day I finally become a mother (hopefully not TOO soon, tho). I want to find a man who will treat me like a woman is supposed to be treated. Someone who's kind, gentle, generous, sensitive to my needs and desires, someone's who's willing to take care of me as much as I want to take care of him. I want to be able to trust again, I want to love unconditonally without any doubt that it'll last. I just want someone who loves me for me...faults and all.

Sigh...this is getting kinda long...maybe I'll continue with this at a later time. I have a tendency to kinda blab on and on...sorry. heehee.

That guy was a bastard and so were his friends. I hope you see that. It's unfortunate you had to recover at all.
 
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