Getting snipped

[bicuriohub]

I’m relatively young and just got a vasectomy,I must say I’m excited about my prospects with my wife and our further exploration into all that entails.
We’ve briefly talked about having threesomes and others joining us at some point in the near future,so not only will this allow us to be a bit more free in our own caution with unprotected sex minus any birth control(which has had side effects to my wife’s health) but hopefully meeting with new folks and some we already know that I’d love to dive right in with so to speak.
The notion of cumming in someone else but sharing that with my wife as we share eachother is quite the turn on. Having her there and both of us being unhindered sounds pretty exciting(of course with responsibility regarding any unprotected sex)

 

[hulmule]

Well in my life it didn't change anything. Wife keep saying i'll feel more comfortable... Didn't happen, but i'm in the no sex club. lol But unprotected sex? isn't that scary? I dont get any sex, i would love to just go get a BJ if i could but i'm afraid to catch something. I dont think a BJ with a rubber on would feel very good. Thoughts

 

[bicuriohub]

Well in my life it didn't change anything. Wife keep saying i'll feel more comfortable... Didn't happen, but i'm in the no sex club. lol But unprotected sex? isn't that scary? I dont get any sex, i would love to just go get a BJ if i could but i'm afraid to catch something. I dont think a BJ with a rubber on would feel very good. Thoughts

Lol sorry about the no sex club,we’re still pretty consistent so it’s a frequent thing. Obviously if I’m going to have unprotected sex with anyone else we’d all get tested prior to,it may not be as sexy or spur of the moment but knowing we’re all std free is a fun notion to be able to go to town on eachother unencumbered by condoms and the like.

 

[ReadyOne]

The beginning of the end for the marriage to the mother of my children.

 

[WilliamOddly]

When I had a vasectomy there was a complication (something about an unexpected cluster of veins which the guy was worried about accidentally cutting), which slowed down the whole process and the anaesthetic wore off before he was finished. So, super fun balls pain, and an uncompleted vasectomy. Oh, and I got fired during the two weeks vacation time I'd taken to get cut and recover in peace. Yay.

 

[curiouschattycouple]

We are thinking about the vasectomy... anyone here who can tell us about post procedure sex? Any pain? Less cum? Etc

 

[Deleted member 861104]

We are thinking about the vasectomy... anyone here who can tell us about post procedure sex? Any pain? Less cum? Etc

Let’s see... I had mine many years ago...everything worked just fine afterwards and is continuing in that regard. I think the amount of cum is the same. Hurt like hell for a couple days after, but had it in a Friday afternoon and was back teaching Monday morning.

My best memory is at lunch on that Friday we were talking about it and a colleague was peeling a banana as he was saying that it was an easy procedure and I wouldn’t feel anything. Then he broke his banana in half.

 

[ReadyOne]

We are thinking about the vasectomy... anyone here who can tell us about post procedure sex? Any pain? Less cum? Etc

No noticeable difference.

Imagine the surgery as a hit to your balls, an accident that leaves you groaning for a bit. They are sore for a day or two, then you don't need your jock strap anymore.

Of course, you don't go through the actual pain and groaning because the doctor used anesthesia. You just treat your nuts very gently for a while.

 

[Jada59]

I just know that after a male friend had it done, he kept putting a bag of frozen peas on his crotch, for days!

 

[gunthernehmen]

I just know that after a male friend had it done, he kept putting a bag of frozen peas on his crotch, for days!

Yup. Frozen peas work best. No complications. Just sore as hell for a few days.

 

[bicuriohub]

Haven’t cum yet since having it done but the only pain I’ve felt is the occasional feeling like somebody lightly smacked me in the balls for about five minutes,otherwise pain has been virtually nonexistent. I’ve been laying around on the couch with my bag of frozen peas,no need for pain meds either

 

[zekuma]

We both hate contraception and side effects. Played Russian roulette for a while while we contemplated more kids but then decided to go for the snip as the most practical solution.
It takes you about a month of shooting to end up blank so don't forget that minor detail. I have a post snip niece that we still rib my sister in law about; too quick to try the goodies.
Mine was the no scalpel in the chair walk in walk out one and it wasn't bad. Post op, same as everyone, but down the track there was slight dull ache that would come and go for a year or two if I went a bit without shooting.
Volume-wise, I think after a while there was a decrease. Not instantaneously but on the occaisions it was out and not in someone you would think maybe a bit less than before. Could be age as well so not saying just one thing. We experimented with arginine supplements after reading that the sex industry lives on it and for me it definitely got back to previous or more, so that detail is fixed.
The no worries, any time, no hormones no barriers sex is definitely the best for both of us, so no regrets at all.

 

[hulmule]

I worked for a few hours after mine around the house. then took a break. never really hurt bad. Friend of mine said his got the size of softballs...

 

[Mr. Briggs]

I have to get mine soon. I'm hoping to convince my wife to reward me with my first creampie once it's done.

 

[wildcowgirl]

I have to get mine soon. I'm hoping to convince my wife to reward me with my first creampie once it's done.

Yesss sounds like a fair request!

 

[Mr. Briggs]

Yesss sounds like a fair request!

Thanks! Hope she agrees as well.

 

[bicuriohub]

I have to get mine soon. I'm hoping to convince my wife to reward me with my first creampie once it's done.

My wife was pretty grateful and I had no problem doing it,especially so she can stop her birth control which gave her some negative side effects. I’m pretty excited to pickup our sex life here in a week or so when I can get back to full function lol. She seems like she wants to make it worth my while too so I’m hoping that leads to all sorts of fun in the coming months

 

[georgejessin]

I got one after my ex and I had a second unplanned child and she had a difficult pregnancy. It was not super fun... I remember being on the OR table under local, and looking up and seeing a sheet of paper on the ceiling that said "Smile, you're on Candid Camera".

Post op? It was not excruciating. The bag of peas thing is real, and it works. One caveat... if you are working in a job where you lift heavy things? Take a few days off... at the time I got mine, I was working in heavy demolition. I went back into strenuous work too soon and it caused a setback in my recovery.

I LOVE not having to use condoms. I LOVE KNOWING that I cannot have any more children.

No unprotected sex without testing. If you are done having kids? It is easier for a man to get snipped and if you are divorced as I was not long after I got mine? I never had to worry about a woman trying to pregnancy scam me. And yes, it was attempted twice. Did not do anything to the amount of ejaculate, or my abilities...

And again, I LOVE knowing that I cannot have an "oopsy". I am in my 50's and have watched two buddies get their girlfriends pregnant... zero fun for them as they will be almost 70 when the kids graduate high school.

 

[missswannie]

I have to get mine soon. I'm hoping to convince my wife to reward me with my first creampie once it's done.

Thats the great thing about choosing it as your method of family planning. Full blasts inside and the lovely horniness of a natural cycle. You won't regret it and she will be very grateful for her gift I am sure

 

[bobb_sledd]

I suggest your first cum after the procedure be in the bowl, as it usually contains blood clots from the healing process. Looks pretty nasty.

 

[HampshireBoy]

My (now ex) wife was always on the pill so I always came inside her as neither of us were keen on condoms, the reason for me having the snip was so that she could come off the pill. This was about 12 years ago.

I drove myself home from the hospital (despite a nurse being a pain in the arse and telling me I shouldn't). A bit of an ache for a few days, and small amount of bleeding, back at work the next day. I can't remember how long before we had sex, I left it a couple more days than the doctor told me. I do remember that the first couple of cumshots had blood in them. It had made absolutely difference to amount of cum, no noticeable difference.

A mate of mine, his balls swelled up to huge size with a lot of pain, off work for over a week. But he is the only person that I have heard off having any issues.

On the plus side it did mean that once I was single I didn't have to worry about getting anyone pregnant but using a condom is more about STIs to me.

 

[bicuriohub]

Update: so I finally jerked off yesterday after a week of not doing so per post op instructions. I was a bit nervous about any pain or issues that may rise when attempting but I had been spending all week probably watching way too much porn lol and got myself worked up pretty well. Regularly I masturbate probably every other day plus my normal sex life as well so it was a long break to have to wait a week.
I have to say the orgasm and cumshot to follow was one of the best I’ve had in a while,I started easy and took my time. It came in two or three waves,I initially ejaculated and a good bit came out then I was still shaking followed by two separate pumps out which almost felt like two separate orgasms,it felt great to get back knot it like that.

 

[Imaverycuriousguy]

Glad it worked out so well

Update: so I finally jerked off yesterday after a week of not doing so per post op instructions. I was a bit nervous about any pain or issues that may rise when attempting but I had been spending all week probably watching way too much porn lol and got myself worked up pretty well. Regularly I masturbate probably every other day plus my normal sex life as well so it was a long break to have to wait a week.
I have to say the orgasm and cumshot to follow was one of the best I’ve had in a while,I started easy and took my time. It came in two or three waves,I initially ejaculated and a good bit came out then I was still shaking followed by two separate pumps out which almost felt like two separate orgasms,it felt great to get back knot it like that.

Mine was essentially a none event. Tender for a few days and took a couple of days off. I had a mach coworker that returned to work immediately after the snipping, no cold pack just walked around like no big deal......that night his balls swelled up and he was off several days. Some decrease in ejaculate volume for me...could have been that I was 46 and it happens with age. Loved not having to roll a rubber on for sex......

 

[bicuriohub]

Mine was essentially a none event. Tender for a few days and took a couple of days off. I had a mach coworker that returned to work immediately after the snipping, no cold pack just walked around like no big deal......that night his balls swelled up and he was off several days. Some decrease in ejaculate volume for me...could have been that I was 46 and it happens with age. Loved not having to roll a rubber on for sex......

I did a few days of taking it easy with he ice pack,not really any swelling and I’m good now about a week out. I’m 33 so I’m still on the young-ish side plus I’ve always been a pretty heavy cummer,that first load was of course a build up anyways so I figured it would be pretty big.
Still waiting a bit before having sex with my wife,more so I don’t get roughed up from moving around vigorously but she’s being patient with me and still rubbing me down here and there so I can’t complain

 

[hotrodtom]

I was 43 and we had had our kids, so no BC pills was good for my wife.
30+ years later, I was recently helped to a prostate cum by an RN, and she was surprised by the amount of ejaculate. She told me that I should have a sperm count before getting frisky with a young lady because she had seen some grow back.
Anyone else heard that?