Getting her to finger me

[cockster21]

I've always enjoyed anal stimulation, I often stick a finger or two up my butt when I am masturbating. I have been with my GF for 7 months now, and she recently started rubbing her fingers in the area between my scrotum and my asshole and it feels extremely amazing.

What she does is, when she is on top facing me, she will either put two fingers in her mouth to lube them, or have me lube up her fingers by sucking them. Then, she starts rubbing her fingers down there. Sometimes, she is REALLY close to my anus and I almost feel like telling her "stick them in" but I just can't do it....

How can I get her to finger me?

Thanks!

 

[Yachtsman69]

It sure sounds like that is what she wants to do and is just waiting for a sign from you. I suggest you use your hand to gently guide her hand to the spot...

 

[MercedeSexy]

I've always enjoyed anal stimulation, I often stick a finger or two up my butt when I am masturbating. I have been with my GF for 7 months now, and she recently started rubbing her fingers in the area between my scrotum and my asshole and it feels extremely amazing.

What she does is, when she is on top facing me, she will either put two fingers in her mouth to lube them, or have me lube up her fingers by sucking them. Then, she starts rubbing her fingers down there. Sometimes, she is REALLY close to my anus and I almost feel like telling her "stick them in" but I just can't do it....

How can I get her to finger me?

Thanks!

I can think of a couple of ways...

Option 1: Do you ever masturbate in front of her? If you get the opportunity to enjoy some mutual masturbation, you could slip your finger inside your ass to show her that you like it.

Option 2: Next time your face is between her thighs, tease her anus with your finger. If it feels comfortable, talk about it with her. Ask her if she likes it. If she's open to it, confess that it's something you like, too.

Hope this works out for you.
Best of luck to you.

 

[CBM514]

I've always enjoyed anal stimulation, I often stick a finger or two up my butt when I am masturbating. I have been with my GF for 7 months now, and she recently started rubbing her fingers in the area between my scrotum and my asshole and it feels extremely amazing.

What she does is, when she is on top facing me, she will either put two fingers in her mouth to lube them, or have me lube up her fingers by sucking them. Then, she starts rubbing her fingers down there. Sometimes, she is REALLY close to my anus and I almost feel like telling her "stick them in" but I just can't do it....

How can I get her to finger me?

Thanks!

Could just ask her if she wants to try it and suggest that if she is you would be ok with it, don't have to come out and reveal yet that it's something you enjoy...may also try bucking your hips/ass enough towards her finger so she gets the hint

 

[hd8001]

Another thing you can do is rock your hips up like you want her to finger you and say please finger me. It sounds as if she is wanting to but unsure if you want it.

 

[cockster21]

Another thing you can do is rock your hips up like you want her to finger you and say please finger me. It sounds as if she is wanting to but unsure if you want it.

Im just not sure how open minded she is with sex yet, and I am too shy to talk to her about that. I have tried rocking my hips up and she just kept playing near my anus and then rubbed my balls. I think she knows it feels really good if she plays down there, but I am not sure if she is waiting for a sign from me...

What if, next time, I just rock my hips up and say "put your finger in" ? I am really scared of her reaction lol....

As for me fingering her ass, I would love it really much. I was super horny last night and while I was on top, I grabbed her ass cheeks with my hand, then slowly worked my fingers closer and closer, but didn't have the balls to just rub my finger on her hole. She didn't seem to react so I don't know what to do.

 

[tonguedancer]

I can think of a couple of ways...

Option 1: Do you ever masturbate in front of her? If you get the opportunity to enjoy some mutual masturbation, you could slip your finger inside your ass to show her that you like it.

Option 2: Next time your face is between her thighs, tease her anus with your finger. If it feels comfortable, talk about it with her. Ask her if she likes it. If she's open to it, confess that it's something you like, too.

Hope this works out for you.
Best of luck to you.

I agree 100% with both but especially option 2. I've known some women who positively love a finger in their butt while you eat them of fuck them and some who hate it. I've also learned that asking will probably either not get you an honest answer or will get you a "no" just because she's afraid to admit she wants it. My old supervisor once told me, "Asking won't get the job done. Apologizing is the more efficient way."

 

[tonguedancer]

<<< As for me fingering her ass, I would love it really much. I was super horny last night and while I was on top, I grabbed her ass cheeks with my hand, then slowly worked my fingers closer and closer, but didn't have the balls to just rub my finger on her hole. She didn't seem to react so I don't know what to do. >>>>

Read my post above

 

[CBM514]

Im just not sure how open minded she is with sex yet, and I am too shy to talk to her about that. I have tried rocking my hips up and she just kept playing near my anus and then rubbed my balls. I think she knows it feels really good if she plays down there, but I am not sure if she is waiting for a sign from me...

What if, next time, I just rock my hips up and say "put your finger in" ? I am really scared of her reaction lol....

As for me fingering her ass, I would love it really much. I was super horny last night and while I was on top, I grabbed her ass cheeks with my hand, then slowly worked my fingers closer and closer, but didn't have the balls to just rub my finger on her hole. She didn't seem to react so I don't know what to do.

It sounds like this is a fairly new relationship? Or at least new foray into this stuff? I think you are on the road heading in the direction you both want but may just a bit of patience and time to get there...

 

[cockster21]

It sounds like this is a fairly new relationship? Or at least new foray into this stuff? I think you are on the road heading in the direction you both want but may just a bit of patience and time to get there...

Yes, we've been together for 7 months.

 

[CBM514]

Yes, we've been together for 7 months.

Yeah give it time, you will get there!

 

[cockster21]

Yeah give it time, you will get there!

Any suggestions as to how I should handle this? I am "testing the waters" right now by getting closer and closer to her anus with my fingers and even tongue when I am eating her out.

 

[twister947]

Shower together. When you wash her, wash everything. Unless she's dumb as a post, she'll get the message, and return the favor. Call it an ice breaker.

 

[CBM514]

Any suggestions as to how I should handle this? I am "testing the waters" right now by getting closer and closer to her anus with my fingers and even tongue when I am eating her out.

Every time lick a little lower till you finally get there and then give it a quick drive by and gauge her reaction and if its positive go fr it! Then later you can always ask how she felt about it and "wonder out loud" ow good it must feel, etc

 

[cockster21]

Well guys, with all your tips, I finally got something going today.

We were having pretty intense sex and we were both excited when we switched to girl on top. She took my fingers and sucked them so I could rub her fingers and then, she put her index in my mouth so I could lube it and then, she started rubbing that region again. I took your advice and bucked up my hips. She was rubbing closer, but then, I got so excited that I told her to apply some pressure so she did, but to the part right above my anus. And then, yes, I finally told her "put your finger in, put your finger in" and she got right to my anus with no hesitation. It was actually the first time she was touching it. She started rubbing it and applied pressure on it and I told her how much I liked it. She started moaning like crazy and fucked me harder and harder while trying to stick her finger in, however, she never put more than the very tip of her finger in. This is because, I think, she is too short and couldn't reach closer. At least, this is my guess...

When I came, I had a very strong orgasm to which she said "I didn't think you would like it so much". Fuck, this was so excited, I wanted more, but couldn't hold because it was too exciting.

She will have her period probably tomorrow, so I hope I will get a BJ in the following days and that she will try fingering me this time, since she knows I liked it.

What do you guys think?

 

[lemmesee]

I've always enjoyed anal stimulation, I often stick a finger or two up my butt when I am masturbating. I have been with my GF for 7 months now, and she recently started rubbing her fingers in the area between my scrotum and my asshole and it feels extremely amazing.

What she does is, when she is on top facing me, she will either put two fingers in her mouth to lube them, or have me lube up her fingers by sucking them. Then, she starts rubbing her fingers down there. Sometimes, she is REALLY close to my anus and I almost feel like telling her "stick them in" but I just can't do it....

How can I get her to finger me?

Thanks!

As she gets close, just keep saying "A little closer, honey, a little closer"....until she gets the point!

 

[StrongMaster7]

My advice is, the next time you get to the point where she is rubbing near your anus, assuming you are clean, say, "yes, go ahead" and maybe even reach for her arm to gently push it further down. It's up to her to interpret what "yes, go ahead" means, so she can 'play dumb' if she doesn't want to stick a finger in.

 

[tonyreid]

mig

Im just not sure how open minded she is with sex yet, and I am too shy to talk to her about that. I have tried rocking my hips up and she just kept playing near my anus and then rubbed my balls. I think she knows it feels really good if she plays down there, but I am not sure if she is waiting for a sign from me...

What if, next time, I just rock my hips up and say "put your finger in" ? I am really scared of her reaction lol....

As for me fingering her ass, I would love it really much. I was super horny last night and while I was on top, I grabbed her ass cheeks with my hand, then slowly worked my fingers closer and closer, but didn't have the balls to just rub my finger on her hole. She didn't seem to react so I don't know what to do.

might sound silly but if your both a bit shy how about texting her some of your fantasies and thoughts ? My wife and I do this not because we are shy but it kind of allows a feeling of spontaneity when your actually playing with each other ?