Getting GF into toys

[FFFan]

I am wanting to add toys to my sex life with my GF. We have a great sexual relationship but I want to take it further, any ideas?

 

[KarennaC]

Ask her if she's interested in trying toys. If she is, take it from there.

 

[cleo69]

This is probably the most non-threatening way to introduce a toy:
Take a nice hot bath together, and then show her the little vibrating rubber ducky you bought her. My husband bought me one with a little fluffy pink collar one. It's actually too cute to resist.
If this fails to interest her, then I am afraid you're out of luck

 

[missymoomoo]

This is probably the most non-threatening way to introduce a toy:
Take a nice hot bath together, and then show her the little vibrating rubber ducky you bought her. My husband bought me one with a little fluffy pink collar one. It's actually too cute to resist.
If this fails to interest her, then I am afraid you're out of luck

I will agree with this poster! I am really enjoying toys in the bed room! With my man at the moment. He loves it an so do I, Men always think women want a big penis looking object but truth be told we do not. I would start off with something small like a clitoral stimulator something that is not threatening for you or her. Enjoy.

 

[angelika]

If she enjoys erotica, perhaps you could share Sex Toy Tales with her and together discover what she thinks is hot.

 

[CherryBomb24]

I will agree with this poster! I am really enjoying toys in the bed room! With my man at the moment. He loves it an so do I, Men always think women want a big penis looking object but truth be told we do not. I would start off with something small like a clitoral stimulator something that is not threatening for you or her. Enjoy.

i always wondered why men always seem to think we would prefer a big vib over a small one.

 

[Eilan]

i always wondered why men always seem to think we would prefer a big vib over a small one.

I have a smallish collection of dildos and vibes. The dildos are more for my husband's viewing pleasure than anything else, but the vibes get used more regularly. One of them does, anyway, since I have a favorite.

 

[tonightsthenigh]

I am wanting to add toys to my sex life with my GF. We have a great sexual relationship but I want to take it further, any ideas?

Lube is a good way to start before moving on to toys.

A good starter toy is the clit buzzing "Slim Line Vibrator" comes in different colors and is only about $6. To set off some toe curling delight, you need a vibrator with the G-spot curve, to reach and apply the right amount of pressure on the G-spot. "Body Teasers" (about $11) is a good beginner toy, but to really hit the spot, get a "Blue Heaven Rotating Pet Rabbit Vibrator" -- one of these babies will set you back $100 or so, but well worth it for G-spot play.

Here's a link to a review on the Jack Rabbit - one of the most popular vibes around:
http://g-gasm.com/temp/jack-rabbit-review-product-se0610-00/

 

[PassionatePair]

Use yourself as a vibrator

With Gwen, I was eating her pussy and licking/nibbling her clit. I had my teeth on her clit and started humming. The vibrations went through my teeth directly to her clit.

Let me just say that this technique was a BIG success with my woman. And lead to talking about and deciding to try toys.

Amazon had a set of different things for about $40. A "silver bullet" vibrator, and "egg" variable speed vibrator, and a small clit vibrator. We also bought "the tongue", which comes with an egg of its own. All of these have been used, sometimes in combinations. Really great for when we are apart and are having webcam sex. I "direct" her, and she follows the directions. The eggs are fun because she can place one against each of her VERY sensitive nipples. I can make her cum just playing with her breasts and nipples, with or without the eggs.

I suppose it does not hurt that I can just whisper dirty talk in her ear and make her cum. But she gets off several times a session with the vibrators and web cam.

She is stunning.

But realistically, not everyone is into everything, and your woman may not be. Or at least may not be at this time. Patience is a virtue.

If it is REALLY something you want to try, you may have to decide to try it with someone else. First evaluate if you want to risk the relationship you have in that manner. If not, that just resign yourself to waiting to see if things ever change. It isn't really necessary to have everything. Where would you put it?

 

[Submission13]

I am wanting to add toys to my sex life with my GF. We have a great sexual relationship but I want to take it further, any ideas?

Adding sex toys to your intimate life can be very enlightening. Perhaps a trip to your local adult toy store. Or there are a host of online options. Why not make her a card with an IOU in it for a sex toy of her choice. Tell her what you are thinking and ask her if she is interested. The is a very good chance that she already has a vibrator that you don't know about! A good place to start would be a relaxing dinner conversation in her favorite restaurant. Are you looking for sex toys for your entertainment, her entertainment or mutual entertainment. Take your time with this and don't try and push her too far to fast for your visual pleasure. Good luck and keep talking. It might help if you actively listen when you discuss sex toys!