Getting excited during regular massage?

[sugra]

I am a big fan of massage, there are a couple legit places around me that have trained professionals performing the massages.

Despite the professional nature of these places, I often get excited during the massages. When they get to my glutes and my calves, I get pretty hard luckily I am on my stomach so it is not noticeable. What comes next though, is that they ask me to turn over and start in on the tops of my legs, my arms and shoulders.

This is when I wonder what the protocol here is.. I am hard as a rock, the sheets are thin and I know that it is quite obvious what's going on. I would never proposition the masseuse - this being a professional place I would like to return to - but I wonder if I should apologize, attempt to hide my erection or just wear it proudly?

Men - What do you do?

Ladies - Do you get wet during your massages? If so, do you wear panties just in case, or just let it happen?

 

[Artfuldos]

Hi Sugra...

You should wear your erection proudly...It's a normal reaction to receiving a massage.

The masseuse are already trained and informed about sexual arousal during their therapy sessions.

I'm glad you said you'd never proposition a therapist. It'd probably get you kicked out and it's also highly illegal for them to perform sex acts with patients.

I've dated a masseuse. We never did anything kinky though in her work place and we've only ever used massage as foreplay just a few times through out our years of dating. Any other time we've exchanged body work was for therapeutic and relaxation reasons.

If you have a mate it's a fun way to get things rolling. I love warm oil massages and hot stones.

If you're still hard pressed for a kinky rub down by a stranger best advice i have is to spend a night at the bar picking up a nice single lady and possibly inviting her over to give her a rub down then having her return the favor.

Cheers!

 

[blackstallion21]

I've always wanted to get a massage, but I guess "Scared" would be my initial reaction. NOT SURE why, I'm just now really into taking my clothes off in front of a complete stranger i'm probably not going to screw!

I REALLY REALLY want to get one though

 

[sugra]

I absolutely love getting massages and always worried that I would cause problems with the place I was going by sporting a raging erection. Sometimes, its hard to keep things under control when a woman is rubbing me all over.

I've always wanted to get a massage, but I guess "Scared" would be my initial reaction. NOT SURE why, I'm just now really into taking my clothes off in front of a complete stranger i'm probably not going to screw!

I REALLY REALLY want to get one though

You can always wear your boxers, or even some sport shorts. They specifically say "get undressed to your comfort level". For me, I prefer to be naked under the sheets, but some people don't.

 

[saskatuna1]

thought this was pursuant to the discussion here... and also kinda amusing:

http://www.mcsweeneys.net/links/massage/9touchme.html

 

[blackstallion21]

I absolutely love getting massages and always worried that I would cause problems with the place I was going by sporting a raging erection. Sometimes, its hard to keep things under control when a woman is rubbing me all over.




You can always wear your boxers, or even some sport shorts. They specifically say "get undressed to your comfort level". For me, I prefer to be naked under the sheets, but some people don't.

I think for my first one I'm gonna wear my boxers, but if I go a second time, I'll try it completely nude

 

[TanyaH]

It's not as common as you might think and most guys find it very embarrassing when it does happen. I found it very disconcerting when I was younger, and found it rude, but now I just ignore it.

 

[blackstallion21]

It's not as common as you might think and most guys find it very embarrassing when it does happen. I found it very disconcerting when I was younger, and found it rude, but now I just ignore it.

Well to be completely honest, that's the main reason I can't gather the courage to go get my first massage!

 

[sugra]

Well, I can tell you that the last massage I had was the first time I just relaxed and let it happen. The masseuse did not say anything and avoided it completely.

What was nice was that this was one of the better massages that I have had, mostly because I allowed myself to relax.

 

[conrad34]

I've been in the massage game as a therapist and teacher for a long time, and I can tell you that a lot of guys are worried about this before their first massage. The vast majority find it's not an issue. The context of a professional therapeutic massage is completely different from an erotic massage, and the quality of the touch used is quite different. Generally unless both the therapist and client are intending that the experience is erotic, unwanted wood doesn't happen.

That's not to say it never happens though. Sometimes things just set it off, and the lower back and buttocks particularly are served by the same general nerve supply as the genitals, so work there can set it off too. This sort of thing is covered in professional massage training, so a qualified therapist should be able to deal with it sensitively if it does happen.

Boxers aren't the way to go if you are worried about it - they don't really hide anything, and they make it difficult to do any work on your upper legs. You'd be better off going with briefs.

If it really worries you blackstallion, you could see a male therapist (assuming that it's having a woman's hands on you that you think will be the problem).