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bisouthernbelle
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Hi, I am bisouthernbelle, and I am starting this thread in response to an experience I had with another user here on Literotica. This relationship began during a time when I was particularly vulnerable due to a my father's terminal cancer diagnosis. I have debated about whether to share my story, and all of the users with whom I have spoken have encouraged me to come forward. I want to emphasize that this is not about revenge for me, because for my own sake I am choosing to "forgive" this person in order to remove their power over me. My motivation is to protect another woman from becoming this person's next victim. This is about justice, not retribution.
This past summer I started participating in Literotica, in order to find a bit of stress relief. My father was battling stage 4 brain cancer. I was honest about myself in my profile and with other users. I am a woman from a very conservative community and family. I am married to a man I love, but I am also attracted to women. I was looking for a safe place in which to explore my desires for other women. I just can't do this in my real life.Most everyone I met here was very kind, and I really enjoyed meeting other women who felt the same way I did.
Back in July I met a woman I knew as "Hottalyssa" in the bi and lesbian women page. We started sending messages, and we really seemed to connect. Her back story had many similarities to my own, and she told me her father had passed away from cancer as well. We agreed to set up a date time to get to know each other better. From the beautiful photo of hottalyssa along with her back story, I was very attracted to her.
We really seemed to hit it off, so we started seeing each other regularly. At first we agreed to keep things light. We were just having fun. But as we got to know each other, our relationship became more serious. Hottalyssa told me after a couple months that she had fallen in love with me. She told me she did not want to see anyone else. With everything I knew about hotalyssa I fell in love with her too. She definitely had the more dominant personality and set the pace of the relationship. She promised to be there for me to help me as my father's cancer progressed.
Looking back I can see how there were warning signs that I missed or glossed over, because I was "in love". Occasionally she would warn me to be careful about who I got to know in the bi lesbian women.sections, because many times people were not what they seemed to be. I took it as a precaution, but I didn't really give it too much thought. While we were seeing each other, she also started spending more time with another woman who had just lost her husband. I knew this woman needed a good friend, so of course I encouraged her. Now I see she was probably doing the same the to the other woman as she was to me. I should have seen the signs. She wanted pictures of me but would never send me any. Her eyes are covered by sunglasses on her profile. I just wanted to see her eyes, that is all. She started getting more distant over the past two months. Looking back I can see how I overlooked signs that something was amiss.
Finally the day after my father died I received a message from "hotalyssa" with the truth. She was a man, and he could no longer see me. So in the midst of losing my dad, I also found out that a relationship I thought I had with a woman was a complete lie. Hottalyssa had always told me she was 39. In reality this man was in his 50s. I felt so sick. I entered this relationship , because I wanted to get to know "Alyssa", a divorced 39 year old woman, who was bi, but preferred women. Then I found out that I had been with a straight married man in his 50s. This man named Ronnie has been seducing women since 2008 under the guise of being a woman in her 30s. When I let Literotica know what had happened, they told me I would have to be the one to "out" Ronnie. The users who read.my story agreed that I had a responsibility to speak out. So for all the women who have been used by this man in the past, and to protect others in the future, I am speaking out. Hottalyssa is a straight man in his.50s.who seduces women posing as a bi woman in her 30s. He has been doing this for 9 years. This man is a predator. Please, be careful. There could be others. If you get flags in a relationship, ask and speak up.
This past summer I started participating in Literotica, in order to find a bit of stress relief. My father was battling stage 4 brain cancer. I was honest about myself in my profile and with other users. I am a woman from a very conservative community and family. I am married to a man I love, but I am also attracted to women. I was looking for a safe place in which to explore my desires for other women. I just can't do this in my real life.Most everyone I met here was very kind, and I really enjoyed meeting other women who felt the same way I did.
Back in July I met a woman I knew as "Hottalyssa" in the bi and lesbian women page. We started sending messages, and we really seemed to connect. Her back story had many similarities to my own, and she told me her father had passed away from cancer as well. We agreed to set up a date time to get to know each other better. From the beautiful photo of hottalyssa along with her back story, I was very attracted to her.
We really seemed to hit it off, so we started seeing each other regularly. At first we agreed to keep things light. We were just having fun. But as we got to know each other, our relationship became more serious. Hottalyssa told me after a couple months that she had fallen in love with me. She told me she did not want to see anyone else. With everything I knew about hotalyssa I fell in love with her too. She definitely had the more dominant personality and set the pace of the relationship. She promised to be there for me to help me as my father's cancer progressed.
Looking back I can see how there were warning signs that I missed or glossed over, because I was "in love". Occasionally she would warn me to be careful about who I got to know in the bi lesbian women.sections, because many times people were not what they seemed to be. I took it as a precaution, but I didn't really give it too much thought. While we were seeing each other, she also started spending more time with another woman who had just lost her husband. I knew this woman needed a good friend, so of course I encouraged her. Now I see she was probably doing the same the to the other woman as she was to me. I should have seen the signs. She wanted pictures of me but would never send me any. Her eyes are covered by sunglasses on her profile. I just wanted to see her eyes, that is all. She started getting more distant over the past two months. Looking back I can see how I overlooked signs that something was amiss.
Finally the day after my father died I received a message from "hotalyssa" with the truth. She was a man, and he could no longer see me. So in the midst of losing my dad, I also found out that a relationship I thought I had with a woman was a complete lie. Hottalyssa had always told me she was 39. In reality this man was in his 50s. I felt so sick. I entered this relationship , because I wanted to get to know "Alyssa", a divorced 39 year old woman, who was bi, but preferred women. Then I found out that I had been with a straight married man in his 50s. This man named Ronnie has been seducing women since 2008 under the guise of being a woman in her 30s. When I let Literotica know what had happened, they told me I would have to be the one to "out" Ronnie. The users who read.my story agreed that I had a responsibility to speak out. So for all the women who have been used by this man in the past, and to protect others in the future, I am speaking out. Hottalyssa is a straight man in his.50s.who seduces women posing as a bi woman in her 30s. He has been doing this for 9 years. This man is a predator. Please, be careful. There could be others. If you get flags in a relationship, ask and speak up.
