Getting a Massage ... a confession

[ohwhynot77]

Took a day off from work yesterday and went to get a massage at a very reputable, chain of massage centers. No funny business allowed. The therapist was a male whom I've seen before -- very cute ... and I was so turned on. I wanted him to badly to cross that line, caress the sides of my breasts ... he was very proper and kept everything covered and never went higher than my thigh.

I'm wondering ... 1) do you think he knew I was turned on (obviously it's more, well, obvious if a man is turned on...) and 2) have any other women ever felt this way during a massage and finally 3) should I have thrown caution to the wind and flirted with him, given him an "opening" if you will? I'm normally VERY very shy so the idea of throwing out a line to someone is a foreign concept to me.

 

[hard27]

Id say he was and was likewise very tempted however its clear he didnt want to cross the line, im sure if you gave him a hint however he would have obliged

 

[whalee]

From friends I know who've had your experience, it is a matter of a signal from the client. He also may make house calls where he'd feel less restricted. He as to be careful at work...could easily lose his job.

 

[andyomama66]

Took a day off from work yesterday and went to get a massage at a very reputable, chain of massage centers. No funny business allowed. The therapist was a male whom I've seen before -- very cute ... and I was so turned on. I wanted him to badly to cross that line, caress the sides of my breasts ... he was very proper and kept everything covered and never went higher than my thigh.

I'm wondering ... 1) do you think he knew I was turned on (obviously it's more, well, obvious if a man is turned on...) and 2) have any other women ever felt this way during a massage and finally 3) should I have thrown caution to the wind and flirted with him, given him an "opening" if you will? I'm normally VERY very shy so the idea of throwing out a line to someone is a foreign concept to me.

1) He didn't know. Unless you were cooing and moaning or reached for his crotch. Remember now, you're the woman: you hold the power.

2) Yes, other women get turned on during massage. No doubt.

3) Most pros discourage, if not don't allow talking during a massage, for the very reason it's easy to cross into that sensual zone.

Now, if he'd started some idle chat, commented on your hair, your pedicure, etc., you'd have gotten the full monty, and you'd be back once a week getting fucked senseless and tipping him heavily.

Was he attractive looking?

 

[lustyem]

Ive had a guy friend massage me, and he knew I was excited.......

 

[StrongMaster7]

I think that some people are very serious about their jobs and do not want to risk getting fired. The economy is bad and people need their incomes. Getting fired for touching a female client could ruin a massage therapists career, even if she was willing.

There are probably lots of "non-professional" freelance guys who would be happy to do whatever you like. It is a hot scenario.

 

[AdjectiveNounVerb]

3) Most pros discourage, if not don't allow talking during a massage, for the very reason it's easy to cross into that sensual zone.

Licensed massage therapists really discourage talking? I've never experienced that, although that's always been as a male client of female massage therapists - maybe it's different for male therapists or female clients?

 

[infinity706]

Traditionally, guys have been more likely to get slapped with sexual harassment. (Of course, that might be changing with the way lots of younger women act nowdays and all the teachers fired lately for fucking students)

 

[hwwannabe]

Licensed massage therapists really discourage talking? I've never experienced that, although that's always been as a male client of female massage therapists - maybe it's different for male therapists or female clients?

My fiance is a massage therapist, and he often chats during services (massages/wraps/scrubs/etc), provided the client is chatty. As far as I know, his boss neither encourages nor discourages talking during services, regardless if the client is male or female.