Get my wife to have a boy toy.

[itsallfun31]

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[amofiga]

Trust me, if SHE doesn't want it, it's not going to happen. I tried for years to get my wife to help find a compatible couple or two for a long term "ménage" type relationship for informal get togethers, vacations, etc. She would have NO parts of it and made my life miserable for suggesting it. The desire to open up, share, have threesomes, whatever has to come within and not from somebody telling you to do it. But good luck with it.

 

[Que]

Her having an affair will occur when and if she feels like it. I think what you want to know is how to persuade her to tell you about it.

Trust me, if SHE doesn't want it, it's not going to happen. I tried for years to get my wife to help find a compatible couple or two for a long term "ménage" type relationship for informal get togethers, vacations, etc. She would have NO parts of it and made my life miserable for suggesting it. The desire to open up, share, have threesomes, whatever has to come within and not from somebody telling you to do it. But good luck with it.

She made your life miserable? How mean of her, especially for your casual "suggestion."

 

[amofiga]

<<<She made your life miserable? How mean of her, especially for your casual "suggestion.">>>

touché.... But if one doesn't suggest, how does one get one's thoughts out in the open?