...get my wife interested in a 3some

[nick_alex]

Hi guys,

First of all, excuse my english. I´m from the Santa Claus´s country, Finland (btw, I just saw him last sunday, still big, with big beard and red clothes).

Anyway, I´m 40 years old guy, married for 8 years to a wonderful and sexy women, Tanja, 35.

Our sex life is wonderful, she (we) have been eager to try new things, no problems there. She love oral sex, tasting me and I love to return the favor

For some time now, I start fantasising about Tanja having sex with other guy. She looks so beautiful with my cock in her mouth, that I start wondering how it will be to taste her as she is sucking someone else.

We often talk about this in bed, she said a few times that she´ll love my cock to enter her mouth the same time I´m inside her. From time to time we watch some porn clips, usually I find them from internet. The last 4-5 times, I found some clips where a womans is fucked by two guys. I can feel and see her excitement as she´s looking at the screen and start cuming the minute I enter her.

I know she enjoy been looked up by guys, I often encourage her two wear tight jeans and shirt, or some other sexy outfit, at work and asked her in the evening if she noticed the male workfriends looking at her ass or boobs. Or when we go out, I send her to the bar to get some drinks, while I sit down at the table and look as the guys turn they heads after her. Later on we make love and she love to speak about the evening (or her time at work), how she felt their eyes on her body, how she enjoyed making them want her.

But, for some reason I don´t dare to ask her about a 3sum. I just down know how to do it. Should I be bold and straight? Or?

br,
Alex

 

[old_scratch]

Hi guys,

First of all, excuse my english. I´m from the Santa Claus´s country, Finland (btw, I just saw him last sunday, still big, with big beard and red clothes).

Anyway, I´m 40 years old guy, married for 8 years to a wonderful and sexy women, Tanja, 35.

Our sex life is wonderful, she (we) have been eager to try new things, no problems there. She love oral sex, tasting me and I love to return the favor

For some time now, I start fantasising about Tanja having sex with other guy. She looks so beautiful with my cock in her mouth, that I start wondering how it will be to taste her as she is sucking someone else.

We often talk about this in bed, she said a few times that she´ll love my cock to enter her mouth the same time I´m inside her. From time to time we watch some porn clips, usually I find them from internet. The last 4-5 times, I found some clips where a womans is fucked by two guys. I can feel and see her excitement as she´s looking at the screen and start cuming the minute I enter her.

I know she enjoy been looked up by guys, I often encourage her two wear tight jeans and shirt, or some other sexy outfit, at work and asked her in the evening if she noticed the male workfriends looking at her ass or boobs. Or when we go out, I send her to the bar to get some drinks, while I sit down at the table and look as the guys turn they heads after her. Later on we make love and she love to speak about the evening (or her time at work), how she felt their eyes on her body, how she enjoyed making them want her.

But, for some reason I don´t dare to ask her about a 3sum. I just down know how to do it. Should I be bold and straight? Or?

br,
Alex

Simply ask her what she thinks about a threesome. Discuss it with her like you would discuss anything else. If the thought excites her, ask her if she would like to try in for real, or if it is just a fantasy for her.

 

[fuckmeat]

Simply ask her what she thinks about a threesome. Discuss it with her like you would discuss anything else. If the thought excites her, ask her if she would like to try in for real, or if it is just a fantasy for her.

I agree. She's open and adventurous about sex and you have been happily married for eight years. I'm sure she knows that if she told you she didn't want a threesome, you would not pressure her. You already know that she enjoys porn featuring threesomes and having guys look at her. You could not have better circumstances for starting this conversation. Make her pleasure the focus of the conversation and you might be surprised at what she says.

You will find though, that finding the right guy to do this with will be much more complicated. A friend might be too close and awkward afterwards. A stranger might be too impersonal and untrustworthy. If you both decide to do this, it will take a lot of planning for her to feel secure. Then you have the issues of sexual contact and contraception to consider.

 

[nick_alex]

Thanks guys. We had planned a "sex only" weekend for this week, I guess with the right environment/circumstances I may ask her opinion on this.

I´ll let you know how it went!

 

[imagreal]

the most erotic thing I ever saw

was a seven ft young black man pink all the way inside her. Then she kissed him deeply and told this stranger she would get pregnant and he would be the father. This is the fifth day in a row he has made love to her and i watch her cum harder each time he blows his load in her.

 

[YourPlaydoll]

Hey!

Seems like you two are interested in MMF threesome (2 males, 1 female). This kind of threesome centres around the woman with the main intention of pleasuring her by two guys at once. In FFM (2 females, 1 male) threesome it's usually more attention to the male or at least shared equally between all parties, but in MMF usually the woman gets all the attention from two males, making it a great experience for her.

Wether she actually has intercourse with both males or not, is completely up to you. In my first MMF, I sucked my boyfriend's cock while his friend licked my pussy, and then my boyfriend fucked me from behind and I sucked his friend's cock, so not actual intercourse with the other guy. The second time, though, I've got my boyfriend fucking my ass and the other guy fucking my pussy, which is a very unique and pleasuring experience too, but some women may not feel comforable having sex with a guy they're not in a relationship with.

I think you should talk to Tanja and tell her you'd like to try a threesome. I mean, what's the worst that could happen? There is a chance she may not like the idea and you wouldn't get to the threesome, but not telling her gets your chances for a threesome to a zero. So, talk to her, and if she agrees, choose the proper 3rd partner together. It could be someone who is your friend, you could meet someone trough online forums or chatrooms, or maybe if you have swingers' club near you, you could check there.

Hope this helped, and if you do a threesome, I hope the experience is very pleasurable for all of you!

YPD

 

[mitchmo]

Its a great fantasy, really gets my wife going to talk about it while we are having sex. Sometimes our fantasy is MMF and sometimes FFM, but in this case she is always the center of attention. Its a good start though has never left fantasy stage here yet. I agree you should talk to your wife about it, at least explore the fantasy if not more. Besides, maybe she has already done this...?

 

[nick_alex]

Great feedbacks! Thanks again! Actually, I already have a guy in mind. My wife changed her workplace (she´s a lawyer) some time ago. I know she had a "crush" on a guy from the old workplace, but I don´t know if something happened between them. I meet him a few times, and he was ok. Nice looking, clean guy, married also. Once we meet him at a party and I noticed how she was looking at him, trying to get his attention, laughing at his jokes, touching his hand, and so on...

Later on, after some drinks (and more drinks *sic*), he came and ask her to dance (I found out that she promised a dance long ago, but never kept her promises). There was a slow song, if I remember right was Sting with Fields of gold. I notice his hands went a little bit lower then necessary and she didn´t mind at all and later on, she pushed her hips hard against his. Both looked so sexy, I got a hard on that moment.

Later, at home, I asked her about him while we start to fuck, and I noticed how she got excited. I told her about my hard on and she laughed, saying that I was not the only one with a hard cock, as she felt his when they were dancing.

Anyway, I know they are still keeping in touch, mostly work related, so he can be a good candidate, if she approves.

 

[Tetriak]

Hi guys,

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But, for some reason I don´t dare to ask her about a 3sum. I just down know how to do it. Should I be bold and straight? Or?

br,
Alex

Ah, well.. this should be a relatively simple matter, but it will require a little preparation and coordination on your part.

Take her to a sporting event and start to bridge the topic just before the half-time show. Then (and here's the kicker) have one of the facility's camera operators broadcast your pictures live on the in-house jumbotrons with an appropriate "Please Say Yes" graphic... maybe some animated kissy lips thrown in for good measure. See, it's much harder to say "no" in public, so she'll say yes to save you the embarrassment of public rejection.

This counts as a verbal contract. Everything else should follow easily from that point.

The framing of the question shouldn't matter too much in the long run of things.

Best of luck. I suspect that you'll figure it out.

 

[nick_alex]

Tetriak, I´m asking her for a threesome, not to marry me *lol*

 

[Tetriak]

Tetriak, I´m asking her for a threesome, not to marry me *lol*

It should work the same... in theory.

Besides, imagine how hilarious it would be if you could get the whole arena chanting, "Three-way, Three-way, Three-way."

You would be famous. Well, maybe infamous is a better word.

I'm now 100% positive this is the best plan.

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P.S. - If for some small reason she gets mad about it, you can always say, "Hey, that guy on the internet said was a good idea." That defense never fails.

 

[old_scratch]

Tetriak, I´m asking her for a threesome, not to marry me *lol*

If you are afraid to ask her, maybe you don't really want to have a threesome.

 

[infinity706]

It should work the same... in theory.

Besides, imagine how hilarious it would be if you could get the whole arena chanting, "Three-way, Three-way, Three-way."

You would be famous. Well, maybe infamous is a better word.

I'm now 100% positive this is the best plan.

----
P.S. - If for some small reason she gets mad about it, you can always say, "Hey, that guy on the internet said was a good idea." That defense never fails.

No, that's how I'd do it. (well, except for the fact that people that ask me for group sex just kind of show up with whoever they want to include )

 

[nick_alex]

Guys, guys, this is crazy! I always think that the question should be asked somewhere in private, not in front of 10 000 of people. That is nonsense. I now her better then anyone, and I know how she will react if I do it in public.

The best way is to get her really excited, then pop the question. Trust me!

 

[Tetriak]

Greetings and salutations,

Hi guys,
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But, for some reason I don´t dare to ask her about a 3sum. I just down know how to do it. Should I be bold and straight? Or?

br,
Alex

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Guys, guys, this is crazy! I always think that the question should be asked somewhere in private, not in front of 10 000 of people. That is nonsense. I now her better then anyone, and I know how she will react if I do it in public.

The best way is to get her really excited, then pop the question. Trust me!

Happy to have been of service. ;-)

Even though my idea was way more awesome than your idea.

 

[nick_alex]

Greetings and salutations,


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Happy to have been of service. ;-)

Even though my idea was way more awesome than your idea.

What I can say...I got confidence!

PS: I still think your idea sucked. Big time!

 

[old_scratch]

For some time now, I start fantasising about Tanja having sex with other guy. She looks so beautiful with my cock in her mouth, that I start wondering how it will be to taste her as she is sucking someone else.

We often talk about this in bed, she said a few times that she´ll love my cock to enter her mouth the same time I´m inside her. From time to time we watch some porn clips, usually I find them from internet. The last 4-5 times, I found some clips where a womans is fucked by two guys. I can feel and see her excitement as she´s looking at the screen and start cuming the minute I enter her.

You have already discussed this with her, so what's the problem with asking her if she is seriously interested? Are you afraid that she will ask you to suck the other guy's cock too?

 

[NomadLady]

Great feedbacks! Thanks again! Actually, I already have a guy in mind. My wife changed her workplace (she´s a lawyer) some time ago. I know she had a "crush" on a guy from the old workplace, but I don´t know if something happened between them. I meet him a few times, and he was ok. Nice looking, clean guy, married also. Once we meet him at a party and I noticed how she was looking at him, trying to get his attention, laughing at his jokes, touching his hand, and so on...

Later on, after some drinks (and more drinks *sic*), he came and ask her to dance (I found out that she promised a dance long ago, but never kept her promises). There was a slow song, if I remember right was Sting with Fields of gold. I notice his hands went a little bit lower then necessary and she didn´t mind at all and later on, she pushed her hips hard against his. Both looked so sexy, I got a hard on that moment.

Later, at home, I asked her about him while we start to fuck, and I noticed how she got excited. I told her about my hard on and she laughed, saying that I was not the only one with a hard cock, as she felt his when they were dancing.

Anyway, I know they are still keeping in touch, mostly work related, so he can be a good candidate, if she approves.

He sounds like a great candidate....go for it!!!!!

 

[infinity706]

What I can say...I got confidence!

PS: I still think your idea sucked. Big time!

Well, threesomes do involve quite a bit of sucking a lot of the time.

 

[JessiePi]

I think she seems very open-minded and obviously loves the attention, so you have a great chance that she will jump at the idea!! If you already talk about other men when the two of you are intimate, then she is probably already fantasizes about the threesome. She is probably wondering how you would feel about it, so just be brave, put it out there and be honest. Good luck

 

[baphemetis]

You know, one way to ask her indirectly is to talk about somebody else's threesome.

For example,

"One of the guys at work told me he and his wife have occasional threesomes. Can you believe that?"

This is a good way to get a discussion started. If she says, "OMG, that is so disgusting. I would hate you forever if you ever thought about doing that with me." Then you know she is against it and you cansay, "Yeah, what a pig! I hate guys like that."

Or if she says "OMG, I am so turned on right now! Call the neighbors!" Then you know you're good.

 

[nick_alex]

Ok guys, is done. We have been out in town on saturday, eating and dancing (she made me hard like 6-7 times, just teasing other guys), and when we return home, we start "fooling around". Tanja was so excited that she asked for a porn clip and of course I had one ready, with a girl and two guys. While watching it, I whispered in her ear that I´ll give anything to be able to fuck her from behind and look at her pretty face sucking some other guy´s big cock. At that moment, she looked into my eyes and ask if I´m serious.

I said yes and she was quite like for 1 minute, just looking at the porn clip, then she said: "I think I want that more then you". We start fucking like crazy, looking at the porn clip, pretending we had a guy already there with us. It was magnificant!

Anyway, we spoke about it quite a lot over this fw days and came up with some rules:

1. The guy must be clean
2. he must use a condom, if fucking will be envolved
3. no kissing
4. she wants me to be there all the time (no toilet breaks)

Today I want to talk with her about the ex workfriend I told you about, his name is Mikko. I think he´s the best option, but of course, Tanja will choose.

I can´t way for this to happend! I´ll keep you all informed about the situation

 

[NightFire091]

So

Anything happen yet?

 

[nick_alex]

Anything happen yet?

Nothing yet. Mikko and his girlfriend are coming next weekend over, for dinner. That will be an excellent time do open a discussion about our plans.

 

[PhilGarlic]

Girlfriend!!!!

Nothing yet. Mikko and his girlfriend are coming next weekend over, for dinner. That will be an excellent time do open a discussion about our plans.

Mikko and GIRLFRIEND that could be trouble nothing like a girlfriend that feels she is in compertition in a confined space.
Good luck mate.