Genuinely Curious!

[Sweet_n_SpicySprite]

I often wonder about some of the people who meander through the scintillating landscape here! Most are quite kind and generous of spirit! But, some here cross lines of just being uncivilized! Women like myself come here to express and explore our own sexuality and passions! Tonight, I had a couple of people message me and talk crudely at me as though they were paying an escort. If you can’t ask someone if they even want to chat or are interested, that says a lot about you! Please take the time to read the room “or chat box.” In other words, approach me like that and you can kiss my… and you will be blocked!
Tell me why people act like that.
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[Sweet_n_SpicySprite]

Sorry that happened to you. I think some unsavory people think because you are on here gives them permission to act that way. I believe that people should asks themselves. How would I like it if I was treated this way.

Thank you! You are very kind and thoughtful!

 

[Sweet_n_SpicySprite]

Thank you.

You are welcome

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

WHY?

Because the anonymity of the Internet makes people think that they can message things they would never say. It speaks to a certain lack of mental development.

I hope you stick around. Its really a great place.

 

[Sweet_n_SpicySprite]

WHY?

Because the anonymity of the Internet makes people think that they can message things they would never say. It speaks to a certain lack of mental development.

I hope you stick around. Its really a great place.

Thank you!! You are quite sweet! I deeply appreciate the kindness!!

 

[Fire_starter01]

I often wonder about some of the people who meander through the scintillating landscape here! Most are quite kind and generous of spirit! But, some here cross lines of just being uncivilized! Women like myself come here to express and explore our own sexuality and passions! Tonight, I had a couple of people message me and talk crudely at me as though they were paying an escort. If you can’t ask someone if they even want to chat or are interested, that says a lot about you! Please take the time to read the room “or chat box.” In other words, approach me like that and you can kiss my… and you will be blocked!
Tell me why people act like that.
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Please do not be put off by the unsavoury amongst us. Block buttons are brilliant but you should not be required to ever have to use it in the first place. Anonymity, poor manners, no understanding of a real woman, whatever the reason there is no excuse! I hope you are able to look past the trolls and see the genuine people on here!

 

[Sweet_n_SpicySprite]

Please do not be put off by the unsavoury amongst us. Block buttons are brilliant but you should not be required to ever have to use it in the first place. Anonymity, poor manners, no understanding of a real woman, whatever the reason there is no excuse! I hope you are able to look past the trolls and see the genuine people on here!

I do delve deeper into decadent dude’s who definitely deliver delicious dalliances! Thank you for your kindness!!

 

[Wickettoby1]

Why???

Because some men still walk with their knuckles on the ground. I personally try to be the opposite of that but in all fairness sometimes words via text can be misconstrued but it sounds like what you experienced is far from that.

 

[Mr_bogey]

I often wonder about some of the people who meander through the scintillating landscape here! Most are quite kind and generous of spirit! But, some here cross lines of just being uncivilized! Women like myself come here to express and explore our own sexuality and passions! Tonight, I had a couple of people message me and talk crudely at me as though they were paying an escort. If you can’t ask someone if they even want to chat or are interested, that says a lot about you! Please take the time to read the room “or chat box.” In other words, approach me like that and you can kiss my… and you will be blocked!
Tell me why people act like that.
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You act like kissing your ass would be a negative.

 

[Inbef]

It's because we, men, never get older than a 12 years old brat, when it comes to sex. Unless, of course, we change ourselves deliberately and realise we are dealing with people instead of puppets.

 

[coffeelover5]

I often wonder about some of the people who meander through the scintillating landscape here! Most are quite kind and generous of spirit! But, some here cross lines of just being uncivilized! Women like myself come here to express and explore our own sexuality and passions! Tonight, I had a couple of people message me and talk crudely at me as though they were paying an escort. If you can’t ask someone if they even want to chat or are interested, that says a lot about you! Please take the time to read the room “or chat box.” In other words, approach me like that and you can kiss my… and you will be blocked!
Tell me why people act like that.
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There are a few here, men amd women both that act rudely and deserve to be blocked that is true. I take the good and throw the trash on the heap.
However if that is a photo of what we get to kiss as good guys then I want to jump to the front of the line!

 

[allo_again]

Please do not be put off by the unsavoury amongst us. Block buttons are brilliant but you should not be required to ever have to use it in the first place. Anonymity, poor manners, no understanding of a real woman, whatever the reason there is no excuse! I hope you are able to look past the trolls and see the genuine people on here!

Exactly. The internet, forums and chat sites make it too easy to hide and be an arsehole.

Make sure you block and report any that are being dickheads

 

[MasonDixonCpl]

We have found that since Covid hit, people are less and less kind. We live by the motto treat others as you want to be treated. Live by the mantra, smile because you never know who may need it. From what we have read, you are beautiful inside and by the pictures shared, definitely out. Don't let the people who can hide behind a screen deter you. There still are good humans out there. Unfortunately the good ones are shadowed by the darkness.

 

[Pad_Foot]

Again, we can pray Sweet_N_Spicy returns
But
For now?
She’s left all of us, due to a few

Keep replying positively though
Who knows she may be checking without logging in??
We pray !!

 

[Wildfly11]

I often wonder about some of the people who meander through the scintillating landscape here! Most are quite kind and generous of spirit! But, some here cross lines of just being uncivilized! Women like myself come here to express and explore our own sexuality and passions! Tonight, I had a couple of people message me and talk crudely at me as though they were paying an escort. If you can’t ask someone if they even want to chat or are interested, that says a lot about you! Please take the time to read the room “or chat box.” In other words, approach me like that and you can kiss my… and you will be blocked!

Tell me why people act like that.

There are all kinds out there...some really make you wonder though 

 

[K0fcali]

Get over yourself. Its because its better to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission. For the men its simply a numbers game. They sent the same message to dozens of women. You shouldnt get upset considering the fact that its so much harder for men to approach women.

 

[K0fcali]

It's because we, men, never get older than a 12 years old brat, when it comes to sex. Unless, of course, we change ourselves deliberately and realise we are dealing with people instead of puppets.

If men acted like 12 year old brats they would not attract any women at all. Speak for yourself. Men by necessity must better themselves daily. Why would you even think you are okay the way you are?

 

[K0fcali]

Please do not be put off by the unsavoury amongst us. Block buttons are brilliant but you should not be required to ever have to use it in the first place. Anonymity, poor manners, no understanding of a real woman, whatever the reason there is no excuse! I hope you are able to look past the trolls and see the genuine people on here!

you cant control how people approach you or how they conduct themselves. What you can control os how you react to those people. Women dont even have understanding of themselves or other women. This sounds like when a woman fakes an orgasm to end a sex session early. She would rather lie to her partner and make him feel he did a good job. Basically discouraging him from improving his technique. It would be much easier to teach the man the proper way to please her instead of complaining about his lack of skill.

 

[Pad_Foot]

She’s gone !

 

[CarlyAnn]

 

[Dcharger]

I think I'm still fairly new here, only been on this side of Lit for maybe 2 weeks. IDK... Anyways, I messaged a woman on here giving her a compliment. Never was it degrating, rude, or asking for anything . . . Just a compliement. Well as days went on, I messaged her again leaving another comment not remembering I left the first one. Well she sent me a nasty gram (in a nutshell, she told me to F off). If and when I message someone to give them a compliment, I don't expect anything in return. I'm not here to meet anyone. Was just taken back / shocked / surprised by her note. Later I blocked her in hopes I don't sent her a note again giving her another compliment. All the time in my every day to day life, I'll to that to women even if its true or not, my goal is to brighten their day. Oh well. Life is too short. Have fun, enjoy life, and play hard.

 

[bashfull]

I often wonder about some of the people who meander through the scintillating landscape here! Most are quite kind and generous of spirit! But, some here cross lines of just being uncivilized! Women like myself come here to express and explore our own sexuality and passions! Tonight, I had a couple of people message me and talk crudely at me as though they were paying an escort. If you can’t ask someone if they even want to chat or are interested, that says a lot about you! Please take the time to read the room “or chat box.” In other words, approach me like that and you can kiss my… and you will be blocked!
Tell me why people act like that.
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I've often wondered the same. Or why guys send unsolicited d**k pics. (Tho I don't know why a woman would solicited a d pic).

I had some guy send me a message the other day offering to meet up traveling (I belong to a traveling thread here as I travel a lot on business and pleasure) and "no strings attached...suck my c**k.