Annalisep47
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Sometimes I wonder if there’s anyone looking for a genuine connection beyond just using someone for sexual gratification.
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Sometimes I wonder if there’s anyone looking for a genuine connection beyond just using someone for sexual gratification.*
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Anything sexual is better with a genuine connection.
My feelings as well
Of course! If I just want sex, I can go to Bert's Tavern.
Who is Bert?
Sometimes I wonder if there’s anyone looking for a genuine connection beyond just using someone for sexual gratification.*
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Ps. I can be flakey & unattainable too - we all have stuff going on in the real world
I’ve found lots of blokes here who are genuine and fun to talk to. The problem is in lots of cases that they have slightly complicated home arrangements which makes them very low key on the boards ( if at all) or unavailable at times. Although you probably get lots of PMs sometimes you need to make the first contact if you see someone who catches your eye. I was on a thread for a fair while exchanging views with someone but he never messaged me so in the end it messaged him. You can make someone’s day by doing that.
I’ve found lots of blokes here who are genuine and fun to talk to. The problem is in lots of cases that they have slightly complicated home arrangements which makes them very low key on the boards ( if at all) or unavailable at times. Although you probably get lots of PMs sometimes you need to make the first contact if you see someone who catches your eye. I was on a thread for a fair while exchanging views with someone but he never messaged me so in the end it messaged him. You can make someone’s day by doing that.
Wham bam thank you Mamm!
https://youtu.be/6W0d9xMhZbo
(Ignore me, there are some faces above I recognise and I'm in a dickish mood)
You're not in the UK are you?
There are loads of genuine people here but finding them amongst the dross can be a challenge...
Interact with people decently and the genuine souls soon shine through - the fakers and the ones looking for the wham bam thank you mam fixes soon fall by the wayside - they lack the patience...
I was listening to an excellent podcast yesterday (thanks to a lit recommendation from a genuine lit’er friend) where an interviewee was discussing genuine friendships forged on twitter - recently one of them passed away, a man he had never met and ‘only’ had a twitter friendship with. Yet he stood in his kitchen and cried proper tears at the passing...
My mind came here and to whether there were friendships on lit that would have me crying proper tears in my kitchen and I didn’t have to even think about it... there is a whole bunch of fuckers here that I would cry ugly tears for because I genuinely care for them...
That said - we get out what we put in... I had a quick look at your personal from July and whilst you do mention getting to know people and seeing where it goes, it says nothing about your interests and passions. There isn’t really a hook for anyone wanting to go down a non-sexual route and this is a sex site so an ad looking for folks to chat with will illicit sexual responses. Apologies if that sounds critical, meant as friendly advice - maybe have another go at a personal and tell us something about what makes you tick... what you enjoy chatting about...
Good luck finding what you’re looking for, x
Sometimes I wonder if there’s anyone looking for a genuine connection beyond just using someone for sexual gratification.*
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Without the connection sex is meaningless.
Yes. In my case sex is decreasing in importance and conversation increasing. I like the subtext of sexual tension, the flirting, and the occasional burst into passion. The true connection makes me feel desired.Sometimes I wonder if there’s anyone looking for a genuine connection beyond just using someone for sexual gratification.*
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Sometimes I wonder if there’s anyone looking for a genuine connection beyond just using someone for sexual gratification.*
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