genuine females?

[NickSatan]

As an experienced dominant online slave master, I am always on the lookout for really genuine submissive females. However, I am amazed, and disappointed to find that most ` genuine` females that reply, are in fact males. I do not know why this should be; surely there are doms available for males who are confused about their gender. I would even be willing to take a male slave as long as he is genuine and honest and of course, submissive. I suppose a perfect combination would be a couple, man and wife or girl and boy. As long as they can prove that they are who they say they are, I would be more than happy to try and fulfil their needs

 

[intothewilddeep]

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[NickSatan]

The lack of response that I have had only convinces me that a lot, if not most of the ` subs` who visit this site are no more a female than I am.

 

[laura93]

Actually, most women just happen to be highly picky, while most guys are content to settle with anything.

 

[NaddyKnight]

The lack of response that I have had only convinces me that a lot, if not most of the ` subs` who visit this site are no more a female than I am.

The lack of posting that I can see only convinces me that you haven't spent enough time here to be qualified to make that assumption.

 

[NickSatan]

Maybe I have just been unlucky, but the few contacts that have gone beyond PM`s seem to fall at the first fence of asking them to send a photo of themselves. The excuses that I have heard make me think only two things[; either they are underage, or they are not in some other respect, who or what they claim to be, which is the reason for me asking for photos anyway.

 

[britannia123]

I am a genuine female and I will send you photos to prove it. What position do you want me in? I am very submissive also

 

[StripperSlutWife]

I am as genuine as they get. And I've never had to send a picture to prove anything.

Pics are not proof of anything, at any rate. I could have a folder full of pics to send that aren't of me.

Just keep meeting new people until you find someone you develop a rapport and trust with. It's not going to happen often, and when it does it won't happen right away. But it'll be awesome when you find it.

Sure, there's lots of fakes out there. But there are plenty of us here that are exactly who we say we are.

 

[Pj2424143]

I am as genuine as they get. And I've never had to send a picture to prove anything.

Pics are not proof of anything, at any rate. I could have a folder full of pics to send that aren't of me.

Just keep meeting new people until you find someone you develop a rapport and trust with. It's not going to happen often, and when it does it won't happen right away. But it'll be awesome when you find it.

Sure, there's lots of fakes out there. But there are plenty of us here that are exactly who we say we are.

I just wonder how many women would actually be on here if there wernt any fakes

 

[frankit88]

Also, for me personally, the lack of any info in a profile tends to mean I will not reply. I like to have even a small indication of who I would be speaking with beforehand.

 

[ultimatebliss]

I think some of us, including myself are wary of sending photos to just anyone.

 

[kyrie1595]

I agree with StripperSlutWife & ultimatebliss. Sharing pictures online is no way to prove ones gender.

I'm a trusting soul and when someone says they are either male or female, I have faith that they are the gender they claim. I have no reason to believe otherwise and personally wouldn't want to put the "prove it" stress on anyone.

There are so many reason why one wouldn't want to share their pic.

 

[quietlylooking]

I'm a genuine XX female who has been asked to provided evidence of my gender a few times to skittish men on Lit... maybe if they had been more patient...

 

[Primalex]

In essence, there are two groups:
The sexual roleplayers who are merely looking for sexual roleplaying in one way or the other and feed on text-based entertainment and who consider their relationship with a guy as something like a persistent sexual roleplay. Then there are those women who are looking (in the long run) for a real life relationship.

Unfortunately, the former group outnumbers the second 10:1. But requesting a picture early on is (in my opinion) a very good way to distinguish between those two groups.

Then you also need to add the fact that dating manners have become completely optional in the online world. In real life you get at least a "You know, I don't think we match very well"-farewell. In the online world people click the 'Begone' button.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that 'You are all guys' is a stupid excuse. People, (including women, yes!) reserve the right to do what they want. And if this means to not do what you want, it still doesn't change their sex.

 

[base10]

Vagueness is the surest sign someone isn't who they claim to be. Details can be faked, it's tough in real time.

And for photos, in my experience when a genuine partner says no they usually have a reason rather than putting guard up and/or running away.

 

[WillTheWriter]

Here's to patience ...

I'm a genuine XX female who has been asked to provided evidence of my gender a few times to skittish men on Lit... maybe if they had been more patient...

 

[Blase]

I agree with StripperSlutWife & ultimatebliss. Sharing pictures online is no way to prove ones gender.

I'm a trusting soul and when someone says they are either male or female, I have faith that they are the gender they claim. I have no reason to believe otherwise and personally wouldn't want to put the "prove it" stress on anyone.

There are so many reason why one wouldn't want to share their pic.

With respect to Kyrie and the other ladies who take umbrage at the thought of being asked to prove your gender... most of you probably haven't been burned by a ringer pretending to be of the opposite sex when they in fact were not.

On the other hand, likely many of you can relate to the idea of being lied to by a partner.

Trust me, after one or two experiences of realizing that the investment of time, effort and genuine affection you'd made in an effort to build a relationship had been wasted on someone who just wanted to play as a girl and didn't mind lying in order to pull you into their little game, you'd likely start to become less willing to simply take people at face value for very long.

And it's worth pointing out that photographs can be used in such a way that they provide a high degree of confidence that someone really is female without compromising their identity or their modesty, although nothing's perfect.

 

[Arctophile]

Posts like this kind of irritate me, it isn't that hard to ask for proof = video proof/voice proof/picture to prove somebody's identity. There should be no questions ask, if they don't want to comply, it's their problem, not yours.

I myself have proven myself a number of times, and sometimes it DOES irritate the fuck out of me, but I have to admit that I understand where it's coming from.