Gentlemen, would you rather...

[Connubium]

Your wife,lover, partner play out your fantasies (visual fantasies) costumes, lingerie etc even if she is not 'perfect' looking or avoid trying because she won't look as 'good' as you envision/ the way that actress looks in that movie?

Is she more sexy for being willing to please you despite her flaws?

Or will it ruin your fantasy?

Discuss

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Your wife,lover, partner play out your fantasies (visual fantasies) costumes, lingerie etc even if she is not 'perfect' looking or avoid trying because she won't look as 'good' as you envision/ the way that actress looks in that movie?

Is she more sexy for being willing to please you despite her flaws?

Or will it ruin your fantasy?

Discuss

I would LOVE my partner to play out any of my fantasies.
She is the one I want more than any and although some might say she's not "perfect" her beauty is unsurpassed in my eyes.

I think sometimes women just don't understand this.
While objectively, I realize that she probably isn't going to win the Ms. America contest this year (yet again), I really do think she is beautiful.

Her participation could NEVER ruin a fantasy.

 

[Connubium]

I would LOVE my partner to play out any of my fantasies.
She is the one I want more than any and although some might say she's not "perfect" her beauty is unsurpassed in my eyes.

I think sometimes women just don't understand this.
While objectively, I realize that she probably isn't going to win the Ms. America contest this year (yet again), I really do think she is beautiful.

Her participation could NEVER ruin a fantasy.

Excellent reply, that's exactly the kind of explanation that I was looking for. Your man brains work so differently to ours, so basically what you're saying is that your wife's participation is valued regardless of how she may perceive herself?

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Your wife,lover, partner play out your fantasies (visual fantasies) costumes, lingerie etc even if she is not 'perfect' looking or avoid trying because she won't look as 'good' as you envision/ the way that actress looks in that movie?

Is she more sexy for being willing to please you despite her flaws?

Or will it ruin your fantasy?

Discuss

The willing nature is the real turn on for me. Physical attributes, or the lack thereof, don't diminish the fantasy or whatever. There is beauty in every woman. The sexual attraction for me comes in her mentally engaging to the point where she would indulge in my fantasy all of the way. Besides, flaws are only marks of perfection for the keen eye.

 

[aliasmanxxx]

*****

 

[DefineNormal]

Your wife,lover, partner play out your fantasies (visual fantasies) costumes, lingerie etc even if she is not 'perfect' looking or avoid trying because she won't look as 'good' as you envision/ the way that actress looks in that movie?

Is she more sexy for being willing to please you despite her flaws?

Or will it ruin your fantasy?

Discuss

i would absolutely love for her to play out my fantasies as i would love to play out her fantasies. Shes perfect to me in all ways. and yes more sexy for willing to oblige such things ( if she would ) and no ti would not ruin my fantasy at all just the thought of her willingly to do such a thing makes the world better.

 

[Connubium]

Thanks for the awesome replies guys ,

Do any of you think that the confidence of the woman has any impact on how much of a turn on it is?

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Thanks for the awesome replies guys ,

Do any of you think that the confidence of the woman has any impact on how much of a turn on it is?

Yes, but my reaction to her helps provide the confidence that she brings to the action.

 

[Connubium]

Yes, but my reaction to her helps provide the confidence that she brings to the action.

You're right being made to feel comfortable/sexy is so important!

 

[Pervy_Sage]

You're right being made to feel comfortable/sexy is so important!

Yeah. It makes or breaks the entire scenario.

 

[mothership]

My fantasies involve my partner wearing those outfits and scenarios, so yes!

 

[LeChatNoir]

Your wife,lover, partner play out your fantasies (visual fantasies) costumes, lingerie etc even if she is not 'perfect' looking or avoid trying because she won't look as 'good' as you envision/ the way that actress looks in that movie?

Is she more sexy for being willing to please you despite her flaws?

Or will it ruin your fantasy?

Discuss

There are a very few fantasies that, ultimately, I think I would prefer remain in the realm of fantasy only. Apart from those very few, though, a willing partner is a wonderful thing. Someone who is willing to try out those things, outfits, scenarios, etc., even if she's not "perfect" (and who is, except for those people who have legions of personal trainers, dieticians, and wardrobe consultants), is something to be treasured.

Confidence, as you say in a later post, is important, but that can be built up with time. Every now and then, a little uncertainty and lack of confidence can even be endearingly sexy.

My $0.02.

-LCN

 

[Sundayschild]

Is this question a gender-fixed one? I understand you want to know the male role but I would not expect a different answer from a lady (or rather a similar mix of answers for each sex).

To answer myself - I.wouldn't encourage a fantasy that would make a partner feel uncomfortable, but if I felt I could encourage that confidence I would try. Equally I wouldn't want to act on a fantasy that didn't suit me - as I would probably be self-conscious and wouldn't enjoy it.

 

[Connubium]

Interesting answer LCN

Is this question a gender-fixed one? I understand you want to know the male role but I would not expect a different answer from a lady (or rather a similar mix of answers for each sex).

To answer myself - I.wouldn't encourage a fantasy that would make a partner feel uncomfortable, but if I felt I could encourage that confidence I would try. Equally I wouldn't want to act on a fantasy that didn't suit me - as I would probably be self-conscious and wouldn't enjoy it.

I think that depends on how much of a 'gender-fixed' term you consider the word 'gentlemen' to be, and yes I would expect different answers from men and women, heck I'd expect different answers from different men

The question was more to do with my own curiosity than to gain general information...I think I should have called it-
'Men who have seen pictures of me naked, do you think that I would be able to pull off wearing black lingerie like Sienna Miller does in Layer Cake?'

But I thought that was a bit long.

 

[LeChatNoir]

The question was more to do with my own curiosity than to gain general information...I think I should have called it-
'Men who have seen pictures of me naked, do you think that I would be able to pull off wearing black lingerie like Sienna Miller does in Layer Cake?'

But I thought that was a bit long.

But then we could have just answered, "Fuck yes, you could," and had done with it.

-LCN

 

[Connubium]

But then we could have just answered, "Fuck yes, you could," and had done with it.

-LCN

sorry for wasting your time

 

[Sundayschild]

But then we could have just answered, "Fuck yes, you could," and had done with it.

-LCN

Agreed :-D

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Interesting answer LCN





I think that depends on how much of a 'gender-fixed' term you consider the word 'gentlemen' to be, and yes I would expect different answers from men and women, heck I'd expect different answers from different men

The question was more to do with my own curiosity than to gain general information...I think I should have called it-
'Men who have seen pictures of me naked, do you think that I would be able to pull off wearing black lingerie like Sienna Miller does in Layer Cake?'

But I thought that was a bit long.

Hell yes! Sheesh woman.

 

[Connubium]

Still not getting when I'm being sarcastic then huh?

While the Sienna Miller based question was extremely important the original question is still the one I'm interested in

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Still not getting when I'm being sarcastic then huh?

While the Sienna Miller based question was extremely important the original question is still the one I'm interested in

Well..I felt it gentlemanly to answer on both accounts. Anything else would be....uncivilized!

 

[Connubium]

Well..I felt it gentlemanly to answer on both accounts. Anything else would be....uncivilized!

Quite right, 10 points to you for having excellent manners

 

[jasper3738]

Yes n both

Both I didn't marry her just on looks
Uniform or costumes would be great

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Quite right, 10 points to you for having excellent manners

Hoorah. I'd like to redeem them now for 20 spanks to your round arse.

 

[Connubium]

Well obviously, I only give out points so that they can be exchanged for double spanks
Everyone wins in that situation

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Well obviously, I only give out points so that they can be exchanged for double spanks
Everyone wins in that situation

Lol. Well yes, we all win! Such a gracious hostess with the mostess!