there must be a mature intelligent sensual Domatrix or a lady who would wish to become one out there who is into verbal humiliation and withholding but not pain or strap-ons who would wish to be served by an older sub
You might want to fill out your profile a little more. Since it is completely blank and you only have two posts, it's very difficult to get a good sense of who you are and thus what Domme might suit you.