General Help - Possibly ED

NerdLooser79

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Been feeling down a lot lately. I’m no spring chicken anymore. I’ve felt with a lot of Depression, Anxiety, stress and ADHD medications. I use porn as a crutch when I feel down.

Lately I don’t think I’m enough for my wife, not lasting long enough, and lately sore sex. I mentioned this to my doc and my testosterone levels are fine.

I just don’t know what’s wrong with me anymore. Should I talk to someone about having possibly ED?
 
Im no expert but if your pecker can still stand on his own, then i dont think ED is your problem
 
I think you need to talk to someone about all the issues - if you are still getting firm erections and can perform, the issue is all the other stuff.
 
Been feeling down a lot lately. I’m no spring chicken anymore. I’ve felt with a lot of Depression, Anxiety, stress and ADHD medications. I use porn as a crutch when I feel down.

Lately I don’t think I’m enough for my wife, not lasting long enough, and lately sore sex. I mentioned this to my doc and my testosterone levels are fine.

I just don’t know what’s wrong with me anymore. Should I talk to someone about having possibly ED?
Doesn't sound like ED to me. How can you possibly be happy when your mind is messed up. Please don't be so hard on yourself, it will probably fix itself
 
Been feeling down a lot lately. I’m no spring chicken anymore. I’ve felt with a lot of Depression, Anxiety, stress and ADHD medications. I use porn as a crutch when I feel down.

Lately I don’t think I’m enough for my wife, not lasting long enough, and lately sore sex. I mentioned this to my doc and my testosterone levels are fine.

I just don’t know what’s wrong with me anymore. Should I talk to someone about having possibly ED?
I'd suggest you look up the effects of dopamine and it's effects on your attention span. Porn, tiktok, youtube shorts, social media? It fucks with your dopamine receptors and destroys your brain. No idea about any medications, but when I had cumming too fast problems that led to self-esteem issues and feelings of inadequacy? I knew I had to change. I laid off the porn and social media and youtube entirely for months, started getting exercise and going outside, cut down on known bad eating. (we could argue all day about diets and this and that. But nobody drinks Coca Cola, Pepsi, or Dr. Pepper because it's good for you). The only liquids I intake now are coffee in the morning and water. I'm from the south and don't even drink sweet iced tea anymore.

It took a lot of discipline and marking the hard choice, every minute of every day, to change my habits. Pick up a book instead of your phone. Make yourself read it. Stop jerking off. Go to bed at the same time every day and give your body a routine. You'd be genuinely surprised what you're capable of if you're willing to sacrifice and change.

Yes, it is difficult. Yes, people will not understand your changes. They'll make fun of you and try to pressure you into the habits that have made you the man you don't want to be. You might even lose friends along the way. But you have to keep going in hopes you can one day see someone struggling with the same thing, and inspire them.

That's my ted talk, the rest is up to you, OP.
 
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