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[Jeff726]

Someone posed this over on my thread on the 'how to' forum, and I will answer their concerns here about all the pictures I post.

In my thread entitled "Ok here is the surprise I promised", yes those pictures are of me and are real. Besides would I lie about looking like that?

However, April seems to have a problem with other pictures I put up in other posts. April the other pictures I put up are pictures either of friends or a couple celebs. When I put my name on said pics it becomes what is known as a "logo". All I am doing is having a little bit of fun. I am not trying to deceive anyone at all. I have far too many friends from here to be so cruel like that. And my friends in said pics have seen them before and don't have a problem with them whatsoever.

So all I am saying is to lighten up about it. It's not a big deal at all. But if Laurel were to ask me to not post pictures anymore then fine I would respect that because well duhhhhh she's the site owner, and I would never want to get banned from this wonderful community.

I hope we can just forget this, because I have problems of my own to deal with right now and I don't need anyone ragging on me about some petty pictures.

Ok enough venting from me for now. Talk later.



Jeff

 

[April]

Jeff, I'm glad you explained that, because I was wondering, what with your name on it and all, a person could get a little confused. A little explanatory blurb underneath the picture would go a long way to clearing these things up in the future for anybody who posts pictures on here.

And BTW, I see nothing wrong with the way you look! So there!

 

[Sammyjo]

Me either

 

[Jeff726]

Why is it that no girl I ever met in person found me attractive yet all these online babes do? And they are so far away.

 

[Big Willie]

Jeff mate, worry ye not,
women will come, flock in fact!. you sound like a great bloke with a sweet sense of humour, its only a matter of time. believe me i've been there i hated it and tried everything to find a girlfriend, i changed myself and my views so much that when i sat back and looked at myself, i didn't recognise me. i stopped thinking about it, started being myself, and lo and behold, i found the best girl on the planet (yep sorry guys i got her!!!) and we plan to get married within the next year. Not that i'm saying you don't act yourself or anything i'm just saying 'patience' and don't worry about it it'll happen. If it happened to me, TRUST ME, it'll happen to you.
Stay cool
Peace
Big Will

 

[Jeff726]

Kinda gets hard after a while when all the girls gave me the "you're a nice guy but....." line. I essentially gave up then. And another thing besides my weight that might turn girls off is that being from a middle-class family some things are too expensive, one of them being the dentist. And with the rising costs in that field, I have been unable to visit one in my 20 years, thus the need for quite some work, and possibly a trip to the orthodontist, which also charges high as shit prices. I mean I don't feel I am at the extreme level yet, my teeth aren't exactly perfection either, so there ya go another turn off that girls will find in me. I wanna get it fixed though so bad! Ugh.....



Jeff

 

[Big Willie]

Believe me, someday, you'll find a girl who's not totally hung up on looks but looks for guys with personality and then, i reckon, you're set for life! There are girls who look closer on the inside than on the out. Just gotta find em.....! You will i have faith
Cheers
BW

 

[dave-73]

hey man I know some damn ugly people that have nice girlfriends you realy dont have much to worry about...

 

[dee_cole]

Jeff self image is the key

Jeff man your beautiful man and I don't mean that in a gay way...Not that there's anything wrong with that...but check this out.
It's great to work on your appearance. But you have to first accept yourself as who you are and how you are. Looks are skin deep bro...personality and confidence will take you further. Imagine this...If you were a famous rock and roll singer women would love you as you were. Why? because you would be confident and cocky.

My point is this Jeff...Once you accept yourself and realize that you are more than fine the way that you are everyone else will pick up on your self confidence and follow suit. Everyone has insecurities just like you so remember that...If you don't put everywoman on a pedastal where she can judge you chances are she won't... Approach them as if you expect them to be happy to have an opportunity to go out with you..
Become more straightforward...if you want to fuck..TACTFULLY BUT DIRECTLY..let them know. Don't waste a bunch of money taking them out unless you know she's something special.

Get a few phone numbers and talk to a few ladies over the course of a week or so...throw in some talk about sexual fantasies...this website,even..find out how liberal they are about sex... the one who seems the most liberal invite her to a night of drinks...be a little more aggressive than usual...read her body language if she lets on she might be ready for a physical encounter go for it. If she isn't then ask her during your next conversation why she wasn't. Keep it in your mental rolodex for the next one.

Be aggressive...If you want a babe you have to make it happen. Don't decide not to approach because you think she's too pretty. Practice makes perfect and the best ice breaker is always a line that makes them laugh. It takes them off guard and before they even know it you've gotten the # and are on your way.

Remember that women want to give it you...they just don't know it until you make it obvious.

 

[Jeff726]

Yeah well I am looking for more than just sex in a relationship I hope you know.

 

[Sammyjo]

You are? DAMN...LOL

Actually, I think you will find that a lot of people ARE looking for more. I think a lot of people have this idea that no one is looking for seriousness, so they resort to casual fucking, overlooking the great men and women that really do want more.

Trust me Jeff...I have been with some really HOT guys...and I've been with some not so hot guys...for me, it isn't about looks...there is a lot more to a person than the way they appear on the outside.

 

[dee_cole]

Ok Jeff

that's cool man but the same principal apllies. Confidence is sexy my man. If you show it...they will cum

 

[CreamyLady]

Jeff, you do the best with what you've got. You may be heavy, but be healthy and active. If your teeth are a problem, check out local dental schools and colleges; our local community college uses "guinea pigs" for cleanings in the Dental Hygienist program. The dental schools at the universities can help you, too, if you are okay with students doing the work.

I never give out, or do, love spells; they can bite, big time. However, if anyone really wants to do one, here is one that they should do first: the I Love Me spell.

On a Friday evening (Friday being the day of Venus) on a waxing moon, light some rose incense, a white candle, and sit down with a piece of paper and a pen. Write a love letter to YOU. What you like about yourself, what your good qualities are, what you are really like inside.

Also, acknowledge your faults, but see what it is that you can do actively about them, or accept them. Love yourself, Jeff.

At the end, fold the paper, put it in an envelope, and put it someplace where you'd keep a love letter -- and forget it.

Every morning, when you are looking at yourself in the mirror, see a good quality in yourself, something humorous or fun.

Believe me -- you will feel better about yourself in no time.

 

[SimplySouthern]

I hate to admit this...it is kiling me to type the words..BUT, I agree with Dee-Cole. There, I've said it.

*taking a few moments to stare at the words and let it sink in*

Self confidence in a man is very sexy...men who have a constant need to have their egos stroked are nothing but a liability. ( I mean that in the nicest possible way)

 

[dee_cole]

why Simply... are you smitten

Simply are you finding the Dee's confidence a bit of a turn on if so ... we can talk about it. Im picturing the look on your face as you sit on the swing on the big porch of your southern hospice...When the dee strolls up in his white suit-looking like the late Col. Sanders...how turned on are you my dear?

 

[SimplySouthern]

Now Now Dee....don't get ahead of yourself. Be sure that it takes more than that to turn me on. I do like a man who is confident, but that is only the start of the long list a man has to complete to fully turn me on.

 

[Jeff726]

Dear CreamyLady,

Thank you for the wonderful idea. I am working on it as soon as I can!


Jeff

 

[CreamyLady]

Good for you, Jeff. Positive action can make a world of difference.

 

[dee_cole]

Simply ...do tell

I am just dying to hear a few things on that list. Would wit, intelligence, an adventurous nature, and good looks happen to be on that list. How about modesty? Four out of five arent bad.

 

[SimplySouthern]

Besides a powerful take-charge nature, I like an intelligent man that is funny. I need a man that can keep me in intelligent conversation and provide the comic relief when I need it. The looks....oh those are nice too....but men who can make you laugh are always tops on the list.

Modesty...can be a good thing...but can also be one of those major turn offs. If you have to constantly stroke a man's ego about how good, great, wonderful and smart he is, it becomes a little tedious.

I prefer to have a man that strokes me. Ummmm...I meant my ego of course.

 

[Jeff726]

I prefer when people don't turn my threads into flirt-fests. Now I know how Lasher feels sometimes.

 

[Flagg]

Goddamit!! Its "how Flagg feels" not "how Lasher feels". Jesus, even my gripes are being plagiarised.

 

[Jeff726]

Heh sometimes Flagg you amaze me.

 

[SimplySouthern]

If you thought THAT was a flirtfest...you are more boring than I thought. I could say that I hate it when people are self-righteous about how great they are for not having done any of the "immoral" things that some of the rest of us have done.....but I won't

 

[Sammyjo]

Jeff...stop it!!! Ignore all that flirting and come here.
*hugging you tight*

Although, if you do, you'll get more than flirting, and more than hugs...LOL