gaydar

[sexylilmissie]

ok i admit i have no gaydar whatsoever. i find myself attracted to all the wrong types either straight as an arrow or off in the wrong direction. am i cursed?

the one ltr relationship i had with another bi started when she cornered me in the bathroom and kissed the hell out of me. i had looked.....lots but my impression was straight. turned out i was wrong.


4 years later she found a man she was willing to go straight for. (myself, i dont think that is possible, the concious mind may try it but it doesnt mean its not still there) but i digress.

anyone have tips/tricks/or other expiriences as to how i might be able to improve my odds? i am getting so very tired of striking out all the time

 

[sdedalus]

Move to San Francisco.

 

[sexylilmissie]

Lol moving is not an option......but thanks

 

[simonedb27]

i too have shit gaydar. for awhile, i constantly found myself attracted to men that i later found out were gay. now, even though i am in a relationship with a guy, i find myself constantly attracted to women that have no interest in sex with other women. i too am cursed.

 

[sdedalus]

i too have shit gaydar. for awhile, i constantly found myself attracted to men that i later found out were gay. now, even though i am in a relationship with a guy, i find myself constantly attracted to women that have no interest in sex with other women. i too am cursed.

All women have interest in sex with other women... don't lie.

(The following was in jest, I do not truly believe this, but was joking around to get a rise out of simonedb27, please do not take offense and please see my note later on in the thread )

Bi, accepting, and poor choice/sense of humor...

SD

 

[simonedb27]

i have asked a few in particular and was turned down.

i suppose that doesn't prove that all women want to have sex with other women; just that these few didn't want sex with me

 

[sexylilmissie]

i suppose i am still half closeted. i have the interest, but am to shy to be so forward as to ask.

thanks everyone for taking a look, i have been thinking i am a natural born thread killer here lol

 

[sdedalus]

i have asked a few in particular and was turned down.

i suppose that doesn't prove that all women want to have sex with other women; just that these few didn't want sex with me

Um.. I am not aware of this... when? Ask them again!

 

[TulaneCowboy]

Maybe your gaydar is just fine. I've enjoyed a number of "straight" guys who suddenly weren't straight once they let go. Maybe your gaydar is perfectly tuned and you're picking up some subtle vibes they can't or won't admit. Perhaps the key is to fine tune your persuasive skills?

 

[sexylilmissie]

could be...gotta work on it i guess

 

[Etoile]

All women have interest in sex with other women... don't lie.

Sure they do. And all men have interest in sex with other men. Right?

 

[sdedalus]

Sure they do. And all men have interest in sex with other men. Right?

Secretly I'd like to think so... at leat that is what I am banking on... I think a lot of people wouldn't mind haveing sex with themselves. My best friend said he would have sex with himself if there was another one of him.

 

[Queersetti]

Sure they do. And all men have interest in sex with other men. Right?

I'm actually glad that that's not true!

 

[sdedalus]

Um simonedb27 has brought to my attention that I type silly thing before I think. So if I ever write something that offends someone let me know. I am humble. I just joke around way too much so my silly questions can come across as offensive or out of place. See preceding messages on this thread if you are confused. Anyway, I am a dork. Peace out.

SD

 

[simonedb27]

you let what i say bother you too much sometimes.

 

[sdedalus]

you let what i say bother you too much sometimes.

I could care less what you think... I just don't want everyone else to think I am an @$$hole... now get in the kitchen and make me some dinner woman...

(Again, the following message was meant in jest. Simonedb27 gets to wear the pants and any other illusion I may present is simply my own venting at the fact that she has larger balls than I do... again this was only a joke... an un-funny joke, becaue I am not funny, except to myself.)

 

[Etoile]

I could care less what you think... I just don't want everyone else to think I am an @$$hole... now get in the kitchen and make me some dinner woman...

couldn't care less

 

[simonedb27]

that is too funny. you just corrected mr. i-am-an-english-major-with-perfect-grammar.

he never believes me when i correct him

 

[sdedalus]

Now I am being ganged up on... (this could be fun!)

 

[sdedalus]

that is too funny. you just corrected mr. i-am-an-english-major-with-perfect-grammar.

he never believes me when i correct him

Um... you don't have to have proper grammar online or in e-mail... as my History and Grammar of the English Language so appropriately taught me.

And just to be anally-retentive too.. I WAS an English Major (creative writing)... and never claimed to utilize proper gramar.