Gay women and straight men

[Guest]

There is no sex as good as between a gay woman and a straight man. My friend was a dike and she wanted to try and ride the pony as she had never experimented with a man. Goodness that was one great bit of ass. Gay women seem attracted to straight men the same as straight women are attracted to gay men. i just don't understand why women do these things. I was not the only guy banging a gay lady as it is fairly common. Maybe the desire for children drives this.

 

[Kandi]

very interesting

i'd love to hear more, especially from
the gay women who have had these experiences
or the desire to have them

 

[Notme2]

I never had sex with a gay woman but I did date a girl who was bi. She was out of control when she drank and had a good friend who she would always kiss and feel up. She would get all heated her house when we were there, outside the bar in the parking lot, or wherever. On the way home she would go down on me but not let me cum. She would play with her pussy at the same time. Then when we got home we would go at it for marathon sex. She claimed to have never done anything when I wasn't around but I don't believe her. We had a "3some" once, too. She could touch but I couldn't. She was a hot one, loved to do foreplay in moving cars.

 

[Guest]

Confused?!

If there Gay and having sex w/ the other sex doesnt that make them Bi?! Just wondering.. I mean im a bi female and Have a girl Who is A dyke.... And we have had 3 sums w/ men but it doesnt even intreast her in the least to b w/ a man.. She does it cause she knows it Satisfies me!! As far as going looking 4 a gay person hmmm would still think that would make them bi if they agreed to have sex with them...
But who knows ive been told i dont know sheeit!! lol.. Mel

 

[Guest]

Maybe Yummy

You might be right Yummy. She was a dyke but had never been with a man. Maybe she was fooling herself. She liked me to stay in her after sex and lay on top of her, she said it made her feel so good. She still dreamed about woman but was in a straight relationship with me.

 

[Guest]

HMMMMM!

So if i may ask?! Was she with other men after u?! sounds to me like she is bi specially if she liked u just to b in here.. but im no expert... lol...
and the fact she was never w/ another man be4 u would b hard to determine she was a dyke... but who knows.. Mel

 

[Guest]

She was wonderful

Yummy she was a lipstick lesbian and a dike. We were friends and she loved me as a friend long before we had sex. I was going to marry her but she was a victim in a traffic accident and I lost her. She was never with another man but me. When you mix love and sex that is a heady mix. But there were several other male lesbian couples that we were friends with and several did get married. I always wondered it the need to have children and a family pushed these women into the arms of men. ut I have known several fag haggs that are straight women involved with gaymen. The seems like a mirror image of the gay women with straight men. Oddly the gay women were attracted to strong outgoing, nice but somewhat macho guys.

 

[Guest]

Well!!

Sorry about that!!
Anyways, ok here is my question.. u peeked my intreast so now tell me more.... Ok if there married to someone who is gay how can they completly be Satisfied.. i mean im sure that there happy.. BUt seems to me they would b missing sumething unless there realtionship was that open were they brought in other people to that?!
Just wondering..... Melissa

 

[Guest]

I am not sure if I know the answer

To start with I was with her and her girlfriend. And she became jealous of my being intimate with her girlfirend. I missunderstood and thought she was jealous that a man was with her girlfriend. She told me no that it drove her crazy when she thought about me being with another woman. I knew then that we were a couple. She was gay but somehow liked sex with me and that was what she wanted. At first I thought it was the nesting instinct or the need to have her own children. Maybe I was the forbbiden love. I think she loved me because I am a nice person and she fell in love with that part of me long before we became intimate. People had always told me how she said such nice things about me. One guy said she had a crush on me but I dismissed it but it appears he was correct.

There were other lesbians involved with men. We went to gay and straight clubs. One older dyke friend of hers had been married and had a child. I see it as the same thing as straight women who date gaymen. I think a straight man and a lesbian make a better combination because the man can engage in sex with the woman. There have been several films about this subject from Chasing Amy to a movie with Perry King.

Thank you for the thought I am able to live with the pain now but still miss her so much.

 

[Guest]

Seems to me!

Yeah it Seems like she really Had strong feels 4 who u are... So there 4 she Didn't let her Lezzy Status get in the way of the person It self...... I'm sorry things ended the way they did thats 4 sure.. But atleast u have Realized a few things.....

And still seems to me like u would have to have a very open realtionship w/ sumone 4 them to have a gay partner just seems like there would b needs u couldnt meet... im bi as i said and as much as i love being w/ men there is always something more that i want that he cant give me.. but maybe i just dont have that deep dark "love " yet.. i dunno ,, Mel

 

[Guest]

Hope you find that love

I hope you find that deep dark love. We all need it. Maybe because it makes us feel so great to have that kind of accept anything unquestioning love. Love does seem to conquer all. It was a very open relationship between us and I would not have denied her anything. Her mom loved me and felt that her daughter must just have been experimenting at being gay but mom was wrong. I do not know why friends fall in love but it is wonderful when it happens. It does seem to work out better in the long run when it is a straight man and a gay woman than a gay man and a straight woman. Best of luck and hoping you find the person that will love you for yourself and accept you as you are. Your friend.

 

[Guest]

Might find love!!

Thxs.... I might Find LOve and Whatever else im looking 4 in sumone But i can say this Im not ready..lol...
So thanks 4 clearing things up w/ me.. Sum times i wonder y im not a Blonde.. HahA....
Mel...

 

[Notme2]

I know I am going to take shit for this one, but I have an opinion.
A girl can be gay, bi, or straight. A guy is either straight or sucks cocks.

 

[Guest]

Crudely put but true

Crudely put but true. Somehow it does not seem as important with women. Women that are Gay, Bi or Straight seem to get men when they want but gaymen are truly a sad lot of misfits. Cock sucking, fucking and cornholing are normal for a man with a woman but two guys is just nilist.

 

[Guest]

sex better man/lesbian

The sex is better between a lesbian and man because the man will not hold back or hesitate to take his pleasure. When you are with a regular woman you do not wish to hurt her and in some ways you hold back and will not push the sex to the edge. When you with a lesbian there is no holding back and it is just raw sex! You are free to do what you want with a lesbian and they seem to love it. Most lesbians have sex with men and are really bi.

 

[Guest]

Raw sex...

i Disagree... lol.. im sure u thought i would.. But i have been with a Gay goy and i can tell u the sex was awful i couldnt even begin to compare it thats how bad it was...
So let me say this.... a 1 nighter a good fuck is like a raw fuck sumeone who doesnt care what u think or how it feels cause it will never happen again if it does its just that SEX!!
so sumeone ur with sure its going to b diffrent because it means a hell of alot more to u has feelings behind it... Mel.

 

[Another Shy One]

..maybe... men and women are simply meant to be together...

 

[Guest]

..maybe... men and women are simply meant to be together...

Yeah but Gay ones?!

 

[Another Shy One]

still, afterall a woman is a woman and a man is a man... and they're bound to be together

 

[HotXBunz]

Hi I am new in the neigborhood but love this thread. I volunteer for the Community Planning Group in my state. We give community based organizations information and recommendations regarding HIV/AIDS prevention and education. I feel very passionate about these issues.

Something I found very interesting when I first got with this group was the classification MSM (men who have sex with men). They were not called homosexual because they didn't self identify with being gay.

The idea of self identification really clicked with me. I understand that just because a person practices certain behaviors he/she may not label him/herself as identiying with these behaviors. When we label we limit someone.

I have a friend who was married for 22 years and considered herself a lesbian the whole time. When her children grew up she divorced and found a woman partner. She told me it was not who she fucked but who she loved. Another lesbian friend married a Colombian when she was in her late 30's and fucked his brains out for four years. She said she aways identified as a lesbian and that her husband was good company and a great toy. She is now back in a lesbian relationship of 10 years. To infer she is bi would be a great insult to her.

This makes since to me. The married men who get the occasonal blow job in the rest area do not identify as being bi or gay. We would try to label them as such because of the behavior but in the searching of their hearts they do not feel bi or gay, they just happened upon a mouth in a glory hole and let the good times roll. It is so for this reason many people who practice risky behaviors do not listen to messages aimed at the gay population.

Take anal sex for instance. Many straight men love male/female anal. This is THE riskiest sexual behavior because of the delicate tissue involved and the chance of tearing and fluid exchange. How many guys think they could get HIV from this behavior? My guess is not near enough and wih my experience dealing with the rising heterosexual HIV rates I can go so far as to guess many women don't give a thought as to what behaviors their partner has been engaging in either. He's having sex with me, so he must be straight is the rational.

I said all of that (sorry I was so long winded) to say this. Who someone sees when they look in the mirror is who or what they are. We do not and can not make that decision for them no matter what behaviors they engage in. Sexual identification is more than a genital thing.

Thanks for the patience. I feel better now.

These days sexuality can't be pegged.

 

[arteros]

This thread was going down hill fast until HotXBunz said what needed to be said. During the two 13 year primary relationships of my life, m f we were, 80% of our friends were Lesbian or Gay. Like any large group of people, there are all types. Not a few stereotypes. Respect seems elusive at times in this thread. A previously touched on an important truth - that being Gay, Lesbian or Straight is a function of who you can love in your soul, can share your being with, enjoy an intimacy that is primal. It's not about occasional sexual pleasure. If a Lesbian and a straight guy have sex or an affair she is still a Lesbian. If she decides she truely loves him and has no interest in women, OK, maybe she is something else. Nobody has to fit into one niche or stay the same all their life. Sexual intimacy is sometimes shared between straight friends. It happens between friends of all the possible combinations. It is still about friends in a pleasurable situation. Respect, an open mind, caring and pleasure can lead to .......?
Sex at it's best is trancendant.