Gay guys with girls

[valeriuscatullus]

Do any otherwise gay men on here enjoy anal sex with women?

 

[valeriuscatullus]

I guess I should explain why I'm asking. I have a good friend, a fuck buddy really, who identifies as gay. A few years ago a fag hag friend of his convinced him to fuck her while he was a little drunk, but he would only do her in the ass. He loved it and since then he occasionally gets together with her and another female friend as well to have anal sex, yet he still calls himself gay. This seemed very strange to me and I was just wondering if there were other gay guys out there who could explain?

 

[Phydeax69]

I have a friend that's a bartender in the Keys who has sex with a woman once or twice a years just for the giggles of it...he's gay, and loves it that way!

 

[Safe_Bet]

I guess I should explain why I'm asking. I have a good friend, a fuck buddy really, who identifies as gay. A few years ago a fag hag friend of his convinced him to fuck her while he was a little drunk, but he would only do her in the ass. He loved it and since then he occasionally gets together with her and another female friend as well to have anal sex, yet he still calls himself gay. This seemed very strange to me and I was just wondering if there were other gay guys out there who could explain?

No, what that means is that your "friend" is a Bi piece of shit.

He's Bi because he is currently having sex with both genders. There isn't any if, and or buts about it. He's Bi as long as he is actively willing to do that.

As for the piece of shit part it's because, even though he is willing to have sex with the chick he obviously isn't willing to give her the same sexual gratification that he receives. Instead, he treats her like a piece of meat to get his rocks off on. THAT makes him a self serving asshole in my book (and her stupid for letting him)

 

[Phydeax69]

No, what that means is that your "friend" is a Bi piece of shit.

He's Bi because he is currently having sex with both genders. There isn't any if, and or buts about it. He's Bi as long as he is actively willing to do that.

As for the piece of shit part it's because, even though he is willing to have sex with the chick he obviously isn't willing to give her the same sexual gratification that he receives. Instead, he treats her like a piece of meat to get his rocks off on. THAT makes him a self serving asshole in my book (and her stupid for letting him)

testy aren't we?!?!?!

Sounds like SHE initiated it to me....

 

[Safe_Bet]

testy aren't we?!?!?!

Sounds like SHE initiated it to me....

What part of the statment, "...but he would only do her in the ass." confuses you? She might have initiated it, but he is an asshole for insisting on anal only sex. If he hates women that much he shouldn't get involved.

 

[davion2308]

I hate this

I hate how we define gay, bi, straight. At least how some people do. For me, gay/bi/straight refers to the emotional side of things. Humans are sexual beings, sex feels good, and we shouldn't name something something just because of that.

Example: There are a ton of guys on here who are straight. Emotionally, they date women, never men. They don't want to hold hands with men, massage them, kiss them, do anything except swap blowjobs. They would never date a guy or like one as more the a fuck-buddy or occasional sexual partner. For me? That doesn't make them gay... or even bi. Silly as it sounds, they're straight to me. They like women for more then just sex. Sure, sex with a guy's dick is fun, but they don't want anything more then that.

Gay guys, to me, are the ones who only date men, not women. Maybe they've had sex with women, but they are emotionally attached to men. To me? Gay.

I dunno. Everyone has their own definition. But it kills me when people are put into categories. We're humans, we're sexual beings, we can't identify ourselves with one word groups.

Flame away!

 

[Wolfman1982]

Is it just me, or does it smell burned in here ? Oh yeah, it is the purity moonshine, S_B is making. Which means, unless a few non male hating lesbians takes action. Then S_B will burn the arse hairs of gay men, who likes to get some pussy every now and then, and they are gay. Even though they fuck women, for the sake of feeling some more soft skin. And difference, I wish the gay men, who in the past was in the GLBT who had sex with women (and enjoyed it, and did NOT hate women) would come in to the thread. And give S_B a deserved telling. Cause I know at least ONE woman, who is a lesbian, who in the past had sex with a man. And she was not bi, she was a lesbian. But what S_B means, by being bi. Is NOT bi amorous. But bisexual as in only fucking with both genders. But only falling in love with men. But if I must say something to the whole bullshit from S_B , then she should stop holding the trigger on the flamethrower so tightly, and understand. That sexuality is more fluid, than black and white as S_B portrays it. I personally consider myself bi, as in bisexual , the way S_B tries to lay down the knitting club "law". But I am also bi in being bi amorous, which means falling in love with both genders. But I fall easier for women, than men. But when that is done and said, then I also consider myself pansexual , and straight at the same time. I swing between those poles, in a non bipolar syndrome fashion. And I actually love butchy women, and that does not matter whether they are straight, bi or lesbians. And the reason is simple, they got some fucking "balls", which I bloody admire. Since I remember meeting one of the hottest butch lesbians (some years ago), she was butchy, but she was also feminine , and she fucking rocked. Since she did not give a shit, even though she probably also had her moments. When she needed a shoulder to cry on. But that amazomeness (Amazons and awesomeness mixed together), is something I admire. But the whole black and white sexuality thing, than some people tries to lay down again and again does NOT work in the real world. Since connections, love does not know borders, whether you are gay, bi or straight. I just think people likes to label what they are, or aren't . I am personally more into "let and let live, as long you can behave". In comparison to "laying down the law" Judge Dredd style. So S_B file those nails down, and retract your claws too, since attacking every one with another opinion than yourself, all the time is what people become unpopular upon, I know it personally. Since I have been an ass in that category, but a wise person said to me, stop correcting people, even though you are only trying to be helpful.

 

[Chrissi]

Maybe I shouldn't but oh well...

No doubt about what team I play for....but I have a long time friend, who is a woman, and many years ago, she was hinting around that I should have sex with a woman, the "fairer sex," just to see what I was missing...Of course, she knew I was gay.

Well it was an interesting evening. It was fun, yes, but it was not for me. Just the physical closeness of the situation created its own eroticism. Her body was (and still is I assume) soft and pleasant to touch. Her lips, no, not those, were pleasant to kiss, although I must admit to preferring a guy's stubble. A guy's kiss is much more tactile, intense and passionate for me.

Her breasts were fun, I have to admit that....shhhhhh. But honestly everything south of that was largely uninteresting to and for me. The lack of a penis, to be blunt, to hold, stroke, caress, and fondle; to kiss and tongue, and swirl your tongue around, to get it wet and take it into your mouth; to suckle from it, to work it, both with your hands and mouth, to take it down your throat, and lastly to get him to cum for you and because of you, is a big part of sex for me. A woman has nothing to compare.

Don't misunderstand me, I didn't find her vagina repulsive. Her odor and wetness didn't turn me off, rather, it failed to turn me on. I just couldn't stay hard. While we did have intercourse, again it was largely mechanical and being semi tumescent didn't help much either. A guy's smell, on the other hand, really gets to me. A man's odor from his pits or his crotch are instant erections for me. They make me incredibly horny. The smell and taste of cum just make me hornier.

Plus who doesn't get turned on by a nice tight ass, a hairy defined chest, 5 o'clock shadow, or a subtle goatee....yummy. Expressive eyes and an easy smile framed by a chiseled face, yup, that does it for me.

Oh, sorry, anyway, back to the girls, well girl. While I did lick her vagina, it was with help and direction from her. Orgasm, I don't think so, but at least she told me she really enjoyed it. I suppose what killed it a little for both of us was that I kept trying to rimm her ass however, and she wasn't into that and so I stopped. She did bring herself off with her fingers and that was fun to watch and hold her while she did. There was no anal penetration as I said, she wasn't into it, and I didn't want to fuck her there anyway, as I am a bottom, so that wasn't really a concern for either of us, but I do love rimming (both ways).

Anyway, we are still close friends, and we still joke about "our night," oh so many years ago....she is married now, and yes, her husband knows (and he is cute!). So at least to her, that evening was proof, that I could never be turned to the "fairer sex."

I don't know many men who routinely have sex with women, as none of my gay friends would really be interested (anymore: as some have been there and done that when they were younger).

I guess your friend really likes to top and is not too picky over who he tops. Whether he is gay, bi, or something else, I really don't give a shit.

hugs
topher (and before someone puts a play on my name, it is pronounced: "Tofer" as in short for Christopher)

 

[statutoryape]

No, what that means is that your "friend" is a Bi piece of shit.

He's Bi because he is currently having sex with both genders. There isn't any if, and or buts about it. He's Bi as long as he is actively willing to do that.

As for the piece of shit part it's because, even though he is willing to have sex with the chick he obviously isn't willing to give her the same sexual gratification that he receives. Instead, he treats her like a piece of meat to get his rocks off on. THAT makes him a self serving asshole in my book (and her stupid for letting him)

Yup, because consentual anal sex is exploitative to women and makes them little more than cumdumpsters. It's not like anybody actually enjoys anal or gets anything out of it really. All those poor, misguided gay men...

If anything, SHE's the piece of shit for getting off on the power dynamic of debasing a poor innocent gay man and seducing him away from the cock. Did it ever occur to you that she submits to anal sex with a gay man, repeatedly, because she enjoys something about the encounter? Not every woman is a perpetual victim of male exploitation.

 

[valeriuscatullus]

Yup, because consentual anal sex is exploitative to women and makes them little more than cumdumpsters. It's not like anybody actually enjoys anal or gets anything out of it really. All those poor, misguided gay men...

If anything, SHE's the piece of shit for getting off on the power dynamic of debasing a poor innocent gay man and seducing him away from the cock. Did it ever occur to you that she submits to anal sex with a gay man, repeatedly, because she enjoys something about the encounter? Not every woman is a perpetual victim of male exploitation.

Well I agree with you that some women do enjoy it a lot. I had a girlfriend once who surprised the hell out of me by PREFERRING anal sex over vaginal. She liked fingering herself while getting fucked in the ass or having me finger her while I did it. She said she had the most explosive orgasms that way. She also had a thing for getting herself off while watching two men have anal sex with each other. Sometimes she would suck me while I got fucked and finger herself to orgasm doing it. We later drifted apart because of work and having to move, but damn I wish there were more women like her out there.