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[philos]

What do you consider not vanilla but "lite" kink? What was your introduction? How would you ease someone into kink?

 

[NippleMuncher]

Everyone's idea of kink is different. For some, buttsecks is kinky, for others it is vanilla, for some whips and chains is kinky, for others it's normal . . . see where I'm going with this?

Your question is like asking how to give the best blow job or lick pussy like a master, it's all in the eyes of the recipient/participants.

the best thing is to compare notes with your partner and find out where your respective kink levels collide and go from there.

 

[NightL]

What do you consider not vanilla but "lite" kink? What was your introduction? How would you ease someone into kink?

When they show an interest or ask

 

[pplwatching]

What do you consider not vanilla but "lite" kink? What was your introduction? How would you ease someone into kink?

My wife's a very aural gal, especially when her fire's stoked. I've had pretty good luck whispering what I want to try in her ear in the heat of passion, and she's gone along. Nothing too far out there, but kinky enough that I fretted over how to ask. Good luck.

 

[Cumference]

What do you consider not vanilla but "lite" kink? What was your introduction? How would you ease someone into kink?

In my book, kink is "something out of the ordinary", but who defines what is ordinary?

Some of the fun and games Lady C and I have, we just consider to be "good fun with a twist", but other members of the family would probably consider them outrageously perverted.

Neither Lady C nor I were exactly innocent when we met, but some good possibilities for introducing a new game could be:

- be honest! "I think it could be fun to......." Or "I've thought about ......, what do you think".
- the playful threat:"Behave, or you are going over the knee!" Or something similar. If you partner then willfully misbehaves, it is probably a good sign. Remember to never threaten with something you are not willing to actually do!
- whispering int he heat of passion has been mentioned. Good one, but be careful when you are horny too. Lust impairs judgement!
- read a naughty story aloud.... With the right elements.

Go slow and easy and communicate!

 

[philos]

Guess it goes back to the old "anything is kinky until you try it."