Gangbangs?

[nymphochristy]

Well, unlike the rest of you girls, I LOVE gangbangs-the idea and the actual part. I love being pumped up by 3+ guys at once.

It may seem degrading to you guys, but I LOVE IT.

 

[Bobmi357]

She asked if it made her look like a slut and I had to honestly reply it did, which was a turn on for both of us.

I don't get it. I used to think the term wife-slut meant that the wife was a prim and proper lady to the outside world, and a roaring tiger in the privacy of the bedroom. After reading this post I went back and double checked the meaning of the word slut to make sure it hadn't changed and I just didn't notice it changing.


SLUT n.

1. A woman considered sexually promiscuous.
2. A woman prostitute.
3. A slovenly woman; a slattern.


[Middle English slutte.]sluttish adj.
sluttish·ly adv.
sluttish·ness n.
slutty adj.

slut \Slut\, n. [OE. slutte; cf. OD. slodde a slut, Icel. sl["o]ttr a heavy, loglike fellow, slota to droop.] 1. An untidy woman; a slattern.

Sluts are good enough to make a sloven's porridge. --Old Proverb.

2. A servant girl; a drudge. [Obs.]

Our little girl Susan is a most admirable slut, and pleases us mightly, doing more service than both the others.

3. A female dog; a bitch.

1: a dirty untidy woman [syn: slattern, slovenly woman]
2: a woman adulterer [syn: adulteress, fornicatress, hussy, jade, loose woman, strumpet]


Ok, there's a bunch of definitions for slut from multiple sources. None of them are all that great if you ask me. Being called a slut isn't exactly something that someone would rush to call and tell grandma all about like one would for getting a raise or being called employee of the month.

"Hi! Grandma! Guess what? I'ma SLUT!"

See? It doesn't quite work if you ask me.

I think that calling, or thinking that one's spouse/SO is a slut is probably more degrading and demeaning than the actual act of participating in a gang bang.

Gangbangs are generally unsafe, even if you insisted on medical tests from everyone participating, those tests would not be conclusive proof that someone isn't hiv infected. If your wife is into them, fine, but why further demean her by calling her names?

Words are powerful things, they hold a magic all of their own. Call someone something long enough and they start to believe it and act the role.

Everyman wants a woman that he can spend his life with. That will be nice enough to bring home to Mom and Dad, and still be a tiger in the bedroom. But do guys want sluts? Some might, but I suspect the majority reading those definitions will think twice about them.

Call my wife a slut and you'll eat my knuckles.

 

[VSE]

Isnt that kind of the point?

Personally I've never felt the need to share "my woman" or had one ask/suggest that the situation occur, but if thats what gets your rocks off go for it.

 

[wicked woman]

Ok, there's a bunch of definitions for slut from multiple sources. None of them are all that great if you ask me. Being called a slut isn't exactly something that someone would rush to call and tell grandma all about like one would for getting a raise or being called employee of the month.

"Hi! Grandma! Guess what? I'ma SLUT!"

See? It doesn't quite work if you ask me.

I think that calling, or thinking that one's spouse/SO is a slut is probably more degrading and demeaning than the actual act of participating in a gang bang.

Gangbangs are generally unsafe, even if you insisted on medical tests from everyone participating, those tests would not be conclusive proof that someone isn't hiv infected. If your wife is into them, fine, but why further demean her by calling her names?

Words are powerful things, they hold a magic all of their own. Call someone something long enough and they start to believe it and act the role.

Everyman wants a woman that he can spend his life with. That will be nice enough to bring home to Mom and Dad, and still be a tiger in the bedroom. But do guys want sluts? Some might, but I suspect the majority reading those definitions will think twice about them.

Call my wife a slut and you'll eat my knuckles. [/B]

Bob regarding the term 'slut' I would generally agree with you BUT would like to add that if said but the right man, in the right way 'lil' slut' to me can be a term of endearment. It's based more on what you referred to as a wife-slut and not the technically correct definition...nothing to do with being promiscuous with numerous people or a prostitute...more a roaring tiger with a bit of D/s relationship thrown in.

As for the gang bang topic of this thread...my opinion remains unchanged. No way..no how...not safe...degrading.

 

[DuckLover]

The key to using virtually any term with you partner is having a similar sense of definition. When I use the term "slut" with a partner, I primarily mean that she's really, really enjoys sex. And sure, we're both playing with the taboo/naughtiness of countering the societal expectation that "good" women shouldn't/don't like sex. (Which is, of course, total crap.)

 

[Bobmi357]

I'll grant you that it can be used as a term of endearment.

I was thinking however more along the lines of the poster that sent me off on this tangent. Watching his wife get gangbanged by 6-8 other guys and both of them (he and the wife) thinking she was being a real slut.

 

[pogogirl]

I have been fanasizing about ganbangs for a long time now and I really do want to try it and had the opportunity
not to long ago to do so. I am a little nervous though. I rushed in to the offer for a gangbang in Ohio but then got my doubts and met someone who really didn't want me to do it anyway. I now have the opportunity again and think I might do it this time. The subject of being degraded that turns off a lot of people from trying gangbangs is just another turn on for me. I guess you guys could say thats fucked up but that is just me.

 

[ReadyOne]

So how would the guys approach a gang bang?

Totally selfishly as in even competing with the other guys for who goes first, with a couple of incidents to determine the alpha male?

With politeness and decorum among themselves, lining up and sharing politely as from kindergarten?

And towards the lady --

Would they be cognizant of what she wanted, making a point to coordinate a cum bath, keep all holes filled, "force" her to take them all (mock rape), ride the train to keep her constantly stimulated at the highest possible levels, supply verbal degradation, or do what ever roll play she wanted?

Or would they just be interested in getting themselves off without regard for what turns her on about taking on so many males?

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I could enjoy being one of the guys if I knew what was going on inside her head and found the other guys mutually cooperative.

 

[DuckLover]

I don't see myself ever being involved in a gangbang. The idea of being one of many men fucking a single woman just isn't very appealing. Nor do I find the idea of watching my partner get fucked by lots of guys exciting.

Threesome/foursome/group sex, on the other hand, IS very exciting. I think the multi-directional focus and personalization are the keys. In a gangbang, I have difficulty perceiving the woman as more than an object, a passive fuckhole. Conversely, in a group situation, she is a more active participant and most likely not the only woman. The situation is much less one-sided.

 

[ullr]

EXACTLY!

The key to using virtually any term with you partner is having a similar sense of definition. When I use the term "slut" with a partner, I primarily mean that she's really, really enjoys sex. And sure, we're both playing with the taboo/naughtiness of countering the societal expectation that "good" women shouldn't/don't like sex. (Which is, of course, total crap.)

I have had only three great lovers. Two of them either learned to enjoy the rebeliousness of being a slut or already had from family experience. For example, the latter lover was TURNED on in a nasty horny way by being dragged to church!

It's rebellion - i.e., reversal of society's puritan expectations; it's the gusto to redefine oneself. And frankly, if I were a woman - a multi-orgasmic sexy beauty - i too would love to be a slut! Exceptional lustiness is not a crime, but a special ability.

A man can't get it up forever; a woman has many advantages in life and I admire those proud few willng to bust conventional barriers in pursuit of their pleasure. I envy them.

It's when "bad" means really really good - just as Mae West understood.

--Orson