Gangbangs?

[IAmUnholy]

Do any women or men have an opinion on Gangbangs? Although some opinions differentiate I consider a gangbang with three men on a woman. Now my partner and I have done DP. What do you women of Lit think about gangbangs? Mens opinions valued just as much, preferably if you've tried it, if not. Then give your opinion if you want! ;]

 

[BirdsWife]

I think the fantasy of them is really great.

Personally, though, I believe the possibility of diseases and the emotional fallout for those who do them while in a committed relationship are too great a price to pay to make that fantasy become a reality.

 

[handlebars69]

i agree.... i would rather just dream than do it

 

[N8Dreams]

I cant get off when gang banged

 

[wicked woman]

In addition to Bird's Wife's concerns, frankly I find the idea of a gang bang degrading. Not even fantasy material for me.

 

[lovechild27]

No desire to be a cum bucket for a bunch of men who want to use me.

 

[Southflpornstar]

GangBangs

Hmmmm.....If DP and Triple Penetration is considered a Gang Bang...then yes, I am guilty of particiapting in numerous Gang Bangs since I have enjoyed particpating in the Double Penetration Sessions I have had the good fortune to be invited into.
I have also done Bukkake..that is where a woman is surrounded by several guys and they all cum on and all over her.

 

[Mistress K]

Mmmmmmmmmm

Ok so far gangbang has been just a fantasy of mine.

My girlfriend and I have both participated in many threesomes (all FFM) and we both really enjoy this. We are yet to try double penetration (say with our strap on and the guys cock) but I am very keen to try this soon. Most likely to happen too as I have a married man that I see regularly and he loves to experiment with us.

The idea of a gangbang - well it turns us on A LOT.
We just don't know of many people in our area that would be interested and secondly of guys man enough to take up the challenge.

I don't see it as degrading if everyone involved has a "fucking" good time (pun intended)

 

[UEMcGill]

From a man's point of view, I would have to say gangbangs are degrading for a woman. I still remember college and school days when girls would pull a train. None of the guys showed one bit of respect or concern for the lady, she was more or less a place to dump a load, and ridiculed later for her action. But I do remember girls who seemed to enjoy being gangbanged, and would usually show up at parties every weekend, and do it again.

On the other hand, enjoying the swinging life style. I have seen many women enjoy the company of more than one man and, or women, but they are never treated with disrespect. At house parties we have seen several different women enjoy the company of several men, some times as many as 5 or 6. Each taking a turn one after another, and a few of the men would take seconds. My wife had considered this as many of the women did for her birthday or a special ocassion, or just to see how many men she could take on in one night. But she changed her mind after we meet, with one single male for a MFM threesome. He was well endowed and lasted a long time, and could go several times with little rest. By the time I was done he was ready to go again. She didn't think 5 or 6 guys could do her as much good as he did. So she changed her mind about taking on several guys. Although she may change her mind later and try, as it would be with guys she already knows.

 

[poking]

I have never had a threesome but the idea really turns me on. Whether it's mmf or mff, both sound great to me

 

[Meat Whistler]

Great fantasies, far too dangerous, though.

 

[sweet T]

No desire to be a cum bucket for a bunch of men who want to use me.

Amen!

 

[IAmUnholy]

i dont think my point was really conveyed. this isn't like some pornographic film where we'd drag in a bunch of strangers n' have em use her holes until orgasm. this would be kind of a mutual fantasy of ours. shes already into DP without a doubt, this is pushing it a bit further. though of course things won't get out of hand, she'd only be pushed as far as she wanted, and take on as many men as she wanted. So used as a cum bucket? Only if she wanted it. This has nothing to do with the random degradation of a girl at a frat party, it's a type of swinger lifestyle desire.

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by IAmUnholy
i dont think my point was really conveyed. this isn't like some pornographic film where we'd drag in a bunch of strangers n' have em use her holes until orgasm. this would be kind of a mutual fantasy of ours. shes already into DP without a doubt, this is pushing it a bit further. though of course things won't get out of hand, she'd only be pushed as far as she wanted, and take on as many men as she wanted. So used as a cum bucket? Only if she wanted it. This has nothing to do with the random degradation of a girl at a frat party, it's a type of swinger lifestyle desire.

That may be...but you asked for our opinions and we gave them to you...mine still stands. It's not for me...not even close. If it's for you two and the other parties involved all the more power to you...just be safe about it.

 

[Beniger]

I have to agree with the women

While there is some part of my male brain that thinks -- fantasizes -- about GBs, I think if I were ever to get involved in one, I would be over my head thinking about the degrading factor.

Having said that I love consensual hot 3 somes, where there's both interaction among the men (MMF) as well as women (FFM).

 

[Dirty_Angel26]

I will have to agree with most everyone else. The fantasy sounds great but the reality is down right scary.

 

[lovechild27]

i dont think my point was really conveyed. this isn't like some pornographic film where we'd drag in a bunch of strangers n' have em use her holes until orgasm. this would be kind of a mutual fantasy of ours. shes already into DP without a doubt, this is pushing it a bit further. though of course things won't get out of hand, she'd only be pushed as far as she wanted, and take on as many men as she wanted. So used as a cum bucket? Only if she wanted it. This has nothing to do with the random degradation of a girl at a frat party, it's a type of swinger lifestyle desire.

I dont think it really matters who it is, what the situation is or what I am into...I would still find this degrading. We all gave you our opinions, like you asked for. Like many others who come here looking for advice, it seems to me you already have your mind made up about it. Does it really matter what we think? Go for it if its your cup of tea...but it seems to me its not something many of us here would be up for.

 

[peachykeen]

No thanks. Like many others have said already, great fantasy fodder, but not what I want in my real life. Remember, fantasies have no consequences - but actions always do.

 

[potatohead]

I've been in a few threesomes before, both MMF and FFM and really prefer the MMF. I also took part in a foursome with another couple but there wasn't any swapping, just some touching and fondling. For me it's all about pleasing the women 1st and getting my rocks off is second.

For the women, in your mind, how many men can you be with before it turns into a gangbang?

 

[osusmitty]

A mans perspective

Hi there I have done MMF and FFM and MMFF as well as a 10 person mixed orgy. I think it boils down to do you like group sex and if so what mix if any do you care for. I myself don't have any hang up with what sex...group sex can be fun if you are in the right mind set and have a positive attitude about it. The girl that I did the MMF with was shy and sexually conservative...but she really enjoyed the DP and all the attention. Maybe a foursome with some MMF attention would be a good start.

 

[Bobmi357]

The closest I have ever come to such a situation occurred during my high school senior ski trip. A group of us got a cabin instead of being housed at the lodge, so in effect, we had no supervision. The beer flowed like water, and the girls floated in and out of our cabin because of all the free beer.

One girl had had too much to drink and started stripping. The boys started lining up for her. Being the designated lookout that evening I wasn't even tipsy and knew what was about to take place was wrong. So I grabbed a bucket of frigid ice water from the porch and threw it on the girl. She sobered up real quick after that. I sent her back to her cabin and told my friends that they might not like it, but they certainly would appreciate not going to jail for it, or having to marry her because none of them had condoms.

I suppose if your partner wanted to participate in the gang bang, then its ok, but its not for me, nor would I encourage anyone to try it. You don't know people's entire sexual histories, you don't know if someone is a psycho or not, and by the time you do learn the facts, it could be too late. And yes, I do believe its demeaning and degrading, to both the woman, and to the act of making love. But thats another thread.

 

[Missingmeds]

I tend to agree with Bobmi on this one. Not matter what a male might thing, it is degrading to a woman. It is dangerous to all involved and anyone that they might become involved with afterward.

2 men is enough for me. I don't want more than that and that is on very rare occasions.

Not to mention if you look at the ads here for them, they start well but end up not happening because women think it over and decide against it. If you really want to know what women think about GB's I would suggest going over to the personal board and pming some of the women that have backed out of them why they backed out.

 

[Sh0t]

I'm going to have to have a positive confession here. My wife and I have had threesomes(mmf/ffm) andwhat would equate to about mmmmmF and a a few more with more fs and myself. My wife is a very shy woman socially and doesn't talk much, but she is very very sexual and really gets into almost everything I've brought up or we've talked about.

The mmmmmf was basically 3 couples, 2 pairs of bi-guys, her and myself. It was really a ploy to try and expose me as bi-gay(I'm not, but it's a huge fantasy of hers ) but the end result was rather nice. It was a gangbang in every shape of the word, 4 men and myself basically had at my wife(just dating at the time) and it included filling all holes, double penetration AND dual penetration as well. It was hot and steamy but it was kind of an experiment session as well. It didn't feel ackward or anything emotionally for me or her.
She kind of took me on first and I didn't last too long so for a huge part of the event I was "tired" and watching them have at her. She said she felted a bit degraded but not in a bad way, more in a roleplay kind of way. I whispered and asked her if she would let us all cum on her face(sorry to be so vulgar) and she kind of gave me a sly inquisitive smirk that said "So, you have a little fetish about this do you?(cuckolding)" From then on that was kind of out of the bag between us and it's made our relationship and current marriage very exciting. We haven't had any other male partners since getting married (only since August ) and but she has commented on "giving me what I ask for" but she basically holds it over my head as a bargaining chip to see her fantasy, which is me with guys.

So I can't say everybody's experience will be as positive but I know for me, that was a turning point in my relationship with this woman. SHe was sexually uninhibited yet was restrained socially that I knew she would only get into that kind of behavior if it involved both of us and it was a mutual fantasy. She asked if it made her look like a slut and I had to honestly reply it did, which was a turn on for both of us.

So like anything, it depends on the person and the situation I suppose.

 

[Lady Tango]

No desire to be a cum bucket for a bunch of men who want to use me.

Just about sums up my point of view as well.

 

[bigjohn0662]

I wouldn't ever do it, but I think it might be fun.

If I was a girl, I'd think it'd be fun to have one in the anus, one in the vagina, and one in the mouth, or multiple in each, but maybe not.