Gangbangs from a woman's perspective

[Sailorvenes]

I was just wondering what the female Lit users think of gangbangs. Have you been in one (do you want to be in one), how does it feel, and what is the perfect amount of guys? Does it feel good just to be thrown around and used for countless guys pleasure. Also feel free to post any personal gangbang stories.

 

[LastLostIdols]

Hmm, makes me wonder if there are many gangbang stories from the woman's perspective on here. Likely there are hundreds but I've never thought about it before.

 

[magicalmoments]

As a male who has been fortunate enough to have participated in two gang-bangs, with 2 separate women, I'd love to read how women have reacted to their encounters. However, I've seen threads like this before and even in a liberated and safe community/environment like Lit I've found that women are reluctant to admit to a fantasy about being subject of a gang-bang let alone recount their experience of actually participating in one.
Hopefully this time a few more will be encouraged to open up, so to speak.

 

[Islander55]

As a male who has been fortunate enough to have participated in two gang-bangs, with 2 separate women, I'd love to read how women have reacted to their encounters. However, I've seen threads like this before and even in a liberated and safe community/environment like Lit I've found that women are reluctant to admit to a fantasy about being subject of a gang-bang let alone recount their experience of actually participating in one.
Hopefully this time a few more will be encouraged to open up, so to speak.

I have talked with several women on here who enjoy gangbangs and admit it. I have never done a real gangbang but I have done DP and have had sex with 3 or 4 men over the course of an evening. I would not be adverse to trying some more things but with a smaller group. I wol=uld try DP with some sucking also or take on 3 or 4 guys one after the other. I do not think I could handle more that 4 but I guess you never know until you try.

 

[shenandoah11]

The first time it's a bit overwhelming until you get into it. At least that was my experience. I wasn't expecting it so I didn't quite know what to think. Subsequent gb's were a lot easier to get into quicker. As long as the woman controls how gentle or rough it goes and the guys respect anything she says during then it can be one of the most amazing things.

I have not been to a gb... but I have gone to sex parties and they are so much fun... I love fucking a woman while other people are watching us.. and I had few MFM... love fucking a woman while her husband watch and then join.

 

[KaitlynW1993]

A females perspective. Depends on the gangbang. depends on the guys, the amount of guys. what type of gangbang etc.

Most gangbangs are good. When a guy is up my ass and another is inside my pussy and they will sync nicely, its mind blowing.

Out of the times I have done GBs maybe 10% I would say was was not fun. Going from my experience and other girls I know who also have done them, we all come to the same conclusion that lacking experience of the lifestyle seems to lead us to poor choices. Like going to a GB expecting the men there to give me respect. To not be abusive and mean. But I don't want a few bad times bring it down. Over all women need to listen to other experienced girls who have done it. Go with other girls and do it with trusted people you know so it doesn't turn into a gang rape.

For me it is about fulfilling a basic feminine purpose to highest degree. It makes me feel absolutely feminine to being filled by a big group of men, helpless to their erotic and physical desires. The reality we girls come to is when guys fuck us we not a person. we are an object, a fucktoy, a set of tits and soft holes for them to use. What you want is not important. Your comfort is not important. Making his cock hard is, and so is the pleasure and enjoyment derived from using him. That’s our raison d’être (and if you don’t know what that means Google it).
For women that enjoy being an object of desire, its arousing and validating have men all wanting to enjoy you as a woman. Its very erotic.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

IMO (as a man), Gangbangs are primarily the subject of male fantasy porn. Of course, I'm sure that gangbangs also happen in real life, but mostly as part of an actual gang rape and not an arranged sexual experience, I firmly believe that most women are only interested in one-on-one sexual experiences, or maybe I just don't know women as well as I think I do.

That said, I imagine that an arranged and mutually consented to gangbang could be satisfying to the right woman. As Kaitlyn said, the men there need to respect the woman and not succumb to the mob mentality that can so easily develop when a bunch of super testosterone charged guys are waiting their turn to fuck the all but helpless recipient of the "bang".

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I would expect that she would, at the very least, want another girl or girls there for moral support AND I would think a massive, clothed, muscled male bouncer to make sure that the guys don't get too crazy.

The male participants need to understand that the "bangee" is probably mostly there as a gift to fulfill their sexual fetish fantasies.

Notwithstanding all of the above, I too would love to participate in a gangbang with a lovely willing lady. I have my sexual fantasies too.

 

[jlightfoot75]

A females perspective. Depends on the gangbang. depends on the guys, the amount of guys. what type of gangbang etc.

Most gangbangs are good. When a guy is up my ass and another is inside my pussy and they will sync nicely, its mind blowing.

Out of the times I have done GBs maybe 10% I would say was was not fun. Going from my experience and other girls I know who also have done them, we all come to the same conclusion that lacking experience of the lifestyle seems to lead us to poor choices. Like going to a GB expecting the men there to give me respect. To not be abusive and mean. But I don't want a few bad times bring it down. Over all women need to listen to other experienced girls who have done it. Go with other girls and do it with trusted people you know so it doesn't turn into a gang rape.

For me it is about fulfilling a basic feminine purpose to highest degree. It makes me feel absolutely feminine to being filled by a big group of men, helpless to their erotic and physical desires. The reality we girls come to is when guys fuck us we not a person. we are an object, a fucktoy, a set of tits and soft holes for them to use. What you want is not important. Your comfort is not important. Making his cock hard is, and so is the pleasure and enjoyment derived from using him. That’s our raison d’être (and if you don’t know what that means Google it).
For women that enjoy being an object of desire, its arousing and validating have men all wanting to enjoy you as a woman. Its very erotic.

Thank you for this. As someone who has participated in a lot of gangbangs (as a man) I have only really had meaningful conversations with one of the women after the fact. She is a friend and her sentiments are very similar to you own at least as I understand them. It certainly isn't an experience for everyone, but for those ladies that enjoy it we love and appreciate everything you do!

 

[IsabellaSantiago]

For women that enjoy being an object of desire, its arousing and validating have men all wanting to enjoy you as a woman. Its very erotic.

This sums it up so perfectly. I do enjoy being the centre of attention but there's something very intoxicating about having the attentions of several hands. And other appendages.

 

[policywank]

I was just wondering what the female Lit users think of gangbangs. Have you been in one (do you want to be in one), how does it feel, and what is the perfect amount of guys? Does it feel good just to be thrown around and used for countless guys pleasure. Also feel free to post any personal gangbang stories.

Why do guys tend to think of a gang bang in terms like "be thrown around and used for countless guys pleasure?" I have been in gang bangs, but not with guys who want to think like that. Not to read too much into it but those words imply the porn stereotype wherein the woman's pleasure is disregarded except to the extent that she supposedly somehow gets off on being mistreated and disrespected.

That sort of masochism is more closely aligned with BDSM. And here is a little hint: BDSM scenarios involve partners with whom one has built up trust and respect, not self-serving assholes. The fact that a bottom enjoys being spanked should not be confused with the premise that he/she is ok with random people just beating the shit out of them. Likewise a person who enjoys being submissive to a trusted Dom doesn't actually want to be enslaved. And I do enjoy servicing several men - men who care about my pleasure and don't disrespect me for enjoying the experience, not random assholes who care nothing for me.

 

[JamieGirl0519]

I have never had a gangbang. I kinda like the idea, I mean, feeling cock in my mouth, my pussy, (not into ass), hands and/or mouths on my breasts, neck, kissing, all at once. I know I like WATCHING gangbangs...

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

I’ve never been in a gang bang, but that didn’t stop me writing a story about one!

It’s an idealized fantasy of course. The boys are all cute and respectful, with just a hint of unchecked male aggression.

 

[Badxxxwifey]

Love the feeling of being overwhelmed by that many men
And I love the attention XD

 

[latinahotwife]

Planned or unplanned it's fun. I personally prefer a "train" type situation.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

A females perspective. Depends on the gangbang. depends on the guys, the amount of guys. what type of gangbang etc.

Most gangbangs are good. When a guy is up my ass and another is inside my pussy and they will sync nicely, its mind blowing.

Out of the times I have done GBs maybe 10% I would say was was not fun. Going from my experience and other girls I know who also have done them, we all come to the same conclusion that lacking experience of the lifestyle seems to lead us to poor choices. Like going to a GB expecting the men there to give me respect. To not be abusive and mean. But I don't want a few bad times bring it down. Over all women need to listen to other experienced girls who have done it. Go with other girls and do it with trusted people you know so it doesn't turn into a gang rape.

For me it is about fulfilling a basic feminine purpose to highest degree. It makes me feel absolutely feminine to being filled by a big group of men, helpless to their erotic and physical desires. The reality we girls come to is when guys fuck us we not a person. we are an object, a fucktoy, a set of tits and soft holes for them to use. What you want is not important. Your comfort is not important. Making his cock hard is, and so is the pleasure and enjoyment derived from using him. That’s our raison d’être (and if you don’t know what that means Google it).
For women that enjoy being an object of desire, its arousing and validating have men all wanting to enjoy you as a woman. Its very erotic.

All of this. It's a sliding scale I think; the more men, the less respect and the more degrading.

I got involved in the party scene last year and experienced several. For me the maximum optimum number is 5 guys, any more than that and you just become meat. As Kaitlyn said, a set of tits and soft holes to use. My head has to be in a specific place for that to work for me but when it is, and it does, it's uniquely amazing.

 

[sexy_freya02]

a gangbang of two men and two women is the best gives you all the best feeling and vibes

 

[philly7233]

IMO (as a man), Gangbangs are primarily the subject of male fantasy porn. Of course, I'm sure that gangbangs also happen in real life, but mostly as part of an actual gang rape and not an arranged sexual experience, I firmly believe that most women are only interested in one-on-one sexual experiences, or maybe I just don't know women as well as I think I do.

That said, I imagine that an arranged and mutually consented to gangbang could be satisfying to the right woman. As Kaitlyn said, the men there need to respect the woman and not succumb to the mob mentality that can so easily develop when a bunch of super testosterone charged guys are waiting their turn to fuck the all but helpless recipient of the "bang".

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I would expect that she would, at the very least, want another girl or girls there for moral support AND I would think a massive, clothed, muscled male bouncer to make sure that the guys don't get too crazy.

The male participants need to understand that the "bangee" is probably mostly there as a gift to fulfill their sexual fetish fantasies.

Notwithstanding all of the above, I too would love to participate in a gangbang with a lovely willing lady. I have my sexual fantasies too.

Curious in PA too! Great response

 

[whatahoot]

I absolutely love being the center of attention in a gangbang! I enjoy both dynamics depending on my mood. I enjoy smaller gangbangs where there is still some level of connection and acknowledgment of everyone, but I also enjoy the feeling of being used and degraded by a much larger group. Both are a lot of fun and fulfilling in their own ways. If I absolutely had to specify the number of men though, I agree with Lucy that five is the perfect amount.

 

[UtilityCurve]

I’ve never been in a gang bang, but that didn’t stop me writing a story about one!

It’s an idealized fantasy of course. The boys are all cute and respectful, with just a hint of unchecked male aggression.

In pillow talking about sex, I had settled on the idea that the sweet spot for girls/women was "taking him out of his rational mind (completely) and wonderment and pleasure at providing him with the emotional and physical release of orgasm."

One GF referred to this (and further subdivided it into enjoyable, satisfying and unenjoyable, disgusting forms) as "receptacle sex."

It's nothing most men would want as a steady diet, but there IS a special place in our lust for a woman offering herself for our release and nothing more.

 

[Bossybats]

I’ve never been in a gang bang, but that didn’t stop me writing a story about one!

It’s an idealized fantasy of course. The boys are all cute and respectful, with just a hint of unchecked male aggression.

And a great story it is.

 

[bjlatx]

A females perspective. Depends on the gangbang. depends on the guys, the amount of guys. what type of gangbang etc.

Most gangbangs are good. When a guy is up my ass and another is inside my pussy and they will sync nicely, its mind blowing.

Out of the times I have done GBs maybe 10% I would say was was not fun. Going from my experience and other girls I know who also have done them, we all come to the same conclusion that lacking experience of the lifestyle seems to lead us to poor choices. Like going to a GB expecting the men there to give me respect. To not be abusive and mean. But I don't want a few bad times bring it down. Over all women need to listen to other experienced girls who have done it. Go with other girls and do it with trusted people you know so it doesn't turn into a gang rape.

For me it is about fulfilling a basic feminine purpose to highest degree. It makes me feel absolutely feminine to being filled by a big group of men, helpless to their erotic and physical desires. The reality we girls come to is when guys fuck us we not a person. we are an object, a fucktoy, a set of tits and soft holes for them to use. What you want is not important. Your comfort is not important. Making his cock hard is, and so is the pleasure and enjoyment derived from using him. That’s our raison d’être (and if you don’t know what that means Google it).
For women that enjoy being an object of desire, its arousing and validating have men all wanting to enjoy you as a woman. Its very erotic.

What is the most men you’ve had during a gang bang? Did they all use protection or finish in/on you?

This is my wife and I’s biggest fantasy right now. She’s never even had a 3some, so I’m not sure it will ever happen. I can’t think of anything hotter than watching her take on 5 hung guys and having all holes filled!

 

[Veeweewee]

A females perspective. Depends on the gangbang. depends on the guys, the amount of guys. what type of gangbang etc.

Most gangbangs are good. When a guy is up my ass and another is inside my pussy and they will sync nicely, its mind blowing.

Out of the times I have done GBs maybe 10% I would say was was not fun. Going from my experience and other girls I know who also have done them, we all come to the same conclusion that lacking experience of the lifestyle seems to lead us to poor choices. Like going to a GB expecting the men there to give me respect. To not be abusive and mean. But I don't want a few bad times bring it down. Over all women need to listen to other experienced girls who have done it. Go with other girls and do it with trusted people you know so it doesn't turn into a gang rape.

For me it is about fulfilling a basic feminine purpose to highest degree. It makes me feel absolutely feminine to being filled by a big group of men, helpless to their erotic and physical desires. The reality we girls come to is when guys fuck us we not a person. we are an object, a fucktoy, a set of tits and soft holes for them to use. What you want is not important. Your comfort is not important. Making his cock hard is, and so is the pleasure and enjoyment derived from using him. That’s our raison d’être (and if you don’t know what that means Google it).
For women that enjoy being an object of desire, its arousing and validating have men all wanting to enjoy you as a woman. Its very erotic.

This is pretty spot on, and going on from @policywank 's post too, you can train the guys to have more regard for you. Hubby is pretty good at briefing the guys about how I want it to go down and keeping them under control.

 

[Darkrhytm]

Much better w those w experience and knowing how to be.

 

[Sugarbombs]

I was just wondering what the female Lit users think of gangbangs. Have you been in one (do you want to be in one), how does it feel, and what is the perfect amount of guys? Does it feel good just to be thrown around and used for countless guys pleasure. Also feel free to post any personal gangbang stories.

Chaos. I had the opportunity to be the center of attention of five men one time and chaos is the best way to describe it. I am not saying it was bad, it was very enjoyable. I did my best to focus on who was in my mouth and hands and everything below the waist was free reign LOL. I was moved around and positioned as the men saw fit between switching positions and holes but with everything going on all at once it was a lot.

 

[bjlatx]

Chaos. I had the opportunity to be the center of attention of five men one time and chaos is the best way to describe it. I am not saying it was bad, it was very enjoyable. I did my best to focus on who was in my mouth and hands and everything below the waist was free rein LOL. I was moved around and positioned as the men saw fit between switching positions and holes but with everything going on all at once it was a lot.

That’s fantastic! Would you do it again?