Games on bed?

[speed111]

Hi,

My gf had sex with me 4 the first time, she seems enjoying it but wants me to teach her everything!
Any ideas on various "games", tips etc that we can do while spending a lot of hours at bed?
I have some sexual experience before, but haven't done anything "special" apart from eating out, having her give me a bj.
She still doesen;t know what she likes most, i just need some ideas!
Thanx

 

[darkestblu85]

I would try a control play. It does not have to be S&M, but you can take turns telling the other what to do or simply do everything you can to please the other through stimulation and by doing their bidding. Play truth or dare. Try as many new positions as possible. Have heavy make out sessions in different places all over the house. Eat naked or in bed. Teas each other without touching to get everything hot and bothered, strip teases and talking dirty from opposite sides of the bed in erotic poses. Use ice randomly followed by warm kisses. Wash each other in the shower after you have gotten all dirty. Hide and seek, chase, or a wrestling match naked is fun.

Also, since she is not experienced she may not know where her favorite spots are to be kissed or caressed. I recently found that the back of my shoulder to the base of the back of my neck is my spot and I'm not new to it all. You could give erotic body massages and find those hot spots. You can even use a blindfold to heighten the stimulation. There is a lot you can discover about yourself and your partner if you have the time and attention.

Even though she has not acted on it, i guaranty that she has had her fantasies and ideas so ask her about them. Just have fun and let your imaginations run wild.

 

[infinity706]

Well, thats' certainly open ended. I'll try not to write an essay, though.

Lets see, you could always try the old favorite of whipped cream. It works even better with some chocolate sauce, too. You could even make chocolate sundaes on each other. Jellies, Jams, honey, fruit juice, and even oil can be good.
You could try some nice oils with that massage. They even come in nice flavors: strawberry, banana, kiwi, peach, etc. You could even go all around her body with your mouth.
A vibrator could be fun. There's hundreds of kinds from bullets, to g-spot, to rabbits, butterfly, pocket rockets,... They come in all sorts of textures, too. You can get glass, rubber, plastic, acrylic, or metal. They come in various speeds, sizes, shapes, colors, and features, too.
You could try some anal play if you feel up to it. Just go slowly and gently at first. A single finger (or tongue if you're brave) is good to start with. Then, you can move up to butt plugs, flared dildos/vibes or even your cock after a while. Just remember that for penetration, you need lots and lots of lube. You can get generic brands for something like $2 a tube, though.
You could even try tit fucking her. Of course, if you're planning to get off with it, you should probably make sure she's comfortable with cum on her chest/neck/face.
You could try fingering. Chances are, you're probably better with your hands than anything else. Try them on her pussy and see how that goes.
You could try covering each other in oil. You'll need to put down a plastic cover, but you'll probably have a lot of fun slipping and sliding around.
You could try a strap on. Plenty of women like to return the favor and fuck guys, too.
You might want to try handcuffs. Being bound and at your partner's mercy can really get some people excited. Once you get more experienced, you can try some soft ropes, too. A spreader bar can be fun, too if you're adventurous. It keeps your arms and legs both restrained, opening you up for whatever sexy things might happen.
Like was mentioned above, a blindfold can be useful. That forces you to rely on your other senses. You can even use earplugs, too. Being deprived of sight and hearing can really alter your experience.
Spanking might also be something to try. You can use your hand at first and possibly progress up to other objects, too. Different things can produce different sensations. You don't have to hit hard, though. Even light taps can be exciting. You could even try it on her cunt. Now, you can't hit it hard, but it's sensitive enough that you wouldn't need to anyway. A well done pussy spanking can very well get her off, though.
You could try a cock ring. It might even help your confidence since it keeps you hard longer and even increases thickness a little bit.
Some sexy undies might work, too. You could shop for some together or it could be a surprise.
A sex swing might be fun, too. That way, you can try positions and angles that would be difficult to do without one. Even without one, you could try tons of different positions. The arm of the couch might produce a nice angle. That countertop could be just the right height. The floor could even be nice.
Nipple clamps might be nice, too. They work well on both men and women. They can also go from barely on, to light pinching, to even leaving marks depending on how intense you want them to be.
You could try different locations. Rent a hotel room. Try the back seat of the car. Out in the woods could be fun. Even the shower could be a nice change. You can even try out different smelling soaps and shampoos.
A detachable shower head could become a nice toy. It can go from a light spray all the way up to shooting mist in every direction. You could also experiment with the temperature.

Ok, maybe that's enough for now. Have fun.

 

[equestrienne]

holy shit infinity, that's more than an essay, that's a dissertation!
I really enjoyed reading it, however!
I'd like to add to the previous suggestions, dressing up, either in lingerie or costumes, that might start some role playing.
Music plays a big part in my lovemaking, too, the right music can envoke a mood.
I want to see what else infinity has to add!

 

[infinity706]

holy shit infinity, that's more than an essay, that's a dissertation!
I really enjoyed reading it, however!
I'd like to add to the previous suggestions, dressing up, either in lingerie or costumes, that might start some role playing.
Music plays a big part in my lovemaking, too, the right music can envoke a mood.
I want to see what else infinity has to add!

It's just too bad there isn't a graduate program in sexuality around here or I could have been a sex therapist...
Since you asked, though:
You could try watersports. I know it's not for everyone, but pissing is actually safer from a health prospective than kissing, so if it seems interesting, it might be worth a try.
Since it hasn't been mentioned, porn might be worth a try, too. You can get all kinds of kinky ideas from watching people fuck. Amateur is probably even better since it's not scripted and you can see what people really do. It's also a great way to see what you're into without having to worry about possible consequences. You can even pop one in and mimic the pornstars if you're having trouble with creative roleplaying. Besides, it's a great way to get excited.
You could even take that strapon from earlier and use it for double penetration if you have one that allows for that. It's a great way for a woman to get the experience without any of the risks that come from multiple partners.
There's some nice strapon dildos that don't go in traditional places, too. You could get a chest harness strapon for some extreme closeup action. Some of them can also double as a standard strapon, too. Just run two of the straps between your legs for a "crotchless" fun toy.
Anal beads are another consideration. Some people even claim pulling them out at the right moment can really intensify an orgasm. They just might be nice in a woman's pussy, too... Just make sure you don't use the same ones for both or clean them in between.
For those size lovers out there, you can get inflatable toys to fit the exact size you want. They come in both dildos and butt plugs. You might just be amazed at exactly how much you can handle once it's inside.
If you're thinking anal or even for extended sessions, lube is a must. Just like the massage oils, they come in a variety of flavors. They can be a lot of fun and a great way to initiate people that are a little hesitant to try oral.
For those times when a woman isn't desiring penetration, she doesn't have to limit herself to handjobs and tit fucking if she wants to get a guy off. There's plenty of "male toys" out there that she can use on him from fleshlights to pocket pussies to blowjob replicators. Sure, they'll never match up to the real thing, but they can still be a nice additon.
Cock pumps can be a useful toy for those guys that need a little extra help and can even be used with a cock ring. They also feel nice and can be used to play with a guy that has no problems getting hard, too. It's pretty amazing how big a guy's cock can look inside that tube. You do have to be careful with them, though, and not go past the point of comfort. You don't want to rupture any blood vessels.
Sex dice might also do the trick. They're the perfect recipe for a truly random fuck session.
There are also many sexy games out there that can lead to learning some of your partner's likes that they may be hesitant to talk about otherwise. Some of them, too, are more like the sex dice and explicitly lead to fucking each other's brains out.
If you're looking for a personalized toy, there are even kits out there for creating a dildo/vibe to replicate a guy's own dick. Yeah, it gives a new meaning to "Go fuck yourself" and it also can lead to plenty of extra practice should the real thing be unavailable at the moment.
Of course, you don't necessarily have to buy anything at all. That candle on the dining room table? I wonder how that would feel... That hairbrush on the dresser? It can work well for tickling, stroking, or even spanking. Many things you already have can be turned into "pervertables" (thanks Ms Erica for the dirty new term )

 

[infinity706]

Here it all is in one for easy access when this question gets asked again.


Lets see, you could always try the old favorite of whipped cream. It works even better with some chocolate sauce, too. You could even make chocolate sundaes on each other. Jellies, Jams, honey, fruit juice, and even oil can be good.
You could try some nice oils with that massage. They even come in nice flavors: strawberry, banana, kiwi, peach, etc. You could even go all around her body with your mouth.
A vibrator could be fun. There's hundreds of kinds from bullets, to g-spot, to rabbits, butterfly, pocket rockets,... They come in all sorts of textures, too. You can get glass, rubber, plastic, acrylic, or metal. They come in various speeds, sizes, shapes, colors, and features, too.
You could try some anal play if you feel up to it. Just go slowly and gently at first. A single finger (or tongue if you're brave) is good to start with. Then, you can move up to butt plugs, flared dildos/vibes or even your cock after a while. Just remember that for penetration, you need lots and lots of lube. You can get generic brands for something like $2 a tube, though.
You could even try tit fucking her. Of course, if you're planning to get off with it, you should probably make sure she's comfortable with cum on her chest/neck/face.
You could try fingering. Chances are, you're probably better with your hands than anything else. Try them on her pussy and see how that goes.
You could try covering each other in oil. You'll need to put down a plastic cover, but you'll probably have a lot of fun slipping and sliding around.
You could try a strap on. Plenty of women like to return the favor and fuck guys, too.
You might want to try handcuffs. Being bound and at your partner's mercy can really get some people excited. Once you get more experienced, you can try some soft ropes, too. A spreader bar can be fun, too if you're adventurous. It keeps your arms and legs both restrained, opening you up for whatever sexy things might happen.
Like was mentioned above, a blindfold can be useful. That forces you to rely on your other senses. You can even use earplugs, too. Being deprived of sight and hearing can really alter your experience.
Spanking might also be something to try. You can use your hand at first and possibly progress up to other objects, too. Different things can produce different sensations. You don't have to hit hard, though. Even light taps can be exciting. You could even try it on her cunt. Now, you can't hit it hard, but it's sensitive enough that you wouldn't need to anyway. A well done pussy spanking can very well get her off, though.
You could try a cock ring. It might even help your confidence since it keeps you hard longer and even increases thickness a little bit.
Some sexy undies might work, too. You could shop for some together or it could be a surprise.
A sex swing might be fun, too. That way, you can try positions and angles that would be difficult to do without one. Even without one, you could try tons of different positions. The arm of the couch might produce a nice angle. That countertop could be just the right height. The floor could even be nice.
Nipple clamps might be nice, too. They work well on both men and women. They can also go from barely on, to light pinching, to even leaving marks depending on how intense you want them to be.
You could try different locations. Rent a hotel room. Try the back seat of the car. Out in the woods could be fun. Even the shower could be a nice change. You can even try out different smelling soaps and shampoos.
A detachable shower head could become a nice toy. It can go from a light spray all the way up to shooting mist in every direction. You could also experiment with the temperature.
You could try watersports. I know it's not for everyone, but pissing is actually safer from a health prospective than kissing, so if it seems interesting, it might be worth a try.
Since it hasn't been mentioned, porn might be worth a try, too. You can get all kinds of kinky ideas from watching people fuck. Amateur is probably even better since it's not scripted and you can see what people really do. It's also a great way to see what you're into without having to worry about possible consequences. You can even pop one in and mimic the pornstars if you're having trouble with creative roleplaying. Besides, it's a great way to get excited.
You could even take that strapon from earlier and use it for double penetration if you have one that allows for that. It's a great way for a woman to get the experience without any of the risks that come from multiple partners.
There's some nice strapon dildos that don't go in traditional places, too. You could get a chest harness strapon for some extreme closeup action. Some of them can also double as a standard strapon, too. Just run two of the straps between your legs for a "crotchless" fun toy.
Anal beads are another consideration. Some people even claim pulling them out at the right moment can really intensify an orgasm. They just might be nice in a woman's pussy, too... Just make sure you don't use the same ones for both or clean them in between.
For those size lovers out there, you can get inflatable toys to fit the exact size you want. They come in both dildos and butt plugs. You might just be amazed at exactly how much you can handle once it's inside.
If you're thinking anal or even for extended sessions, lube is a must. Just like the massage oils, they come in a variety of flavors. They can be a lot of fun and a great way to initiate people that are a little hesitant to try oral.
For those times when a woman isn't desiring penetration, she doesn't have to limit herself to handjobs and tit fucking if she wants to get a guy off. There's plenty of "male toys" out there that she can use on him from fleshlights to pocket pussies to blowjob replicators. Sure, they'll never match up to the real thing, but they can still be a nice additon.
Cock pumps can be a useful toy for those guys that need a little extra help and can even be used with a cock ring. They also feel nice and can be used to play with a guy that has no problems getting hard, too. It's pretty amazing how big a guy's cock can look inside that tube. You do have to be careful with them, though, and not go past the point of comfort. You don't want to rupture any blood vessels.
Sex dice might also do the trick. They're the perfect recipe for a truly random fuck session.
There are also many sexy games out there that can lead to learning some of your partner's likes that they may be hesitant to talk about otherwise. Some of them, too, are more like the sex dice and explicitly lead to fucking each other's brains out.
If you're looking for a personalized toy, there are even kits out there for creating a dildo/vibe to replicate a guy's own dick. Yeah, it gives a new meaning to "Go fuck yourself" and it also can lead to plenty of extra practice should the real thing be unavailable at the moment.
Of course, you don't necessarily have to buy anything at all. That candle on the dining room table? I wonder how that would feel... That hairbrush on the dresser? It can work well for tickling, stroking, or even spanking. Many things you already have can be turned into "pervertables" (thanks Ms Erica for the dirty new term )

Holy Shit!!! I just formatted it (typed, double spaced, 12 point font): 4.5 pages and I barely scratched the surface of anything.

 

[coastal-boy]

why not simply bring in the mind? You want us to tell you what to do...but it is just stuff. Engage her mind and you will have no problems passing hours.

 

[equestrienne]

thanks infinity!!! you rock!!!

 

[speed111]

Guys you are amazing! Of course i can use my and her imagination, but u gave me very adventurous ideas!!!