pallandrome
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- Oct 10, 2003
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Hi! I'm looking for a bit of a perfect fit situation here, but I figured I might as well post and hope for the best. I'm married to a wonderful woman, but I also happen to be bi. She knows, and she's supportive. Recently we've discussed me getting into an occasional FWB situation with another guy so I can express the gay side of my sexuality with someone from time to time.
Here's what we're looking for.
1. Friends with Benefits. Not a relationship, just someone who's chill, we can be friends with, who might occasionally also enjoy a roll in the hay.
2. Drug and Disease free. I'm absolutely not looking to risk my health or my wife's. I'd want both of us to be able to show we haven't picked up any unfortunate diseases.
3. Age range between 30 and 50. I have more of a thing for slightly older guys, I think (It's been a while mind you) but I'm fairly flexible.
4. Single or at least in an open relationship. I get it, there is absolutely such a thing as a sexless marriage, and some guys want to fill their needs elsewhere. I just don't really want in on that drama. If you're married and hiding how you are meeting your needs from your wife, we'd rather not be involved.
Bisexuality is a plus! My wife has also had a lingering, nervous interest in being the filling in a guy sandwich. If you'd be down with playing with her as well, it'd be a possibility.
Being a geek is also a plus! Just saying. I'm a huge nerd.
Here's what we're looking for.
1. Friends with Benefits. Not a relationship, just someone who's chill, we can be friends with, who might occasionally also enjoy a roll in the hay.
2. Drug and Disease free. I'm absolutely not looking to risk my health or my wife's. I'd want both of us to be able to show we haven't picked up any unfortunate diseases.
3. Age range between 30 and 50. I have more of a thing for slightly older guys, I think (It's been a while mind you) but I'm fairly flexible.
4. Single or at least in an open relationship. I get it, there is absolutely such a thing as a sexless marriage, and some guys want to fill their needs elsewhere. I just don't really want in on that drama. If you're married and hiding how you are meeting your needs from your wife, we'd rather not be involved.
Bisexuality is a plus! My wife has also had a lingering, nervous interest in being the filling in a guy sandwich. If you'd be down with playing with her as well, it'd be a possibility.
Being a geek is also a plus! Just saying. I'm a huge nerd.