fucking lables and the symbiosis of being a lesbian with hetero tendancies

[vella_ms]

well, hello.
I posted a blog on myspace which I am still considering. I would like to know why...why is it that men back off the second you say you are interested in women?

maybe someone here can shed some light for me?

*my short blog*
Osculation and the power of the peck
Current mood: oral
Category: oral Blogging

Does it matter if you are a lezbean and like to kiss men? Why does a man assume that because a lezbean kisses him, she wants his penis? I guess I understand in a round about way.

HOWEVER

I here by declare a new orientation. I am calling it Polysnog.
Should you be of one orientation or the other or one of each, or none, you can now just declare yourself a Polysnog if you like to kiss...well, anyone.

Kissing is so natural and freeing. A flick of the tongue can make you squirm, moan, exhale, inhale, shiver or even find your bliss. A simple peck on the cheek can bring smiles for hours.

So, my point?

Just because someone is interested in snogging, kissing, pecking, bussing, frenching, or smacking should not label them one orientation or another based on the genders of the kissor/kissee.

Fuck labels. Or fuck fucking...just lemme kiss.

BTW, i keese you.
Always,
A pure polysnog

 

[cloudy]

well, hello.
I posted a blog on myspace which I am still considering. I would like to know why...why is it that men back off the second you say you are interested in women?

maybe someone here can shed some light for me?

*my short blog*
Osculation and the power of the peck
Current mood: oral
Category: oral Blogging

Does it matter if you are a lezbean and like to kiss men? Why does a man assume that because a lezbean kisses him, she wants his penis? I guess I understand in a round about way.

HOWEVER

I here by declare a new orientation. I am calling it Polysnog.
Should you be of one orientation or the other or one of each, or none, you can now just declare yourself a Polysnog if you like to kiss...well, anyone.

Kissing is so natural and freeing. A flick of the tongue can make you squirm, moan, exhale, inhale, shiver or even find your bliss. A simple peck on the cheek can bring smiles for hours.

So, my point?

Just because someone is interested in snogging, kissing, pecking, bussing, frenching, or smacking should not label them one orientation or another based on the genders of the kissor/kissee.

Fuck labels. Or fuck fucking...just lemme kiss.

BTW, i keese you.
Always,
A pure polysnog

I guess that makes me a polysnog.

I keese you back.

 

[vella_ms]

I guess that makes me a polysnog.

I keese you back.

polysnoggers of the world...UNITE!

and keese keese keese like youve never keesed before!

 

[Guest]

Keeses sound wonderful!

Girl kisses.

Girl kisses are yummy.

And I'm married to one with the dangly bits.

So I'm a polyfuck too, I guess.

 

[vella_ms]

Keeses sound wonderful!

Girl kisses.

Girl kisses are yummy.

And I'm married to one with the dangly bits.

So I'm a polyfuck too, I guess.

i honestly dont know if i am a polyfuck any more. i havent been with a man in over 8 years.
*blink*
time will tell.
welcome fellow polysnogger!

 

[Guest]

i honestly dont know if i am a polyfuck any more. i havent been with a man in over 8 years.
*blink*
time will tell.
welcome fellow polysnogger!

Polysnogger! That's what I meant.

 

[off2bed]

What happened to "bi"?

 

[Safe_Bet]

polysnoggers of the world...UNITE!

and keese keese keese like youve never keesed before!

Never! I am a good conservative "straight" lesbian and you will not corrupt me with your evil, dirty polysnogging! <insert pure as the drive snow smilie>

(besides guys have NO clue how to hump my thigh properly )

 

[vella_ms]

What happened to "bi"?

i dont know. what did happen to bi?

Never! I am a good conservative "straight" lesbian and you will not corrupt me with your evil, dirty polysnogging! <insert pure as the drive snow smilie>

(besides guys have NO clue how to hump my thigh properly )

ok, you have a point there. *sigh*
maybe im just confused. maybe im just open to experiencing everything. maybe

maybe...

 

[wafflemtl]

At last, something that fit me!

Bisous

 

[vella_ms]

At last, something that fit me!

Bisous

yehaw!

as people over here are so damn fond of saying.


well-cumed, my fellow polysnogger

 

[Safe_Bet]

i dont know. what did happen to bi?



ok, you have a point there. *sigh*
maybe im just confused. maybe im just open to experiencing everything. maybe

maybe...

Mebe if you just limited it to "platonic" polysnogging? You know, kinda like "civil union" polysnogging instead of honest to god "marriage level" polysnogging. I mean I'd be okay saying "Some of my best friends are polysnoggers!"

 

[sr71plt]

well, hello.
I posted a blog on myspace which I am still considering. I would like to know why...why is it that men back off the second you say you are interested in women?

maybe someone here can shed some light for me?

*my short blog*
Osculation and the power of the peck
Current mood: oral
Category: oral Blogging

Does it matter if you are a lezbean and like to kiss men? Why does a man assume that because a lezbean kisses him, she wants his penis? I guess I understand in a round about way.

HOWEVER

I here by declare a new orientation. I am calling it Polysnog.
Should you be of one orientation or the other or one of each, or none, you can now just declare yourself a Polysnog if you like to kiss...well, anyone.

Kissing is so natural and freeing. A flick of the tongue can make you squirm, moan, exhale, inhale, shiver or even find your bliss. A simple peck on the cheek can bring smiles for hours.

So, my point?

Just because someone is interested in snogging, kissing, pecking, bussing, frenching, or smacking should not label them one orientation or another based on the genders of the kissor/kissee.

Fuck labels. Or fuck fucking...just lemme kiss.

BTW, i keese you.
Always,
A pure polysnog

For most men, it's emasculating, I think. They want all of your interest to be centered on a cock--theirs. They feel castrated if that doesn't seem to be the case.

Next question?

 

[Liar]

I'm a Polly snogger.

Now I just need to find me a Polly.

 

[vella_ms]

For most men, it's emasculating, I think. They want all of your interest to be centered on a cock--theirs. They feel castrated if that doesn't seem to be the case.

Next question?

thats a pretty damn sad commentary. i hate it.

I'm a Polly snogger.

Now I just need to find me a Polly.

birds?
look now, mr. man...no bestiality in this here thread!

btw, i've missed you

 

[vella_ms]

Mebe if you just limited it to "platonic" polysnogging? You know, kinda like "civil union" polysnogging instead of honest to god "marriage level" polysnogging. I mean I'd be okay saying "Some of my best friends are polysnoggers!"

so, different levels of polysnogging. ok, im down with that.

hell has different levels, why not kissing?!

 

[rgraham666]

Much as I'm happy at your discovery of polysnogging, vella, I'm afraid I can't join you.

I only snog women. I generally don't even like my gender as acquaintances or colleagues. The thought of snogging them makes me kinda throw up in the back of my throat.

Sorry.

You're not, like, going to keep me from getting married or anything are you?

 

[vella_ms]

Much as I'm happy at your discovery of polysnogging, vella, I'm afraid I can't join you.

I only snog women. I generally don't even like my gender as acquaintances or colleagues. The thought of snogging them makes me kinda throw up in the back of my throat.

Sorry.

You're not, like, going to keep me from getting married or anything are you?

keep you from getting married? hell no! but can i give you away?!

im looking forward to giving you a big ol' kiss when i see you, btw.
brace yourself.

 

[TheeGoatPig]

Much as I'm happy at your discovery of polysnogging, vella, I'm afraid I can't join you.

I only snog women. I generally don't even like my gender as acquaintances or colleagues. The thought of snogging them makes me kinda throw up in the back of my throat.

Sorry.

Well said.

And I'm not interested in straight women that just want to kiss either, so don't take it personally vella

 

[vella_ms]

Well said.

And I'm not interested in straight women that just want to kiss either, so don't take it personally vella

well, sometimes kissing leads to other things, yes?
to quote the fabulous mr. cleese:
"don't just go diving straight for the clitoris, boy."

 

[voluptuary_manque]

I won't go so far as to polysnog but as a good Italian, I'm quite at home with polyhugging. Does that count for something? And, yes, Rob I will graciously leave you alone or nothing more than a firm, manly handshake.

On the other hand, I find the pilot's assessment distasteful and inaccurate. But then, I'm from California . . .

 

[The_Fool]

Vella la la....

I keese you always, tongue and all...

Pobly not hump your thigh. Nebber know tho, I might be a lezbean pretender.

 

[TheeGoatPig]

well, sometimes kissing leads to other things, yes?
to quote the fabulous mr. cleese:
"don't just go diving straight for the clitoris, boy."

Well no, I wouldn't do that. (I couldn't say if I have ever even found a clitoris, I know I have never seen one )

But it sometimes it sounds like you only want to kiss men, and not progress any further, which sounds like teasing. And sometimes teasing hurts

I still like you though

 

[sr71plt]

thats a pretty damn sad commentary. i hate it.

That could be because, being a woman, you want it to be the way you want it (and will make an effort to redecorate it to your taste if you can). Unfortunately, hating it doesn't make it any less valid from a man's perspective--which is what you asked for, I think.

 

[TxRad]

polysnoggers of the world...UNITE!

and keese keese keese like youve never keesed before!

And I keese keese keese you

Now, here is the Vella we all



As for sr's post. I agree with VM totally.