Fuck Women

[NoJo]

For once, I decided to forego foreplay and get straight down to business with the missus, before she was "ready for me." Afterwords she said "Wow. Why aren't you always like that?"

Please vote:

Fuck me now, or Foreplay first?

 

[oggbashan]

It depends on the lady's mood at the time.

If you knew what she wanted, each and every time, you'd be a genius.

Og

 

[NoJo]

It depends on the lady's mood at the time.

If you knew what she wanted, each and every time, you'd be a genius.

Og

I was thinking she could at least hold up a card or something every time for a few weeks indicating what she wanted. I could plot a graph in Excel and possibly detect some pattern. It would make sex much more spontaneous that way.

 

[dreampilot79]

I was thinking she could at least hold up a card or something every time for a few weeks indicating what she wanted. I could plot a graph in Excel and possibly detect some pattern. It would make sex much more spontaneous that way.

I agree with og.. it depends on the mood....

I only get cards held up AFTER!... and I didn't know you could score a 0.1 before!!!!! So much for my mind reading!

 

[OhMissScarlett]

This seems quite the novel concept, but why can't she just tell you? A lot of times, I want my partner to just get down to it. If that's what I want I just say "Fuck me, now!". Same goes for the foreplay. Maybe I'm just a demanding sort of girl.

 

[R. Richard]

If you knew what she wanted, each and every time, you'd be a genius.

Og

Og, I must politely disagree with you on this. If a man knows a lady's mood each and every time, there is a medical term for this. He is a liar!

 

[Lauren Hynde]

I was thinking she could at least hold up a card or something every time for a few weeks indicating what she wanted. I could plot a graph in Excel and possibly detect some pattern. It would make sex much more spontaneous that way.

Oh my god. You're just like your character in Charley's Literotica Olympics story.

 

[English Lady]

*smiles* it depends on my mood but I probablycome down on the side of "fuck me now" more often than not.

Simply because the flirting foreplay usually goes on through the day when the baby is awake and the odd grope is all we can get and when little ones in bed I pounce...already at boiling point

 

[NoJo]

It depends on the lady's mood at the time.

Og

Ah, variety is the scheiss of life.

 

[TheEarl]

This seems quite the novel concept, but why can't she just tell you? A lot of times, I want my partner to just get down to it. If that's what I want I just say "Fuck me, now!". Same goes for the foreplay. Maybe I'm just a demanding sort of girl.

See, now that I heartily approve of.

The Earl

 

[dreampilot79]

This seems quite the novel concept, but why can't she just tell you? A lot of times, I want my partner to just get down to it. If that's what I want I just say "Fuck me, now!". Same goes for the foreplay. Maybe I'm just a demanding sort of girl.

Why not tell indeed? Communication would clear up a lot of interpersonal problems.. including sex

 

[Guest]

A plain "Fuck me" can be all the foreplay I need at times.

Perdita

 

[cloudy]

A plain "Fuck me" can be all the foreplay I need at times.

Perdita

Yep...or sometimes even better, "I want to fuck you."

 

[NoJo]

Yep...or sometimes even better, "I want to fuck you."

Cloudy, that's my problem: WHICH ONE??

 

[yui]

Edited for Frivolity. Regarding your question of foreplay or fuck, it just depends on the moment and which direction the wind is blowing.

 

[cloudy]

Cloudy, that's my problem: WHICH ONE??

I can only speak for myself, of course, but "I want to fuck you" communicates an almost animalistic desire for me - I love that.

 

[lucky-E-leven]

I don't care whether there's foreplay or not, so long as a mutual need is being met. Foreplay used to be crucial for me because the feeling of being wanted was missing. Now, it's a given and foreplay is considered part of the fuck or its own version of it anyway.

Having kids makes a big difference in the "Here/Now" mojo too.

~lucky

 

[NoJo]

I can only speak for myself, of course, but "I want to fuck you" communicates an almost animalistic desire for me - I love that.

I think I'm beginning to understand where I'm having problems. I tend to mumble, so all she probably hears is "mmbl mbl FUCK YOU."

 

[Bridget69]

I definitely need a lot of foreplay. The increasing buildup is often the best part.

 

[cloudy]

I think I'm beginning to understand where I'm having problems. I tend to mumble, so all she probably hears is "mmbl mbl FUCK YOU."

Yeah, it's not quite the same, is it?

 

[shereads]

The more he wants what he wants when he wants it, the more what I want begins to be just like what he wants. Foreplay is good. Being wanted so urgently that there's no time for foreplay is good enough to make foreplay irrelevent.

I want something...A Diet Coke! That's what's missing.

 

[doormouse]

Yep...or sometimes even better, "I want to fuck you."

Yep, agreed. Nothing beats the direct approach.

 

[sweetnpetite]

I was thinking she could at least hold up a card or something every time for a few weeks indicating what she wanted. I could plot a graph in Excel and possibly detect some pattern. It would make sex much more spontaneous that way.

Not a bad idea.

If you're observant enough, you might be able to detect a pattern without the cards. She might very well have one that she isn't even aware of.

I read an ariticle once about how what turnes a woman on changes throughout the month. (I guess when she's most fertile is when she's attracted to 'bad boys' and 'cavemen' and at some other point in the cycle she's attracted to a nurturing 'nice guy'

I would think cave man=fuck me now and nice guy=forplay (or pampering, or domestic chores which can be a real turn on believe it or not)

I'm sure you can probably find a similer article online- but only if your'r not actually looking for it (at least that's how it goes for me)

try, fertility and arousal or something like that.

 

[OhMissScarlett]

See, now that I heartily approve of.

The Earl

Maybe some women think a man's feelings would be hurt if they gave specific instructions. I haven't met a man(or a woman)yet who has been offended by me saying "Rub here," "Lick me," or "Harder!". To me, the only really offensive thing you can do is lay there and pretend things are the way you want them when they're not.

 

[sweetnpetite]

To me, the only really offensive thing you can do is lay there and pretend things are the way you want them when they're not.

I know somebody who seems to prefer it that way.