Fuck or get fucked?

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Ladies, fuck or get fucked. What’s your preference?

I cling to the idea that the men do the fucking and we girls get fucked. Even when I’m on top, I still have some sense that I’m being fucked simply because the cock is inside me; I am the one being penetrated. Variety is nice for the change but I do prefer a position that gives me that obvious feeling that I’m the one getting fucked. I feel more womanly when I assume the submissive role and surrender myself to him. When it’s time for him to enter me, I want him to position me where he will have complete control (I love the missionary). Once he is inside me I want him to show me that I belong to him, that I am his to fuck, to take full advantage of my vulnerability and master me with his cock. I enjoy being pinned beneath him, seemingly helpless, with little choice than to just take his cock and get fucked. I want him to see what he’s doing to me, how he and his cock have complete control over me as he ravages my pussy. I want him to see my coherence waning each time he makes me cum. I want him to see that he’s achieving his manly desire of fucking me senseless. :eek:
 
You just hit the nail on with head when describing being fucked. Thats exact intent I when Im doing the Fucking. Not just letting her feel my cock. But to feel my weight on top her or feeling my strength through my gasps of her hip. Directing her how to lie moving her from position to position the way I want.
 
I really like both. It's nice to have a man become the dominant one and just take control and use me to take out his frustrations or just enjoy me however he wants, but there are also times when I like to have the control and let him know that he and it are mine and I'll do what I want. I tend to like things "just so". I think there should always be some give and take but every now and again it's great to just let someone have their way with you. :)
 
Well... I prefer to be fucked I guess because I'm selfish, but missionary is my favorite position. I would never tell a man this though because I love how good and excited he feels even I do the fucking. I feel like men do a lot of the work and they deserve to lay back and relax or have a view that they wish of. I m stupid, I like to lay him on a pillow, make him comfy, start to kiss and caress his body until he's relaxed and do his favorite position or try to do a special treat. I'm so girly, I love running my fingers through his hair, kissing him, interlocking hands, making him put his hands on my boobs. I wish I wasn't so vanilla. (Although that is my favorite ice cream flavor)
 
my wife

My wife lets me "do all the work". Which is fine by me. I believe that chivalry isn't dead so I make sure my wife cums first. Then basically I get to do whatever i want, how I want. We both exactly what we want.
 
Well... I prefer to be fucked I guess because I'm selfish, but missionary is my favorite position. I would never tell a man this though because I love how good and excited he feels even I do the fucking. I feel like men do a lot of the work and they deserve to lay back and relax or have a view that they wish of. I m stupid, I like to lay him on a pillow, make him comfy, start to kiss and caress his body until he's relaxed and do his favorite position or try to do a special treat. I'm so girly, I love running my fingers through his hair, kissing him, interlocking hands, making him put his hands on my boobs. I wish I wasn't so vanilla. (Although that is my favorite ice cream flavor)



I like the way you start it off. Getting him comfortable first its always good way to start it off. I like when a woman initiates sex from time to time.
 
I like the way you start it off. Getting him comfortable first its always good way to start it off. I like when a woman initiates sex from time to time.

Thank you, I appreciate that. I would initiate sex quite frequently. Maybe almost more than he would...
 
Both me and my partner initiate. While he is undeniably the dominant one of the two of us (I'm a switch, but submissive to him), we alternate between who 'controls' the position, speed etc depending on what we feel like at the time.
 
Oh, DEFINITELY get fucked. I want to be penetrated, taken, claimed, often used, and filled, stretched, and drilled to my depths until I can't handle more...then given more. If I'm with a guy, I view it as my obligation to give him pleasure by giving him my body (Dear feminists....please shut up....I get my pleasure too, every time....so shhhhh). And that means I'm going to take anything he desires to give. And I tend to find guys who want to be the giver so to speak. Yes please.
 
Him on top fucking is the most satisfying for both of us. While getting on top and fucking him is nice for a while, as is getting pounded doggy style, it's not as good as him being on top. When I've cum enough I like my legs over his shoulders and for him to fuck me hard until he shoots a load deep inside me.
 
Getting fucked. Definitely. I just can´t think of myself as fucking, even the few times I am on top. Whatever happens, whatever is going on (like him taking out his frustration on me, as another forumer mentioned), I am working for his pleasure, or getting worked for it. So no, I am definitely not fucking. For me, it is more like serving him, or taking it. I enjoy being submissive, my partner´s cockholster and cumbucket, whether I am being passive or active about it.
 
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Fuck...though who could resist a beautiful pair of breasts and a sexy smile while a woman rides you?
 
Oh, DEFINITELY get fucked. I want to be penetrated, taken, claimed, often used, and filled, stretched, and drilled to my depths until I can't handle more...then given more. If I'm with a guy, I view it as my obligation to give him pleasure by giving him my body (Dear feminists....please shut up....I get my pleasure too, every time....so shhhhh). And that means I'm going to take anything he desires to give. And I tend to find guys who want to be the giver so to speak. Yes please.

Yes, this exactly. I am there to be used, filled and fucked.
 
Oh she gets fucked. It's not about dominance or control. It's that my deep pleasure is in initiating and her deep pleasure is in responding. Then there are times when we exchange roles and enjoy that for a change. But even then, most of the time she is getting fucked; like she'll say, "Take me at the end of the bed" and she'll go there, standing, bent over. And what do I do? She ends up with her face in the duvet, my hand on her neck, I've a foot on the floor and another by her waist, and the headboard is doing percussion against the wall of course. - So that's when she's fucking me.
 
Oh she gets fucked. It's not about dominance or control. It's that my deep pleasure is in initiating and her deep pleasure is in responding. Then there are times when we exchange roles and enjoy that for a change. But even then, most of the time she is getting fucked; like she'll say, "Take me at the end of the bed" and she'll go there, standing, bent over. And what do I do? She ends up with her face in the duvet, my hand on her neck, I've a foot on the floor and another by her waist, and the headboard is doing percussion against the wall of course. - So that's when she's fucking me.

I'd love to watch you two Simon :)

So much passion and raw intensity. It would be such a beautiful sight you stud!
 
Oh, DEFINITELY get fucked. I want to be penetrated, taken, claimed, often used, and filled, stretched, and drilled to my depths until I can't handle more...then given more. If I'm with a guy, I view it as my obligation to give him pleasure by giving him my body (Dear feminists....please shut up....I get my pleasure too, every time....so shhhhh). And that means I'm going to take anything he desires to give. And I tend to find guys who want to be the giver so to speak. Yes please.



Agreed. Nature gave us the means of providing sexual pleasure to our man, and it is extremely enjoyable to do so. I surrender to him completely, aching to be dominated by his masculinity. When the moment is right he rolls me onto my back. I open my legs as he moves on top of me and between them. I arch my pelvis upward, offering him my pussy, inviting his hard cock to enter inside me. He presses against me and I feel that wonderful sensation of being stretched open. Slowly and pleasantly tortuously he takes his time entering me. Eventually he is balls deep inside me. I can’t help but release a sigh of content to have his cock so deep inside me, filling me completely. The hardness of his cock filling me feels so strong and powerful, exuding a sense of utter mastery and dominance over me. I am his, aching for him to assert that I am his, to have his hard cock thrusting deeply into me again and again, aching for him to have his way with me and fuck me. As I mention when starting this thread I want to give him the satisfaction of fucking me senseless. Eventually I want that final act of being claimed as his when he sinks the full length of his cock into me and shoots his sperm deep inside me. Afterward, as I lay snuggled his arms and basking in that freshly fucked afterglow, I have the pleasure of seeing that look of self satisfaction in his face, that look of his knowing that he has just fucked my brains out. I have pleased my man. How, that simple and extremely enjoyable act of giving him some pussy. :eek:
 
Getting fucked. Definitely. I just can´t think of myself as fucking, even the few times I am on top. Whatever happens, whatever is going on (like him taking out his frustration on me, as another forumer mentioned), I am working for his pleasure, or getting worked for it. So no, I am definitely not fucking. For me, it is more like serving him, or taking it. I enjoy being submissive, my partner´s cockholster and cumbucket, whether I am being passive or active about it.



I too have some difficulty as seeing myself doing the fucking. Being the woman, being the one who gets penetrated, having that cock in me has me feeling that I’m being fucked, even when I happen to be in the dominate position. I do prefer a position where he is dominate, where he has control of the thrusting. Those positions definitely allow me that sensation that I’m being fucked. :eek:
 
I'm not either dominant or submissive, I simply like to make sure the lady I'm with has a great time, whether she is riding (should I say, using) me, though normally it's me pumping. I like to vary the speed and intensity depending on the mood, off course most of the ladies I play with do like it hard and fast in whatever position we are in.
 
I'm not either dominant or submissive, I simply like to make sure the lady I'm with has a great time, whether she is riding (should I say, using) me, though normally it's me pumping. I like to vary the speed and intensity depending on the mood, off course most of the ladies I play with do like it hard and fast in whatever position we are in.


That is another enjoyable point of him doing the fucking, that variance in the speed and intensity of his thrusting. Not knowing when he’s going to speed up or slow down, not knowing when he’ll change the assertiveness of his thrusting. :eek:
 
That is another enjoyable point of him doing the fucking, that variance in the speed and intensity of his thrusting. Not knowing when he’s going to speed up or slow down, not knowing when he’ll change the assertiveness of his thrusting. :eek:

That is a good point, sometimes teasing, thrusting very shallow, then when she isn't expecting it, a hard deep thrust, usually makes the lady gasp in pleasure :)
 
That is a good point, sometimes teasing, thrusting very shallow, then when she isn't expecting it, a hard deep thrust, usually makes the lady gasp in pleasure :)

That’s the type of fucking that can have my eyes rolling back in my head and taking my breath away with every deep thrust. :eek:
 
Both please!

Speaking as a Bi guy, I enjoy both. In general I prefer to fuck smaller men, especially if they're fem looking. Men's asses are just so nice, small and tight.

And I enjoy being taken by a larger, stronger or younger man. I love to surrender to his strength, and I'll give him my ass eagerly, as long as he's not too rough
 
Ladies, fuck or get fucked. What’s your preference?

I cling to the idea that the men do the fucking and we girls get fucked. Even when I’m on top, I still have some sense that I’m being fucked simply because the cock is inside me; I am the one being penetrated. Variety is nice for the change but I do prefer a position that gives me that obvious feeling that I’m the one getting fucked. I feel more womanly when I assume the submissive role and surrender myself to him. When it’s time for him to enter me, I want him to position me where he will have complete control (I love the missionary). Once he is inside me I want him to show me that I belong to him, that I am his to fuck, to take full advantage of my vulnerability and master me with his cock. I enjoy being pinned beneath him, seemingly helpless, with little choice than to just take his cock and get fucked. I want him to see what he’s doing to me, how he and his cock have complete control over me as he ravages my pussy. I want him to see my coherence waning each time he makes me cum. I want him to see that he’s achieving his manly desire of fucking me senseless. :eek:

I would agree that for the most part since the cock is going inside of me I am the one being fucked. However I guess that could be switched with options like pegging and maybe some more aggressive positions where women are in control.
 
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