Fuck buddies?

[Svedish_Chef]

Whats the go with them... who's got em.... how do they work?


Is it worth it?

 

[KillerMuffin]

The batteries always seem to give out before you've finally gotten that nineteenth mind-boggling orgasm.

Oh.

*grins sheepishly* Wrong fuck buddy...

I would, but you live too far away and the StudMuffin would pop a bloodvessel before he popped most of yours. Then I'd have to beat him up and he's bigger than I am so it would take a while. I don't think he'd let me either.

 

[lavender]

 

[stargazer76]

The batteries always seem to give out before you've finally gotten that nineteenth mind-boggling orgasm.

Oh.

*grins sheepishly* Wrong fuck buddy...

I would, but you live too far away and the StudMuffin would pop a bloodvessel before he popped most of yours. Then I'd have to beat him up and he's bigger than I am so it would take a while. I don't think he'd let me either.

Killer, that was my first thought too.....but see, that's why you get the double-sided dildo. I named mine Bert and Ernie. I know if Bert isn't in the mood or has a headache, I can always rely on Ernie to pull through for me. But this thread isn't about that, is it? *sigh* Back on topic...back on topic....Okay, fuck buddies: I'd offer my services, but Lightning might get pissy, and I make it a point not to deal with Lightning when he's pissy. Feel free to ask if he's willing to donate to your worthy cause, though. You never know. He might be in a charitable mood.

 

[BlondGirl]

Fucks buddies can be lots of fun and a great stress reliever.
Of course there is that whole pregnancy issue--

My son is now 9.

Damn those pills.

 

[Mistress]

MY fuck buddies use to be my old friends who at one time had (Some what of)a relationship with me. And of course all my old friends were male, but whenever the Boyfriend came, I never talk to them. Mainly I didn't hang out with the hoodlums any more.

I have no need for Fuck Buddies in my life any more, really didn't need them in the first place but I was naive and stupid. I had way too many one night stands with good friends, and that ruined our friendship.

 

[Expertise]

Cheffie there is a lot to be said for CSBF.... casual sex between friends, at least so long as it remains that.

Just think of it as a delightful path through a garden..... with a land mine under every hosta, rose and tulip for those who are clumsy or prone to stumbling.

 

[Angel]

As long as you can truly not get too emotionally tied up in the thing. That is the key.

That is definitely the key. I get too emotionally attatched to people, so I guess I'm not cut out for a fuck buddy. I had one once, worst experience of my life.


If you are the type who can deal with no strings attatched then hey more power to ya.

 

[bluntforcemama]

Never had a fuck buddy, I don't think I can have casual, meaningless sex. But I've never tried, either.

 

[*Lazer*]

As GWB says "wouldn't be prudent"

Naaaaahhhh I don't believe in them. Someone always ends up with prickly rash er I mean feelings.

 

[Xander]

Have had a couple of fuck buddies in my life. However to me, it did take a bit out of me.
AND some of them, we did the BAD thing and tried to be more than fuck buddies...Big fucking mistake.

However, it is fun and a stress reliever unlike any other. I dont need that anymore....For a simple reason, I can't sleep with anyone I am not emotionally attached to.
Been there, dont that....and its over.

Same thing goes for one night stands....though I wouldn't consider a one night stand "fuck buddy" status.

If you can shut down those loving emotions, and just have mindboggling sex, hey power to you, and go for it.

Otherwise, dont go near it.

 

[Guest]

*wonders if anyone has guessed that she is such a mush?*


ok tried the whole 'buddy' relationship once.... a mutual agreement made by me and an ex.......we would just have sex and we promised that no feelings would develop..... It worked for about a week... then I realized that I still had some feelings for him and thats why I agreed to something so completely stupid....

and while I was falling back in love with him.... he was falling in love with two cousins who he could fuck at the same time


so I would say......... Don't do it with someone you have ever had feelings for

 

[FantasticJones]

I've generally had poor experiences with fucking friends. There's always something between you and it gets all awkward and blah, blah, blah.

So you seperate. Guys I'd like to fuck in one pile Guys I want to be friends with in another. Everyone wins.

 

[SummitXMK]

Fuck Buddies (Plural)

Fuck buddies are great. Ive had a few and would definetly recomend them. Especially if you can keep it unemotional (is that a word?) Don't expect it to last long and don't try to make it more even if you feel that way. Just let it go and move on. You will stay friends that way. Don't brag a bout it to your friends chances are they will sooner or later. The longer you keep it quite the longer it will last and the better the sex seems to be. Its kinda like a secret. Don't do it with anybody at work. Casual friends are the best. The best way to work into it is after you have had sex with them before. Like a drunken one night stand. Then when she tells you she doesn't feel for you like that tell that's alright but lets leave the option open. The best ones will actually set you up with there friends and then want to know all about it. THESE ARE RARE!!! But worth the wait

Just remember its just a ride not a relationship. If you feel her/him starting to get attached its time to end it.

 

[lavender]

 

[Weevil]

But, I don't think I'm a typical female.

One look at your chest would tell that

 

[Lightning]

Charity...

Killer, that was my first thought too.....but see, that's why you get the double-sided dildo. I named mine Bert and Ernie. I know if Bert isn't in the mood or has a headache, I can always rely on Ernie to pull through for me. But this thread isn't about that, is it? *sigh* Back on topic...back on topic....Okay, fuck buddies: I'd offer my services, but Lightning might get pissy, and I make it a point not to deal with Lightning when he's pissy. Feel free to ask if he's willing to donate to your worthy cause, though. You never know. He might be in a charitable mood.

Well, Svedish... I might be in a charitable mood, but I'd have to be involved somehow. Hmmm.

*Thinking of the dastardly deeds and pleasures.*

 

[GuyJD]

I had one and she gave me the greatest blow job. Then I accidently dropped her on a knife and she deflated.

Honestly, I once had a friend who constantly told me that she gives "great head". Finally, she proved it to me and DAMN!!!
We had our greatest fuck session on the night before I left New Orleans.

 

[OUTSIDER]

Been there done that got the T shirt.

When it works it's great, when it goes wrong it fucking sucks donkey shit.

 

[floridaguy64]

Been there, Done that...........enjoyed the sheeeeeit out of it!

Although I never became attached enough to her to want to marry her, I would have done anything in the world for her as a friend, and yes, the sex was ecstatically fulfilling, and extremeley exhausting!

Ours was a relationship that began as my being smitten with her, got to know her after time, we subsequently became seriously good friends......................... she turned to me one day and asked if I would be able to further enhance our friendship, as she knew that we both had mutual sexual interests............................

From the first time, till the last time, and all the times in between...........over the course of 5 years............that had to be the most intense sexual and fulfilling times of my life. Ahhhh, to be in my mid 20's again....................................

Would I do it again?????????????????????? You bet your azzzzzz I would!!!!!!!!! Would I get too attached in the process? Who knows? Does anyone ever know what event in life will be that earth shattering event that changes everything forever?


Just a thought!!!

 

[Cirrus]

I've had a couple of them...if you're close it can work out great as long as both of you know and agree on what you feel, and what's expected. Talk talk talk talk before you do anything physical, and if it works the other way around, don't avoid it like it never happened. I lost one good friend that way.

 

[doctor_insanus]

Never been able to do it... just need some sort of real emotional attachment before I can get that close to someone.

Probably explains that long dry spell in high school... dork!

 

[SGTBIGDOG420]

i have had a few some work some dont, its the chance you take. when it works it is incredible. i highly recomend a good f/b theres nothing like no strings attached hardcore fucking to relieve stress.


by the way i'm looking for a good fuck buddy. i had one but something happend (i still havnt figured out what yet) , so i'm in the process of auditions.

 

[Stonedagger]

fuck buddies

Well for one thing sex without commitment is a big turn on- but being in love goes a long way to fulfilling ones inner self!
But dirty sex with a long time sex partner has it's own fulfillment!
So I am undecided!!!

Sex is natural, sex is good, not everybody done it, not everybody should...

 

[*Lazer*]

I wondered what the fuck happened to George Micheals

Hey Cheffie are you out cruising or curious or what??? Inquiring minds want to know!