Fuck Buddies... so what's the deal????

[T.H. Oughts]

If they mention they had a bad day do you ask them to wait to tell you the details after at least your third orgasm or do you not mention their day at all in afterglow ????

If they are moving house do you offer to only help move their bed and leave all garage boxes alone. Or do you only help if you are promised an orgasm for every box you carry????

Do you only invite them to your birthday drinks if there is gonna be no other chance of getting laid that night????

Do you tell your friends about your fuck buddy or do you hide them in the closet when your best friend visits????

Do you let them shower after or do you not want their DNA spread around the house to much???

Do you go out to the movies with them or is it pure fucking and then out the door????

So what's the deal..... how personal do you get with a Fuck Buddy???

 

[SweetCherry]

When I had "fuck buddies". it depended on the person. One was a guy I'd dated and was still very good friends with. I still talk to him now and again, even tho he's married. Another one of my fuck buddies was a guy I worked with. We didn't really spread it around. He'd show up to my apartment sometimes and bring me booze. We'd drink and have sex. Then he'd go home. That was that.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I suppose everyone takes on a FB for different reasons. I'm just curious to here what people thoughts are in general about them...

 

[Backyard sweaty]

Should this be qualified with: How badly do you want to keep this fuck buddy a fuck buddy?

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Should this be qualified with: How badly do you want to keep this fuck buddy a fuck buddy?

But it depends on the ground rules of the FB set up how far you have to push the cart for it to work???

 

[QuickDuck]

My fuck buddy was also my best friend.

we did everything best friends do... we still do, but without the "fringe bennifits"

/wave
QD

 

[T.H. Oughts]

/wave
QD

/wave
left bobbie

 

[QuickDuck]

/wave
left bobbie

and where's the right one hmmmmmm?

do i get pictures? diagrammes? hmm huh? huh?

 

[mig]

I used to have a fuck buddy.

She never fucked me,only my buddies.

 

[Guest]

 

[QuickDuck]

Ok, that's funny

it is... but in a sad way.

 

[Orlanth]

TH... Well you be my fuck buddy?

 

[Ladybird]

I have a fuck buddy.

It's not something that I talk about with my friends, and I'm sure he doesn't either.

We are friends.. we chat about our lives, our children etc... but we're also sexually attracted to each other. He's married, so that's the extent of our relationship. If he weren't, then I may be looking at him differently.

But as things are now.. we're both very happy with our 'arrangement'.

 

[bknight2602]

All I can say is that I wish I had one now. To have all these concerns and problems to deal with.

 

[Wiggles]

TH, I think you're thinking about it too much. Like anything else in life these things just go along their path without any special grace from the blundering lost fools who live it.

I've only had one fuck buddy and it was like any other relationship except for the fact that we didn't get caught up in the day to day shit. We just enjoyed each others sensuality and sexuality. We didn't talk about it or us afterwards, we just snoozed. In the morning we kissed and he went out the door.

In short, I think fuck buddies are for late night entertainment. There's a certain amount of tenderness and caring (as we would for any other human being) but we don't pile on commitment and pretty words.

I'm in a weird mood, hope that makes sense to Somebody. LoL

 

[mike_mike02128]

That's the good thing about Fuck buddies.......none of that stuff matters. Otherwise they'd be your boy/girlfriend.

 

[Freya]

My fuck buddy and I talk about our lives with each other. I've seen him in great stress, I've held him while he cried, he's done the same for me. We dont' go out on dates, but we do get together with friends being in the same social circle. All of our friends know we fuck. We set the ground rules at the beginning that we are friends who fuck - that means if one of us needed a date for a function, the other would try to attend, we could be seen together in public, or be at the same places separately and it not be all about sex at the end. We sleep over afterwards - it's not a fuck and run thing. It's been 6 months now, and it's still working out great.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

and where's the right one hmmmmmm?
do i get pictures? diagrammes? hmm huh? huh?

Presure, presure, presure..

/wave
right bobbie

 

[KillerMuffin]

I asked the StudMuffin for a fuckbuddy for my birthday. He said no. Tennessee is too far away, he doesn't care how hot she is.

 

[SailorC272002]

My fuck buddy and I talk about our lives with each other. I've seen him in great stress, I've held him while he cried, he's done the same for me. We dont' go out on dates, but we do get together with friends being in the same social circle. All of our friends know we fuck. We set the ground rules at the beginning that we are friends who fuck - that means if one of us needed a date for a function, the other would try to attend, we could be seen together in public, or be at the same places separately and it not be all about sex at the end. We sleep over afterwards - it's not a fuck and run thing. It's been 6 months now, and it's still working out great.

Just being curious/nosy, I always figured a fuck buddy would be just for some mutually satisfying sex but for a variety of reasons not be good for much else. You are describing something to me that appears to be very close to a love relationship. What would prevent you from falling in love with this person?

 

[QuickDuck]

Presure, presure, presure..

/wave
right bobbie

wheee nice to know i have a certain "pull" on things.

please excuse this highjacking, we now return you to your regular fuck buddy thread

 

[T.H. Oughts]

wheee nice to know i have a certain "pull" on things.

Hold on you are the bloke.... you are ment to be doing the pulling.

 

[SimGuy]

I've had three FWB's during the past three years.
They were pretty much like what Freya described. Friends who also shared sex with each other. We were friends first. Then came the sexual sharing with each other. Now that relocation for the new job has made sex no longer an option, we remain in contact as friends.
The overlying aspect wasn't sex, it was friends.
We shared with each other. Sometimes we shared sex.

 

[SailorC272002]

I understand FB but FWB?

 

[SimGuy]

I understand FB but FWB?

Sorry, that would be Friends With Benefits.
Once again, friends comes first.