Hello all, I have been scouring the net, and I've come across this site a number of times in my wanderings. It seems like a very nice place, and a likely one where I might find some answers.
I am a female to male transsexual who has been on testosterone for about a year. I'm very bisexual, and interested in penetration and being penetrated (I'm a fan of both at the same time, really.) I have had the damndest time, however, finding versatile sex toys that can work for certain things. I'd say I have maybe an inch in length (I'll have to measure again sometime, but I odn't think it's grown much since I last checked.)
First off I'm looking for something like a penis sleeve, but for a much much much smaller penis. I tried getting some women's finger sleeves but they were, unfortunately, much too huge. I've got a penis pump that helps with size, but while it does some interesting things, I'm not getting any results worth mentioning.
Secondly, I'm interested in a hands free harness but I'm not certain I'll be fucking anyone with it. For various reasons the idea of having a dick would help me get off, especially if I've got something physical in my hands I can play with. I know the feeldoe has ridges that are supposed to be quite lovely, but has anyone actually used this for things other than penetrating another person or themselves? For example if I were humping a pillow with it (I'm sure there are better options, but that's the first thing that comes to mind.), would I get anything out of the ridges? I know it would be an expensive way of getting off, but if it actually does anything, it'd be totally worth it for me. I've also thought that if I got a sleeve or something and utilized it with that, it would be a good imitation.
Anyway, any thoughts would be helpful. I've tried asking some other places, and get no answers whatsoever, or at least unhelpful ones (Usually the only people who think critically try to help me with anal toys. Which I adore, but have nothing to do with my questions.)
I am a female to male transsexual who has been on testosterone for about a year. I'm very bisexual, and interested in penetration and being penetrated (I'm a fan of both at the same time, really.) I have had the damndest time, however, finding versatile sex toys that can work for certain things. I'd say I have maybe an inch in length (I'll have to measure again sometime, but I odn't think it's grown much since I last checked.)
First off I'm looking for something like a penis sleeve, but for a much much much smaller penis. I tried getting some women's finger sleeves but they were, unfortunately, much too huge. I've got a penis pump that helps with size, but while it does some interesting things, I'm not getting any results worth mentioning.
Secondly, I'm interested in a hands free harness but I'm not certain I'll be fucking anyone with it. For various reasons the idea of having a dick would help me get off, especially if I've got something physical in my hands I can play with. I know the feeldoe has ridges that are supposed to be quite lovely, but has anyone actually used this for things other than penetrating another person or themselves? For example if I were humping a pillow with it (I'm sure there are better options, but that's the first thing that comes to mind.), would I get anything out of the ridges? I know it would be an expensive way of getting off, but if it actually does anything, it'd be totally worth it for me. I've also thought that if I got a sleeve or something and utilized it with that, it would be a good imitation.
Anyway, any thoughts would be helpful. I've tried asking some other places, and get no answers whatsoever, or at least unhelpful ones (Usually the only people who think critically try to help me with anal toys. Which I adore, but have nothing to do with my questions.)
