Frigid married women

[Imi]

I was just looking over the personals and the conclusion I come to is that this country is filled with frigid married women. I wonder what it is about marriage that turns the libido off in so many women.

I wonder if it's the stressors of being mom and/or supermom with a career. I remember an article that JamesG5 found about women who responded with more sex drive when their spouses started handling some of the more mundane things like doing dishes, vaccuuming and helping with the kids. The article maintained that it was necessary to have help from the spouse to allow space for desire to bloom.

Or it could be that women just don't have a sex drive after they have kids, or that a lot of women just don't like sex.

Edited: D'OH, I forgot to include an option for women who actually LIKE sex

 

[Imi]

Now this is interesting. Two women voted that their husbands are lousy in bed. I wonder if this means that they would rather not have sex. And that's what is leading some husbands to think that their wives are frigid. If they got better in bed, maybe their women would get a better libido?

So much for practice makes perfect

 

[bgb]

Well you know which one I voted for. Very interesting question. Does it only happen that the woman is frigid, or are there lots of men out there also? It would be interesting to see the effect of age.(are there more frigid younger women and then the roles reverse as life goes on?) If so...why can't we all just be on the same "fucking" clock?!?!?!?!

What did you vote for on this one my friend?

 

[Guttergoddess]

Ummm....there's no option for...I'm a lucky girl who ADORES having sex, and has a masterful lover who can bring her to multiple orgasms.....so I can't vote.

 

[Guest]

can't vote b/c

Edited: D'OH, I forgot to include an option for women who actually LIKE sex

you sure did!

 

[Imi]

Well you know which one I voted for. Very interesting question. Does it only happen that the woman is frigid, or are there lots of men out there also? It would be interesting to see the effect of age.(are there more frigid younger women and then the roles reverse as life goes on?) If so...why can't we all just be on the same "fucking" clock?!?!?!?!

What did you vote for on this one my friend?

I realized that I forgot to put in MY category...D'OH!
"I'm a woman and I like sex and my husband keeps me satisfied just fine."

And then I couldn't go back and edit the poll *shrug*