Fries My Ass

[alone_married]

What really gets me, is you establish a chat with someone and then they would like a picture. Once they see the photo, if a person is the wrong race, or skin color, or too tall, or too short, or too thin.....

Then all of a sudden you're not good enough.. although before the picture was shown, everything was ok.

Then comes the bullshit "oh... I too straight" or.. I'm happy and don't know why" or someother bullshit...

It really sucks... and I don't understand what is wrong.. I thought this stuff was overwith ....
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[mdutchess28]

well those are shallow people darlin . you just have to overlook them

 

[Guest]

that sound

well those are shallow people darlin . you just have to overlook them

dont ya just love the way "darlin" sounded...

 

[Tyreesis]

Sorry to hear about that happening to you. Unfortunately, some poeple are extremely shallow but the good thing is you found out before things went further.

 

[Mogwai7]

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[alone_married]

Thank you

You know... I'm a grown man.. things went wrong at work.. then this.... it just really struck a wrong nerve...

I can handle the truth... I'm old enough now that I really don't give a crap what people think... it just really hit wrong today..

But thank you all for the encouraging words...

 

[riverwoman]

I like pics of the people I chat with but dont care much on looks,
The getting to know each other that chat allows is what I really love....... but have had the same experience as you a few times, they arent worth me getting upset about if they are that shallow.

 

[bare_pussy]

I'm sorry hon....
same thing happened to me, only it was meeting someone in person for a non-sexual encounter. He had seen a picture but once he got to the hotel lobby, he sent me a text message saying I was too "big" (i.e. fat) and I didnt tell him....and yes, i DID send a picture and no I'm not huge. Remember, I hadnt seen him in person....and this wasnt a date....

some people just aren't comfortable enough with themselves to handle the unknown, I guess. This was a grown man who did this to me, not a kid. I tried not to let it bother me, but the truth is it ruined my night in a fabulous city - i was stood up and had no alternate plans. He wasn't even matutre enough to pretend that i was OK, which is pathetic considering I was never going to see him again...AND I give a wicked blow job! lol

you'll be ok hon....just know not everyone is like that.

 

[scott40]

xxxxxxxxx

 

[LibraStud]

cute, hot looking

Part of the maturing process is seeing past the cover, then
getting inside to enjoy the real person.

Reminds me of a few young ladies I know who are going to vote for a candidate because they are cute or charismatic or hot
looking.

 

[bare_pussy]

there are hot young candidates?
My job is in politics (sorta) and I dont see anyone good looking...wait no - the Heinz boys are fuckable...

 

[Biggie74]

damn,sorry this happened to you,he was a jackass anyway,ever come to fla,let me make it up to you

I'm sorry hon....
same thing happened to me, only it was meeting someone in person for a non-sexual encounter. He had seen a picture but once he got to the hotel lobby, he sent me a text message saying I was too "big" (i.e. fat) and I didnt tell him....and yes, i DID send a picture and no I'm not huge. Remember, I hadnt seen him in person....and this wasnt a date....

some people just aren't comfortable enough with themselves to handle the unknown, I guess. This was a grown man who did this to me, not a kid. I tried not to let it bother me, but the truth is it ruined my night in a fabulous city - i was stood up and had no alternate plans. He wasn't even matutre enough to pretend that i was OK, which is pathetic considering I was never going to see him again...AND I give a wicked blow job! lol

you'll be ok hon....just know not everyone is like that.

 

[LibraStud]

there are hot young candidates?
My job is in politics (sorta) and I dont see anyone good looking...wait no - the Heinz boys are fuckable...

Heh Heh Heh !! very funny.

We know all about the eye of the beholder.

LST

 

[Missingmeds]

I'm sorry hon....
same thing happened to me, only it was meeting someone in person for a non-sexual encounter. He had seen a picture but once he got to the hotel lobby, he sent me a text message saying I was too "big" (i.e. fat) and I didnt tell him....and yes, i DID send a picture and no I'm not huge. Remember, I hadnt seen him in person....and this wasnt a date....

some people just aren't comfortable enough with themselves to handle the unknown, I guess. This was a grown man who did this to me, not a kid. I tried not to let it bother me, but the truth is it ruined my night in a fabulous city - i was stood up and had no alternate plans. He wasn't even matutre enough to pretend that i was OK, which is pathetic considering I was never going to see him again...AND I give a wicked blow job! lol

you'll be ok hon....just know not everyone is like that.

I have had that happen and then you have the players. The ones that act all interested and talk a good game until it comes to the actual meeting. They will either postpone it time and again because of various reasons or just stop talking to you altogether. I have had that one happen more times than I care to count.

 

[alone_married]

Thanks All

I see the sentiment is there that there are a lot of good ladies.... and men out there...

And surprising.. the sentiment of those from the south...

Times are changing... and for the better....

I just want to chat and write to ladies... and have an enjoyable time....

It wasn't like I was asking marriage.. or dating.....

Just some fantasies...

Thanks for all your comments...

 

[Spicy Southern Belle]

I have met a lot of people on here that seem to be less shallow than people I meet out in my day to day life. I can't help but wonder if they are like that away from the security of their computers. I would like to think so.

 

[alone_married]

Originally posted by Spicy Southern Belle
I have met a lot of people on here that seem to be less shallow than people I meet out in my day to day life. I can't help but wonder if they are like that away from the security of their computers. I would like to think so.

I would hope so.... I've seen there are so real nice ladies here... and that all I was looking for.....

 

[HyperActor]

Seriously, sometimes people who are talking online tend to forget that the other person is just that, a person. I've had it happen to me alot of times, mostly people accusing me of lieing about how old I was, even though I do tell them that I have abit of a baby face. Some people need to grow the hell up before they talk to people.