Friend zone

That was happening a long long time before anyone coined the term friend zone.

The guy in a friendship wants to fuck, the girl may or may not. It's pretty simple and getting rid of a phrase won't change that.
 
That was happening a long long time before anyone coined the term friend zone.

The guy in a friendship wants to fuck, the girl may or may not. It's pretty simple and getting rid of a phrase won't change that.

Yes, but the term friendzone action puts it on the woman not on the guy with unrequited lust.
 
Yes, but the term friendzone action puts it on the woman not on the guy with unrequited lust.

It has always been on the woman. If the guy thinks there is even a tiny chance he might get to fuck her he's gonna stick around and be her friend. It's on the woman to nix that shit but they rarely do and usually for selfish reasons. They like some guy lusting after them, they know he wants to fuck but like him being a friend so they don't let him know he isn't ever going to get any, etc.
May not be right or fair but it's how the world works.
 
I'm tired of women appearing to want dating and sex, when all they really want is for me to work on her car.

blow job upfront, anal at the end. you have to work on your negotiation, before you begin the work.
 
That happens? really?

Really. It happens. It's called toolbox pussy.

Back when this kind of thing was my problem, part of my job was to inform the young mechanics that had just bought their first refrigerator sized tool box, that it hadn't made them any better looking.
 
Really. It happens. It's called toolbox pussy.

Back when this kind of thing was my problem, part of my job was to inform the young mechanics that had just bought their first refrigerator sized tool box, that it hadn't made them any better looking.

Damn things cost a couple grand, too. Nice though. I got one with a stereo in it for no reason other than I thought it was cool. Wife was not happy with the credit card bill but I figured it would turn her on so much she'd forget about it.

Didn't work.
 
by "it" you mean the responsibility ?

The fault.

It has always been on the woman. If the guy thinks there is even a tiny chance he might get to fuck her he's gonna stick around and be her friend. It's on the woman to nix that shit but they rarely do and usually for selfish reasons. They like some guy lusting after them, they know he wants to fuck but like him being a friend so they don't let him know he isn't ever going to get any, etc.
May not be right or fair but it's how the world works.

I nix that shit, I don't like it at all. I always tell them no. This is why gay guys are so much easier to hang with. They can even help you get into corsets and such...

The only guys I want lusting after me are the ones I lust after. That may explain my absence of pictures here.
 
That women use the implication of sex to get men to do things? It happens every second of every day since the beginning of time.

I don't. I also don't use sex as a reward within relationships.

The whole punish and reward system within relationships is not something I want part of.
 
I don't. I also don't use sex as a reward within relationships.

The whole punish and reward system within relationships is not something I want part of.

You might not but others do and always have. Sex is a powerful tool against men. Any man who says different lost his dick in the war.
 
You might not but others do and always have. Sex is a powerful tool against men. Any man who says different lost his dick in the war.

Sex is a powerful tool in men too, but few know how to use it well.

Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should.

Granted, I usually scare the hell out of my guys first...
 
6 reasons the “friend zone” needs to die

I am tired of people appearing to be a friend when all they really want is sex, dating, or something. Fuck that noise!

I have long lost the link, but an article about the friendzone that I have mentioned to people here and in what passes for real life was life-changing. If a guys finds himself in the friendzone, he put himself there by tepid to disingenous declatation of his interest. Being "a friend" when you have desires for a girl is a dick move and goes nowhere good..

Leaves the girl annoyed and interminably waiting for the onerous task of letting him down politely, when if he had been bold, she might have considered him a potential partner.
 
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