I'll try not to generalize here, but if anyone else is the same they can give some advice. With me, sometimes sex will last 5 minutes and sometimes close to two hours before I have an orgasm. It is all about how comfortable I am and the pace I'm going. I don't get any complaints from my girlfriend, but I always want to change position or change pace when I feel I've been in doing one thing for too long.
I'm on top, for the most part, and I'm trying to introduce my girlfriend into trying some BDSM things. I love knowing that she's getting off, and I love to seduce her before, during, and after sex. I casually, and jokingly, brought up today that maybe I should take a break after forty minute or so just to make things more random than just different positions. She really liked the idea and said that she would like to do more than just make love when she knows I've been doing so much for a long time.
I know her body well enough that can have her beg after just a few minutes of foreplay, but when I look in her eyes I know she just some more teasing. So, I want to take breaks after a while of sex, and I want to try introducing her to some BDSM flavor. What are some good ideas we can try out or incorporate into our sex and foreplay? I've thought of the simple approach, a pair of handcuffs and maybe a blindfold, to heighten the sexual tension during foreplay. I'm looking for other ideas because she is pretty vanilla but she's open to trying newer things.
I'm on top, for the most part, and I'm trying to introduce my girlfriend into trying some BDSM things. I love knowing that she's getting off, and I love to seduce her before, during, and after sex. I casually, and jokingly, brought up today that maybe I should take a break after forty minute or so just to make things more random than just different positions. She really liked the idea and said that she would like to do more than just make love when she knows I've been doing so much for a long time.
I know her body well enough that can have her beg after just a few minutes of foreplay, but when I look in her eyes I know she just some more teasing. So, I want to take breaks after a while of sex, and I want to try introducing her to some BDSM flavor. What are some good ideas we can try out or incorporate into our sex and foreplay? I've thought of the simple approach, a pair of handcuffs and maybe a blindfold, to heighten the sexual tension during foreplay. I'm looking for other ideas because she is pretty vanilla but she's open to trying newer things.
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