Freaked Out! Advice requested

[Jerichowun]

Hey, this is my first post.

Anyways, the other night, i was with my girlfriend of 2 + years, and I was fingering her (sorry if this is crude). Anyways, she enjoyed it, but afterwards there was quite a bit of blood on the sheets (and my hands). This really freaked me out, as this had never happened before, and I was worried that i had hurt her. She said that i didn't. This had left me perplexed. We have been having sex for the majority of our relationship. This has left me seriously freaked out, so can anyone help me please?

 

[BlueSugar]

maybe a really bad scratch or cut, the lining bleeds when wripped alot. Or maybe you were playing and it was close to her period and a few orgasams made her start it a little early. This happens to me with regular sex every now and then, not often at all, but once in a blue moon.

 

[Noor]

Hey, this is my first post.

Anyways, the other night, i was with my girlfriend of 2 + years, and I was fingering her (sorry if this is crude). Anyways, she enjoyed it, but afterwards there was quite a bit of blood on the sheets (and my hands). This really freaked me out, as this had never happened before, and I was worried that i had hurt her. She said that i didn't. This had left me perplexed. We have been having sex for the majority of our relationship. This has left me seriously freaked out, so can anyone help me please?

I guess it depends where you were fingering her. But I would guess that it is menstrual blood, no big deal. sometimes you get blood at the middle of your cycle when you ovulate.
Women are pretty used to blood, we have seen a lot of it and usually have pretty good coping skills with it.
If she says you didn't hurt her believe her.
The real scary blood is this bright almost blueish blood from hemoraging, it looks very different and doesn't stop very quickly, sometimes not without intervention. If that happens there will be so much blood you won't even see your hands.

hope this helps

 

[Jerichowun]

thanks for the reply, but she finished her cycle at the beginning of this week.

 

[BlueSugar]

it still takes a little bit of time to get eeeeverything out, you could have loosened her up a little. though, it is friday, i do hope everything ends up ok.

and welcome to lit!!

 

[Noor]

thanks for the reply, but she finished her cycle at the beginning of this week.

might be some blood that didn't totally clear. when you come, you tend to expell blood. the beginning of the week is not so far away.

 

[Jerichowun]

Thanks to you both, Bluesugar and Noor,

I cannot emphasise enough the peace of mind you have brought me, and i am glad that there are people like yourselves on these message boards (especially seeing as message boards are often a place to where a lot of haters seem to spend their time).

Thankyou.

 

[BlueSugar]

aaany time, enjoy lit!