Foursome - Another Couple

[muskokan]

So I've been interested in having a threesome for just about forever but my husband said he would be more comfortable with having two other people there. We finally found another couple somewhat interested though for both us and them this is the first time we've really wanted/thought about this kind of experience.

Each husband wants to fuck the others wife, but the guys both want to see what it's like with another guy and want to watch myself and the other woman together as well. The other couple is going to be renting a private cabin for a weekend and inviting us along, all in hopes that we'll have ample opportunity in that setting to experiment a bit. We've all already agreed that condoms are a MUST we all know we are clean and she has an IUD and i'm pregnant so that obviously isn't an issue... but we all already had it in mind in the first place. Also, there is an extreme amount of trust between all of us in our personal lives, i'll let that be known now so there isn't any comments on it.

now i have quite a few questions, answer whichever of them you think you can help with, or all of them lol.

I think that we should try and do SOMETHING phsyical together before we go away, whether it's just watching a porno and sticking with our partners or having some kind of less kinky encounter before we go away, i'd really hate for us to get out there and all still be too skittish to actually do something, i think we should test the waters before jumping in.. if jumping in is what we plan on doing... Do you think this is a good idea/bad idea?

The other mans wife has said that one of her conditions on the foursome is that her husband has to let my husband fuck him, and we both want to see, they want to see us both together, but they've also said that they want to "tie us up" and blindfold us under the pretense that we won't know which one of them is doing things to us. My husband isn't really known for his stamina at this point, i'm sure a condom will increase this dramatically but anyone want to suggest a sequence of events, making any other suggestions on things we could do would also be great.

One last thing, the other guys wife wants to get drunk when it happens, she knows that she's more relaxed and playful then, but i personally don't think she needs to be, they came over for dinner with us the other night and she was flirting away with my husband while they were playing pool, no booze at all, i would hope that she would be more comfortable with the idea by the time we go away not to think that she needs alcohol, part of the reason for my first idea, any suggestions on how to breach the subject with her, i've never really spoken to her about the idea, our husbands work together and talk about it then bring the conversations back to us.

 

[yoshimitsu]

Ooh I'm jealous. I have always thought this would be fun. Of course with our high standards and antisocial lifestyles it's hard to find the right couple.

I would want to make sure every one stayed comfortable and IMO that would mean taking it a bit slow. A good way I see to do it would be to start out just hanging out on a bed or somewhere cuddling together. Maybe get naked and trade masages, get used to each others bodies and nakedness as well as seeing your SO interacting with these people.
I am not a jealous person but I have still suprised myself with my reaction to certain situations. Before hand I never would have thought the situation would make me feel weird and afterward I couldn't find a locical reason why but it did.
I think taking it slow would give those feelings an oppertunity to come up before finding my GF being banged by another guy and realizing I don't like the idea as much as I thought I did.
I think it could be a good idea to have sex in the same place but stay with your partner one time. For one I think that alone would be a huge turn on. I have also noticed that some things that push the envalope sexually for me can be a huge turn on pre orgasam but not so much post orgasam. Both couples cuddling post orgasam would be a good oppertuninty for me to get a feel for the situation in my less sexually agressive state.

As for drinking
Having sex in an altered state of consiouness can be a blast but I would prefer first experiences in a sober state of mind. (I wish I was sober the first time I had sex )
I think if you guys start out slow and get comfortable with each other first she will probably feel less need to use something else to loosen her up. And maybe a couple glasses of wine or something might get the evening started out nicely, I just wouldn't want to get too messed up. JMHO